Guys that are married or in long term relationships, how often do you get blowjobs?

[Apple1996]

I've noticed that a lot of men complain they don't get enough oral, see jokes like this pic all the time. Its hard to understand these jokes since I give oral to my guy pretty often... like are these jokes for real are guys not getting blowjobs after marriage?

[Finchie40]

Then your marriage will last , my ex wife was very sexual in the beginning then as years went on after having kids it faded and I was sexually deprived , but I held on hoping things would get better but it didn’t it got worse , she ended up cheating on me , My girlfriend now is kind of pulling the same shit my ex did , denying me sex when I initiate it and waiting for her to come to me , and it just plain out sucks to the point part of me wants to be with someone that makes me feel wanted like I want to make them feel , the beginning is always good but then eventually it dies down and then I start feeling used and walked on like I am a door mat so part of me wants to find someone that can fulfill me and not make me feel like I have to earn sex, part of me just wants to be single and say fuck relationships all together cuz I always end up with heart break so what really is the point? People are selfish and when they have a great thing in front of them they still look elsewhere and make excuses to cheat instead of fixing what is in front of them, part of me feels like maybe I should just be selfish myself and join the crowd cuz I am tired and emotionally drained from emotionally abusive girls that think grass is greener on the other side , My girlfriend now has been showing signs of selfishness and things haven’t been good , I pretty much have to wait for her to come to me for sex and affection but if I initiate it I am denied and called a pig cuz I want to be intimate with her , So Why I end up with these selfish girls is beyond me , I know I am not perfect but I know I don’t deserve the way I am treated , my problem is I wear my heart on my sleeve and attract girls that have Daddy issues that were raised by a single selfish Moms , I was raised by parents that were happily married that stood by each other’s side no matter what , but I end up with girls that are just straight out selfish that only really care about themselves , part of me just wants to be an asshole and do what I want but for some reason I am not that way I just become a punching bag

[Apple1996]

That really suck you keep getting with these selfish girls 😥 And I agree I think a lot has to do with how a child is raised and how they see relationships. People with married parents seem to have better relationships later on down the road

[Finchie40]

My thing is I don’t commit to someone to be single , if I wanted to be single I stay single , when I commit I am in in for the long haul , if things aren’t working out , I choose to try to fix it before throwing in the towel , but when you commit to someone selfish they only care about themselves and will do what is best for them , they think someone else is going to save them and love them , they think they do no wrong and it’s their way or no way , it’s easy for any of us to be selfish , but if you can’t remove selfishness in a relationship then love will never grow , you will be encountering the same problems over and over cuz you are only thinking of yourself , and a lot of people can be that way because it’s easy to do , but little do they know it will get them no where. I can’t stop someone from cheating on me or walking away from me all I can do is treat them the same way I want to be treated in return , we won’t always agree on certain things but I am all about compromising and trying To fix it instead of running To someone else to side with me , I always where my partners shoes like I wish she would wear mine , if I feel like I am the only one giving without receiving I will make her aware of my feelings , if things do not change then I will tell her we need to go our separate ways and realize we aren’t a good team, if am drawn to someone else or want to date other girls that is my own answer that I do not love and value my partner , if I can let her go then to me that isn’t love , if I was in love I wouldn’t be looking elsewhere

[stupendiss]

I feel your pain. I think women need to realize that for us guys, sex is a basic need for us and if we are turned down, it affects our self esteem. A woman giving us sex makes us feel wanted and accepted. If we don't get it from our partners we're either gonna cheat or end the relationship eventually

[Finchie40]

Yes Girls’s just assume us guys want to just fuck like we don’t have any feelings that we just want to get off on her and that’s it , And sadly there are guys out there that can do that but not a guy that is expressing his feelings to her and telling her how much he loves and cares about her , he is telling her he wants more than just sex with her , he wants her to come to his arms , he wants her to value him , he wants her to stay loyal to him and loving. But most girls don’t look at it that way , they just see a guy just trying to get his dick wet , and that’s where most girls are wrong , if we just wanted to go get our dick wet we would pay for a escort or a whore , I never paid for sex and I never would , it’s degrading and dirty to me , I want a girl that looks up to me that loves my heart , that feels safe with me , that has my back like I have hers but instead I end up with these selfish whores that think grass is greener on the other side , I tell them make sure the door doesn’t hit ya in the ass on the way out , I am tired of girls not knowing what it means to remove selfishness, I am tired of girls watching these dumb ass love story movies on tv and acting like that’s the way she needs to be treated , most of those movies are the biggest jokes of all Time , when another guy can take another man’s girl a man that loves and cares about her and provides for her she is so dumb thinking that new guy is going to save her and love her more then the man she already has , little does she realize that new guy is just going to bang her and have his way with her until he gets bored and realizes he doesn’t want to be with a girl that can leave her fiancé or husband for him , All these love story movies are so pathetic and girls fall for that shit

[stupendiss]

@finchie same here I'm serious with my girlfriend and want to marry her.. I hope you find someone who knows that you take relationships serious but also have needs

[Finchie40]

