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Guys what is it with your cum after a BJ? A lot like it if she swallows, but hate to get into contact with it?

So while talking to some guys and my fiance a lot of them like it when the women swallow after giving oral. First what do guys like about it?
Second it seems that sometimes even the same guys don't even want to give a kiss after she gave you a BJ. Why do you seem to hate your own cum so much?
Third if you look at femdom you even see it as a humiliation or punishment to "feed" him his own cum. Why is that? What's so bad about it and why do you want us to do it?
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  • It's not that it's bad so we are making you deal with it. Not at all. It's because as we're cumming it feels SO FUCKING GOOD if you keep sucking and swallowing means you're going to keep going instead of stopping the second we start to cum. Esspecially if a woman acts grossed out when it happens, it almost kills the entire orgasm. My girlfriend doesn't swallow, but she keeps going and just makes a sloppy mess all over my cock as I cum and I gotta say, that's sometimes even hotter

    • Oh ok. Pls dont understand me wrong I dont think its bad. I just heard from some guys that they dont like it or are into it because it feels humiliating/submisive which I dont understand.

  • Because getting cum on you is considered feminine. When a girl makes a guy taste his own cum, it's like a form of feminization or dominance. I like it personally but a lot of guys get offended by the thought of getting cum on them (even if it's their own)

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  • ? How many women give their guy s a kiss after he gives her oral sex?

  • It doesn't bother me at all to kiss my girlfriend after I cum in her mouth. And I wouldn't cum in her mouth unless she was okay with that and wanted to swallow. If she didn't want to swallow and just spit it out then I wouldn't want to cum in her mouth in the first place. It's a really meaningful thing for me if she takes my cum into her body. It doesn't bother me to get my cum on me because when I masturbate I lie down and ejaculate on my belly. Then I wipe it off with a hand towel.

  • We guys are simple creatures. If she swallows, there's nothing to clean up. If she doesn't, we have to clean up "the mess".

  • Well I'm into femdom and would get off on being fed my own cum after a BJ, but I'm probably not representative of the typical guy's turn-ons lol

    • I should note that the way this is depicted in femdom porn isn't necessarily reflective of what I find arousing about it. They seem to lean pretty hard on the humiliation aspect, for me it's more like a complete intimacy with some submission mixed in.

  • It's just hot to see the woman who pleased me also enjoying my pleasure.

  • The blowjob isn’t over until she kisses me.

  • Cum isn’t a big deal. Obv I’ll be kissing before and after so that’s on her to want to swallow or not

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  • It’s a maturity thing. When I was 15 I thought it was ‘gay’ but eventually learned to grow out of that and realise it’s actually quite sexy. Now I love the idea of it and even get turned on by the idea of kissing my girl when there’s still some on her lips

  • i have no issues with it, it’s my cum. and surprise kisses are always welcome.

  • Most women I've had have told me my cum taste beautiful & love to swallow it, its probably because I’ve never smoked or done drugs & eat healthily.

  • I'd prefer her to spit it out but won't complain if she swallows. Upto her

  • I have asked that same question... I like my cum and want girls to kiss me and share it with me when they give me a blow job... I don't do other guys but if it is mine I don't mind it at all...

  • Because it's naughty.. when she swallows it feels like she must really be into me to do that.

    I kiss her after she swallows

  • i don't care if you swallow or not. I just like it when she keeps sucking/stroking while I'm cumming. I like to have it all drained out if possible

  • To answer the first two. Cum is designed to be given to the girl. It's hers to take, and I don't want it back.

    It also keeps us clean.

    • I agree with the cleanup. Thats a main reason I do it except he liking it.

  • cum is amazing! i dont mind using it as much possible.

  • Because it’s gay I don’t want to kiss a girl that had my cum in her mouth.

    • What? Kissing a girl is gay?

    • Nope

  • I've kissed her after many bj's and even with my cum on her lips and face. I even give her more oral after cumming inside her.

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