Guys.. what makes you frustrated the most sexually?

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  • Maybe if the girl is kind of kinky or into role-playing or BDSM or something like that. I'm very vanilla and so I find it interferes with my whole desire to connect deeply. It's like I want to know who she really is, and these types of things come off as "fake" to me and like an "act". Also if she's dominant in the bedroom, that's not at all compatible. It makes me hyper dominant and I've even found women who are dominant enjoy it when I come over the top and get angry and have my way with them, but it's like I don't enjoy what it brings out of me. I don't really have any sort of sadistic side. I'm trying to connect deeply.

    • Dang hard one... I don't know I'm kinda both just vibing then next thing you know he's pinned on the bed or pinned on the wall by me

    • I go crazy if pinned on the bed. I'll want to break out, grab her body, take over. It was hard for me to find compatible types. I'm so weird. I test 99% dom according to some test but I'm like a gentle dom. I don't have any sadistic side. Don't want to tug hair or choke girl. I can be aggressive like energetic but careful not to hurt. On the easier side, if the girl doesn't like to give BJ/HJ, I don't like receiving them. It makes me feel powerless. That urge to grab her body and take over kicks in (but I don't mind giving because it makes me feel in control). But mostly I always wanted to feel connected. Maybe I have some intimacy issues. To me the best sex makes me feel closer to a woman than anyone else on the planet, and I find it rare to feel that way. I had to really date around. But once I felt it, I never wanted anything less.

    • But for me, the frustration was never physical... all mental. I can get off just fine. But you know, I can do that with a hand. What frustrates me is when I feel disconnected in the process -- like we're talking across each other instead of to each other.

  • When a girl spends all day building you up for having sex and then is "too tired" when you finally get a chance to be alone and go at it.

    • Ahh I think that funny asf but I give it still cuz I keep my word

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  • Seeing my friends hook up and make out with random girls, while I struggle to even get a girlfriend.

  • None of your business

  • What would frustrate me , finishing before she does
    but i would still satisfy her , it could be with dildo or
    oral sex?

  • When you wanna play with her but you don't get any priacy. 🤷

    • Honestly I get so mad

    • I can't even get mad. 😓

  • Not being able to read her properly and her saying the mood is all wrong now.

  • Honestly, not having a Girl to please. Knowing I can probably make a Girl feel very special, but not having one for my own. That really kills it.

  • bringing a girl to my house then my family proceeding to cock block me 😂

  • No idea Honestly

    • That's good nothing has so far

  • Not getting it when promised

  • When I am close to cumming and the phone rings.

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