Guys, what do you like when your girl is giving you a handjob?

My boyfriend told me I do the same thing for a long time and after a while it doesn't feel good anymore, which is understandable because for us girls it's the same. However, I don't really know what different things I could do.
What do you like when you are being given a handjob? What different things can I do? Thanks!
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  • If you do it like he would, your arm will get tired and you'll never do it quite as well as he could himself. So the trick is not to imitate his technique. Don't go hard and fast, tease him slowly and use a light touch. Tease the *shit* out of him; drive him crazy. Exhale your hot breath on to him. Do it on purpose and suggestively like you're going to take him in your mouth. If he says Hey hands only, be a brat and tell him, What, I can't even breathe? Trace or rake your nails up his thigh, over his balls. Massage his balls. If he's into it, use your free hand to touch his nipples, perineum or go even further back. Wet your finger (hopefully by then you'll have a couple choices of where) and use just that finger on the underside right where the head meets the shaft. (frenulum, most sensitive spot.) Or use lotion or baby oil if it's allowed. Go hard for a couple strokes and then go back to teasing. Just some ideas.

    • This is really helpful. And that's a big truth, no one knows how to pleasure you as well as you can yourself. That may be my mistake. I try to imitate what guys do, and all they do is stroke it. Even though I tease him at the beginning, once I start stroking I don't stop anymore. I guess I have to be more creative than just stroking it, and most importantly do everything in a sexy way. Thanks for the tips and ideas!

    • You're welcome. Have fun!

    • who tf would say hey hands only 😂 bj over hand jobs any day

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  • Omg I love HJs! I personally think they are better than what I can give myself because well even though I know myself, a stranger hand softer hand is so much better. Ok so I love when she uses a nice smelling massage oil and just goes very slow, deep and sensual with her strokes. I love when she does that and leans into me and kisses me or lays on my chest and looks in my eyes why she does it. Uses her other hand to massage the balls or uses her nails and scratches them, or the shaft or underneath and inner legs and thighs area too. Sometimes she will slip her pinky in the rear when she's playing there with her other hand while stroking it and tries to hit the prostate area. Very, very, mind blowing and head spinning! He might not like the finger ideas though? I didn't like the idea until it was in the right moment and happened and wow was it amazing and I'm 100 straight!

    • You have a point, it can be sexier when is other person doing it. About the finger, he sometimes does it for me and I already asked him 2 or 3 times if he would like for me to do it for him but he said no, even though he doesn't seem to automatically and completely reject those kinds of stuff like some guys. So maybe someday he will be curious enough to try it :p I'd be happy if it happens cause that seems to be amazing for guys. Anyways, thanks a lot for the other sexy ideas! I'll use them for sure.

    • Sure thing. If a girl is really into giving the HJ, I like it almost better than anything. Oil is so huge! It reduces likelihood of pain over the duration of it. And he can just really feel everything so much more and deeper. After a few times, she can really know how to control him! By knowing what he likes she can really use it to her advantage and torture him with the slow build up and There is nothing like her soft hand, it's always so warm, and she knows the right grip and speed and uses her nails, etc. ahhhhh! The finger thing was never asked and just done. That was like whoa, and then cause of the oil down there and then it was ahhhh. Felt very Good! Didn't think I'd like it, but it was great! Try it on him one time. Make it like an accident lol.

    • LMAO, I understand. I just never did that without permission because when it was with me, he asked me before, and I wanted to be respectful. Also I'm afraid he won't like it, especially my attitude after he already said no a few times. But maybe an "accident" will happen soon. Thanks!

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  • Send him a few short messages like "can't wait to see you tonight", "just got out of the shower, so what are you doing at the moment", "I'm so wet thinking of what I want to do to you".
    maybe touch yourself first then reach over and start stroking him, do you include his balls in handjobs? Or lightly run your nails up the inside of his leg, stopping just before you reach his d.

    • That seems hot and good advice. Thanks!

    • I haven't had much experience with guys but I'm a natural tease if you want help with anything just ask me. Also with oral, just play with it there's no wrong way.

    • Thanks for the mho, also if you buy some sexy underwear send a text like "I just went to... And I can't wait to show them to you tonight".

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  • are you making sure your hand and his thing are wet? the only time my guy doesn't like it it when its dry and the friction doesn't feel good

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  • Lick his dick while giving him handjob

    • What if I could only use my hands?

    • Even boys do it... If u want to add some spice to it and want to make him feel good try this

    • I usually do. But when this happened he did me a challenge: I could only use my hands

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  • Best tip for giving a handjob: use your mouth

    As a comedian once said: Watching a girl giving you a handjob, is like watching the paralympics: you appreciate the effort, but deep down, you know you could do it better.

