Guys, what is he doing (sorry this is long)?

There is this guy, we were instagram friends for a while and became close and when we met we hit it off and started dating. Initially everything was fine amd we used to talk about marriage and kids and all but then he stopped touching me or taking care of me. He has never made me orgasm. The time we went to a room for some sexy time he barely touched me and when he was done orgasming he turned around and started watching Netflix instead of cuddling me or taking care of me. When I cried he said its coz my mouth tastes weird and that down there too the smell is weird. But that's the thing, usually when he has a problem he tells me on his own, like when I get off work I smell of the hospital so he doesn't like that so I put perfume as soon as I enter the car... I've always been understanding but this was suddenly a problem as soon as i started crying... ps I was good in bed so he used to enjoy that

Long story short we started having different problems and we ended up breaking up as I was going through something traumatic and he didn't even bother to show up at all and just gave excuses... I said we can't be friends anymore

Once his friend tried getting me to come to her place but I said no coz we decided we wouldn't be friends with each others friends post break up

Fast forward, he kept tabs on me and even when my accident happened and I went for surgery he made his friend text me and then texted me himself a few days later knowing details I hadn't made public but had told his friend... even then he was more curious to see my injuries and the condition of my car but no particular care for me

A few days later I went for an event and I posted a guy he doesn't know so he stopped seeing my stories altogether

Now he has created a work account on insta and he followed me with it, none of his exes and not even his current fiancée but only me and my friends which I found weird... and he now regularly watches my stories using that account

What are his intentions? TIA

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Sorry his intentions are to keep tabs and get right back to being a shit boyfriend and cheating on his wife to be if he ever gets bored of her!

    a lot of my female friends complain about guys like that! a lot of effort to start then it's a lazy boyfriend who might as well be friends with benefits!

    He is useless and just wants a safety net of following u using his work. So his wife to be won't find it on his normal insta... Using the work he is watching and following alotbof porn instas so sure of that!

    • How am I safety net if we aren't talking And no he doesn't follow porn stuff on his insta

    • Cause guys do that and it works... Ooo my wife to be is being awful I need someone to talk with hi again after 3 years... Hey let's meet in planning on banging but I'll pretend Im not planning that and going to cheat...

    • Right, but it won't work on me At least I hope he isn't that dumb

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Sounds like he isn't over you, and is now social media stalking you. He sounds a little unstable to. I would block him and any new accounts he makes.

    • I have a feeling too but why not just come To me upfront and tell me he wants to get back instead of all these games And then he went and got engaged and still stalking me I don't get it

    • Like I said he doesn't sound stable. He may not be safe to be around

    • Yeah I don't meet him It's been more than a year since I've even seen him

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