Guys: Sexually Pleasing Women and Proper Love Making Tips

[SweedyPie]

So guys are forevermore posting on here about pleasing women (sexually). Granted all women are not the same and some of these might work on some women while others will not. Making love is a trial and error thing, as time passes you'll each (man/woman) learn more about what your partner likes, loves and what drives them CR@ZY! That's why sex does get better with time. So in trying to put some of those questions to bed, here are some instructions. Let's jump right in...

Touch her sensually

It's not a race to see how many body parts you can touch the fastest. Groping is good when things get rougher but even then doing it sensually heightens her arousal. Imagine a massage here... the masseuse glides their hands slowly down your back but they seem to catch every sport at the same time. Do this from her shoulders, down her sides (rib area), then cup her breasts and give a gentle squeeze. Then move your way down-- not too slowly but not too fast either... until you reach between her legs. Of course you can do these sensual touches during sex too. In my opinion it's like telling the woman she's way more than just a hole; that two second pause where you do this before continuing to make love will be magical.

Find her sensitive spots

This is important. You guys would know! Find out which spots make her wild. You can do this by gauging her reaction while you kiss her body. She might wiggle or shiver when you kiss her in a certain spot (besides the obvious spot) which would be your cue. Common ones are the neck, shoulders, lower abdomen, top of the spine, and the toes (I guess you would only try this if she has 'good' feet). When you know these spots, use them to your advantage. Teasing her there (touches, kisses and sucking) will make her hot, make her wet and sometimes make her beg you for sex if done well enough.

Foreplay makes a world of difference

Women like feeling special just like men do. Men enjoy getting their erections massaged/sucked and guess what, the women enjoy some pre-sex attention too. Don't be selfish, the less selfish you are is the more likely she'll want to do things to please you too. Hand stimulation is really good foreplay, and if you're into it your tongue stimulation can be as well. I recommend using them both to pack a sexual punch she'll moan/cry for. Pretend the vagina is the prize... Gently squeeze her ass, plant many soft kisses on her inner thighs; working your way up from mid thighs. Just when you get close enough to taste it... don't. Start from mid thigh on the other leg. When you get to it again, maybe give a lick but not too much (still building arousal) and focus on the clit. At the same time, begin plunging your fingers into her, adding more fingers as you see fit. When you feel like it, lick the lower part of her 'hole' while your fingers are moving in and out. Or remove your fingers and just plant your tongue in there (entirely up to you).

Nuzzling is a good thing

Rubbing your nose on hers and kissing her anywhere genlty while you're inside her is a good thing. Playing with her breasts and nuzzling them before/in between sucking them is a good thing. Kisses on the forehead are also a good thing.

Be rough but gentle

Sometimes a woman wants to get a little rough. By all means go right ahead! But understand that not all women enjoy you fucking them so hard it hurts or feeling they're suffocating because you're holding their neck that tight for those few minutes. If a woman asks you to be rough go up a notch and keep going up one notch alone until you find how far she's willing to go. Generally, you can be rough but gentle. Try squeezing her butt, pulling her down onto your shaft as you thrust forward. The amount of force used will vary depending on what she's comfortable with. Also place your arms around her (if you are having sex from the back) as if you were doing the heimlich manouvre, but let each hand hold one of her shoulders or breasts instead. Again pull her down onto you as you thrust forward. Smacking her on the ass is another way to get rough, as well as putting her in a chokehold, or my personal favourite holding on to her hair... not yanking it too hard (that hurts) but a good tug while fucking her brains out never gets old.

Giving compliments goes a long way

During sex be open... tell her she feels good, tell her you love being inside her, tell her she's so fucking sexy, tell her you could live inside her. You want to make her feel good about herself. Chances are when you start treating her like this, she'll soon start reciprocating. And if a woman at anytime decides to get on top, if you want her to do that again you should let her know how awesome it feels by; talking dirty to her (for example "Yesss, sit on my dick baby" or "You look so good riding my cock"), egging her on (example "Oh fuck yes" or "Don't stop baby"), saying "that feels so fucking good" and you can hold her by the hips and help her as she comes down on you.

Being clean is a must

Now don't underestimate this one. A clean downstairs is not hurting anybody. If you expect your erection to be sucked/licked, more times than not the woman expects you to be clean and fresh down there. A bath can be a sexy thing, you can use it to initiate sex/foreplay by you washing her (sensually) and letting her wash you (you know what I mean). You can take it to the bed after round one of hot steamy love making in the bathroom is done.

Communication is key

Be sure to tell her what you like or don't like, but be tactful about it. Have these discussions outside of sex, like maybe right after when you're both lying there naked. Maybe start this conversation by first asking her what she likes or would like to try. After you listened, tell her your side.

Please note, this is all subject to your own interpretation of what you think she will like. I hate overly long GAG takes so I decided to stop here though it already seems quite long :/ I hope it helps!

Girls let me know what you think... Guys you can too if you like :)

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend absolutly loves neck kissing. Something that I do once and a while is just when we're naked and about to have sex Ill pause for a minute and just kiss her lips/face area and do nothing else (no touching). After a couple of minutes she'll grab my penis and poke it in her vagina, which is her signal she can't take it any longer.