Guys: what's it's like having sex with a virgin?

Question

When you have sex with a virgin, what is it like? I know from a girls standpoint, it's painful.

Little_Sparrow · Accepted Answer

It's not always painful, it just depends on your own body and how much foreplay you had before the actual penetration. I mean, I had some minor pains when I did it for the first time, but it was only because I was nervous about whether or not I was doing good or not. And even when he popped it, it really wasn't more than a quick sharp pain then it was over for the most part (I had a little pain a bit afterwards mostly cause I was in shock from seeing the blood and just associate blood down there with period pains and made myself, unconsciously, feel the pain because of that association I had.)

TrulyPink28 · Accepted Answer

If you're thinking of sex, I must tell you, it's not ALWAYS sore. If you use tampons, you shouldn't have any issues. If your partner is gentle and caring (preference to ANY guy having sex with you), it should be a lovely experience. Just take note that it's not something to be scared of or compare with pornography.  P*rnography  is just visually titalating. Just enjoy coming in union with one special person and never look back. Several partners doesn't sweeten the process.:)

islands7 · Accepted Answer

Well, it was like she didn't know what to do so just lay there, I did all the "work".
She seemed passionless and so it was an ejaculation into nice warmth but nothing special - perhaps for the both of us.
All that changed in years to come and she might be the #1 BJ artist after years of practice; ironic how she practiced harder as she approached the time she would ditch me for another.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Like stacking china while trying not to loose an erection... You are so worried about going slow and being gentle you rarely cum. But it's about her at that point. Notes for virgins... Hand jobs and blow jobs are your friends. And remember if he isn't slow and gentle... Stop... And wait for a real man!

Sex_Panther · Answer

Imagine taking your finger and just poking hard enough to get through those papers at the top of the little juices you get at fairs. It's just like that.