And guys that do not like a woman to be on top during sex and why not?

So, this guy I have a sexual relationship with hardly ever lets me on top. He has like twice. The last time he made me get off saying I was trying to "work" him. I think it's weird and wonder why he doesn't like it and no I am not big.
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  • My SO and i almost always foreplay with doggy then climaxes in cowgirl. We like both and in that order.

    I think I can offer a reason or two (although they may not apply to other guys).

    1) for an ass guy (like me), seeing her butt is an ultimate experience. But reverse woman on top dilute that experience; or in cowgirl, we can't see her butt in the most sensual form.

    2) control. Yes, for guys like me who like ass, playing with her butt hole, spanking her butt cheeks, even double bent over her is very sexy and exotic.

    But all these are lost when she is on top.

    3) the orgasm is still good with her on top, but the feeling is different from doggy.

    With doggy, we control the depth, the thrust, the speed.

    With her on top, she controls them all. Just different. Maybe some guys find the inability to control the thrust made the experience not as satisfying.

    The above are my personal views. Why not ask your guy and see how many are similar?

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  • I'm not sure why he wouldn't like it, a girl that wants to do the work sounds awesome to me.

    Not only do I not want to have to do all the work all the time, I also think an active girl that dosent just lay there and wait for me to do things is hot.

    Were you guys using a condom? Raw may be the only time I dont want a girl on top unless we are super serious and Im ready for a kid.

    I'd be worried about a girl forcing me to cum inside her against my will, but I dont see myself not using a condom so it shouldn't be a problem.

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  • Personally I don't like it all that much because it makes me nervous. If the woman is not real careful she can jam down on it in the wrong way, and an erect penis is NOT meant to be BENT! It can cause injury, and hurt like heck. It has never happened to me but when I've had girlfriends in the past I would lean away from her doing cowgirl. One thing I like though is when the woman is on top and she slides along it without penetration. I am surprised that technique isn't more common.

  • Cowgirl is my preferred position.

  • I love the woman on top sex position! Feeling her grinding/bouncing up and down on me, her wetness saturating my entire pubic area while sucking on her luscious tits as well as holding her juicy booty is a huge turn on! 🤤💦👅😍🔥😉

  • Well I was going to ask if you're fat but you're alleging that you aren't fat, so in that case, uh yeah I have no idea. He's just weird, apparently.

  • Everyone has their preferences, some things are just a turn-off for some people. And those same things are turn-on's for other people.

  • He probably enjoys being dominant.

    • Being on bottom, if you're the guy, doesn't mean you're not the dominant one. You still are.

  • I prefer woman on top. Lol

  • Some guys just don't do that

  • I like them on top I like a woman that know how to fuck instead of just laying there getting fuck and doing nothing might as well jack off or by a flashlight if you going to just take it (unless BDSM role-playing etc)

  • I enjoy doggy style myself. I love touching her soft butt cheeks as I'm banging her pussy.

  • I like a variety of positions love looking at her body when she is on top

  • He feels it puts him in the submissive position.

  • There's a couple reasons one if you crush your balls and sometimes if it's a really bony girl can hurt your pelvic bone

  • He doesn't feel in charge

  • I like the girl on top! I can only think he wants to be in charge all the time?

  • My girlfriend loves being on top and I love her on top. Our favourite position is cowgirl. We've tried many positions and her being the dominant one and cowgirl is the most enjoyable. We've communicated a lot to improve and enjoy it. You should try talking to him in a way that might appeal to him.