Thanks man , all I do is treat a girl the same way I want to be treated And sadly most girls assume when I am nice to them and respect them and I am loyal to them they just assume , no way , he must be up to something , Most girls don’t trust nice guys because most of those girls were already with assholes prior to being with me so in their minds they feel it’s to good to be true , I am not saying I am perfect but I know I value relationships and I know I don’t commit to be single, but girls will assume the worst case scenario every time , the only time I will even consider cheating on a girl is if she is treating me like constant shit , not wanting to be in my arms denying intimacy and affection with me constantly , making me feel like I am a convenience and using me until something better comes along and the best part about it , I don’t cheat , but I make it clear to her if things don’t change you are best to pack your shit and go cuz if you can’t be honest with me as to why you don’t want to be intimate and affectionate with me anymore you are just wasting your time cuz I am going to start not being honest with you, I been betrayed before as well so don’t think for a second I am going to be your walking punching bag , if I am not the man for you then you are best to go. When those girls decided to leave and go cheat on me they all tried coming back to me like they made this mistake and I just laugh and say nope you had your chance and you ducking blew it cuz you are a selfish POS I don’t take exes back period , I tried once when I was younger and that was my answer to never take an ex back , Most girls will try to go back to their exes once they realize they left a good man for an asshole , That’s why most girls are attracted to bad boys because they can’t handle a nice guy that actually values them , they get annoyed by him cuz they assume there is no way he cares about me that much , So for me to ever be in a relationship with a girl again I already know

[Finchie40]

I have to balance between good and bad to keep her standing by my side , because if I am too nice I become weak to her if I am too much of an asshole toward her she will just assume I am an asshole , So balancing both is what a guy needs to do to keep a girl standing by his side , Sadly girls are drawn to that shit and she is drawn to his masculine energy when he shows basically that he is will be fine without her that she is lucky to be with me , when I started doing that to girls I have noticed a world of difference but it’s sad cuz that’s really not who I am , so until I find a girl that knows what it means to remove selfishness and knows how to stay faithful and committed my ass is staying single

[Guy13]

Steadily…. And let me tell you what a traditional feminine Woman can do. I’ve got an old money bag (my grandpa’s) that you would take cash and checks into Bank inside a nightstand drawer. There is never less than a bound 2000 in 20s and 1000 in 10s. In Trump era, I could get by 30.00 shot. Biden inflation…Everything has doubled… SO, it’s 5000.00 bound in 50s.
-And she can be quite bitchy about it…hot pink coach purse that goes with her big ass pink watch. Done in 3 minutes as she is Expert…. I can always tell when she saw something she wants.
-In fact, damn C- has taken me out and said…. in front of guy and red Miata, “Advance payment or I will cut you off.” What am I supposed to do…I’m not brain 🍆 dead… At least she worked it into a 3 year loan. BEST 3 years of my life though…except for the 💩 end game. F used C- “write me a 5120.00 check, with paperwork in hand, to these people OR….”
ANYWAY.
-That’s her money💰 I don’t ask, she don’t have to tell, and if she’s efficient it could be a 1500.00 month…in pretty much a blink of 👁 . So, if her and some other hens plan for Tuesday night flight ✈️ out and Sunday return…pretty much MYOB or Clinton I think, “Don’t ask…don’t tell”
And who knows🤷🏻‍♂️, maybe I find “substitute teacher”…. not really but she won’t know why some 💵 is missing out of bank bag when she gets 🏡 . Except for 20 cartons of Hagen Das Icecream containers for Monday pick-up.
🙃
It is what it is…Fair Trade Practices like with fwckin China though 🤷🏻‍♂️-I mean really, what options do I have 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Vikkrram]

I have never been in an relationship and never married so i don't know what to expect from them lol 😅 .

[RobT312]

Yeah I’d say it’s a natural part of our foreplay. I think I get one about half the time we have sex without asking, so prob. 4 times a week

[matchrestore]

About once a month or so.

[Anon833]

Every single day with my hot wife who is 38 years older than me.

[Jouth]

no no

[Jamie05rhs]

Your wife is 69? That's ironic lol.

[Jouth]

@Jamie05rhs No it's sardonic

[summiter]

When I get one I always return the favor... that way it will happen again! I also love a great handjob (besides sex of course) What about you?

[Apple1996]

Love giving my guy oral do it 2-3 times a week

[summiter]

I'm glad you two have a great sex life... enjoy the great orgasms!!!

[Guido]

@Apple1996 2-3 times a week. I should have married you.

[Apple1996]

@Guido lol my husband snatched me up to fast. I remember giving him a blowjob before we even started dating. He said after that first time he was hooked and knew he couldn't let me go

[Guido]

He is a lucky man. I am sure you treat him as well as he treats you. Your just another great woman off the market. 😃

[DonkeyDan]

When I was married I'd get a minimum of 3 a week quite often more.

[Barry88]

Fifteen years in a relationship, but the last blowjob I have received is a long, long time ago. Six or seven years ago? 😬

[Apple1996]

Omg thats like forever ago 😳

[Barry88]

It is, but I find it even more annoying that she hasn't let me eat her pussy for some three years. I miss that even more than getting a blowjob. If I only knew why... but it's difficult to talk about... 😕

[Apple1996]

I really hope y'all can talk about it and find what the problem is there cause that is not normal

[Barry88]

Thank you for your kind words. I hope so too.

[Dargil]

B.5 Not nearly enough, but I hate begging.

[Apple1996]

Begging would suck

[RealMarek]

I lucked out. I get them at least once a week, and would get them more if I wanted but I prefer her vagina most of the time.

[exitseven]

sometimes.