Guys what does it take for you to want to please a woman in bed?

It's no secret that some guys can be selfish in bed... but I'm curious what it takes for you to be willing to please a woman? To go down on her or make sure she gets to come.
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  • What the heck? I only want sex if I get to be unselfish about it. I want to give the girl multi-orgasms with my tongue and fingers and stuff. Gotta start by playing the kissing game first though, women need emotional connection to have the best orgasms, so getting a fuckbuddy would never work. Only a true lover will work.

    An 8 inch dick doesn't do anything for a woman if the man has no technique. I saw this interview on Dr. Drew one time with this young woman who did hardcore porn videos, and she said she hated it because she had no connection with the men so even though they had larger than average penises and stuff they coudln't give her an orgasm like a real lover can, so she eventually quit doing porn, because she was also an addict. Anyway, I guess not al women are like that, b ut some are.

    So if the guy doesn't make the woman feel LOVED she's not going to enjoy sex as much as she's supposed to enjoy it. Women do all the work in chidl bearing, they're supposed to enjoy the sex twice as much as men, and properly stimulated they do enjoy it twice as much, because they have twice as many nerve endings in the female sex organs as men do in the male sex organs.

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    • a deeper connection then just a physically one.
    • if she is also willing to go above and beyond to pleasure me.
    • if she is generally healthy and has good hygiene.
    • if she likes how she looks in the mirror.
    • if she is 100% natural body. from head to toe.
    • if she has an enjoyable personality and attitude.

    I would be more then willing to pleasure her whenever possible. making sure she orgasms at least once with each sexual encounter.
    I don't sleep with random chicks. only with ones I am exclusive with.

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  • If I am with a woman in bed, I intend to give her pleasure, hopefully orgasm. That is normal, always. Nothing more needed.

  • You are right some guys can be selfish and I have probably done so myself when I just wanted a quick orgasm. What makes me want to please is when the girl truly enjoys it, tells me what turns her on and tells me that when I'm done with her what she will do to me.

  • Having a woman in bed. That's what it takes.

  • I am not being gallant. I see sexuality as a tool for making girls feel loved. My foremost goal is giving her an orgasm and cunnilingus is the best way to do it.

  • Nothing I do it for fun

  • If I love her then that's all it takes.

  • I have to care about her. I don't need to be in love with her. It could just be a friend. If I care about it I will do whatever I need to. Making her cum is more important than getting to myself. If only one of us gets to, it has to be her.

    However, if I don't care about her, then I have no desire to please her.

  • She must be pleasant, talk to me. Moan, make me look in her eyes, place her hands on my face and keep me close. I will not just help with orgasm but also make sure she baths and feel the body and gets clothed

  • Nothing other than a little guidance from who I am wirh to help push her over the top. Otherwise whats the point.

  • For me all it takes is waking up in the morning

  • Not a lot it's my favourite thing, just more to the point what's a lady got to do to get near me firstly

  • I think it's a lot more fun for me if she's getting equal pleasure from me.

  • I like to eat her out twice, before intercourse and after

  • Depends if I love her

  • She needs to be clean and smell good... thats all..

  • It’s just part of my basic skills.
    I make a girl cum before I even touch her dirty parts.
    Then again orally before I ever take my cock out.

  • Being in love with them

  • Marriage. Technically I want to do it before then; but I am not willing until then.

  • I always make my partners cum, a lot, I enjoy it.

  • Most guys want to please the girl. Truth is a good amount of girls won’t tell them what they like upfront and guys, (we’re clueless) need to find the right spot.

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