    • lmao

    • and that's slightly offensive to the disabled

    • @SteppingOnRoses yes, it is, but when you think about it... it's true, which only makes it worse :

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  • why don't you just ask him? if your jacking him off to completion use some type of lube or lotion feels way better then dry. I guess I'm the minority but I feel like getting a girl to give you a hj is middle school shit. I rather just do it myself if that's all your going to do.

  • It's much easier for you to watch for yourself so here's my suggestion:
    Go to Google Videos and enter these search terms:
    girlfriend gives amazing handjob

    I think either the first or second search results are videos I've seen where the girl really knows what she's doing. It's not just fast jerking of the guy's penis. It's more subtle and varied and. . . amazing.

    • Thanks! Actually it was in my plans to watch videos of guys jerking off so I could pay more attention to the different things they do. But I'll search what you told me first.

    • I just searched again and if you use these search terms in Google Videos the top result will be absolutely the best handjob video (she REALLY knows what she's doing!): amateur girl giving a slow handjob

  • Moaning and dirty talk always works. kiss his stomach, feel his body out, make eye contact as you stroke him.

    • I'm not really good with dirty talk, so I don't know if i'll try that. I don't even know what to say lol. What would you like to hear, for example?

    • Here's some stuff my ex used to tell me..."mmm baby your cock is hard" "I love the way you throb for me" "you're making me wet" "you like it like this baby?" "I'm getting so wet" "hmm baby I'm dripping for you" thinking about you all day makes me so horny"

    • Ahah, ok. Maybe I'll try that, actually. Thanks

  • the best way to learn new ideas of handjobs is, go to a porn tube, search for handjobs, you will find a zillion ways to do it, surprise him ;)

  • I think the issue is you may be going with the 'best' technique from the start, and getting tired - plus unchanging.

    Start with teasing, END with steady jerking, picking up speed as he gets close to cumming.

    Beyond that, think more about his mind, not just his penis, especially early on. Talk dirty, or rub him with body parts that turn him on, stuff like that.

    • That is helpful. Thanks!

  • Best is when you ise your hand try to incorporate a bit of tongue or even a bit of your breasts. Change it up a bit maybe talk dirty while you do it.

    • What if I could only use my hands? Also, I'm not really good with dirty talk. It's not my thing I guess, so I don't know if i'll try it. But thanks anyway.

  • I've always had her watcj me do it and try to copy what I do

  • Try going down on him... you will enjoy it as he will too.

    • I usually do. But this specific time he challenged me: I could only use my hands to please him

    • Sorry, but he sounds like a dickhead.

    • making love is not about challenges

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  • I like when she kiss my lips while giving me a handjob, sexy romance

  • to kind of make it like a massage you know. thats hot.

    • Can I just touch it randomly? The most important is being sexy while doing so?

    • Yes. Also watch how his body moves. Its feedback for how well you are doing.

  • there can't possibly be too many ways to stroke a cock lol but I like mine stroked with a firm grip and for her to squeeze on my balls mmmm!

    • That's what I said lol. There's not much different ways to do it. But if I do the same thing for too long it won't feel good anymore, which is normal. What more can I do?

    • well for one thing, I'm a little different than most guys, I am very huge am 11 inches long and very thick and am circumsized, and it takes me a very very long time to cum ! but also I ejaculate an extremely enormous amount of cum!!

  • I like when she touches herself and shows me how much she loves my cock. I like when she rubs it on her tits and tells me how much she wants me to cum on them.

  • follow his dick, that best way.

    • What does that mean?

    • join me will share some ideas about it.

  • Moan

    • Make sure you show him you

    • Thanks! What about dirty talk, do you recommend that?

    • Yeah and sit opposite him or lay there in a skirt so he can see up it

  • to give me any other job

    • Ok, go watch the dishes :p

    • hahaha i meant tit job blowjob feetjob assjob

    • I know, I just like being silly :p

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  • Try a different position? probably use your mouth too if you're comfortable with it

    • I am, but when this happened he did me a challenge: I could only use my hands, nothing more. I'm sure after this he won't ask me to only use my hands anymore lol. Anyways, do you have more advice? Feel free to give me tips in oral too.

    • I'd recommend a different position for sure, try doing it in the 69 position or maybe n your knees? also try different pace of doing it and play with the balls too. experiment, guys like it!

    • Thanks a lot! Those seem good idea

  • Just be confident. U gotta work it and look at him like you own it. If thats not good enough hell never be satisfied. I get off by the confidence the girl has, looking at her face while she's doing it, its not all about how u do it