Guys, what would you do if you saw this happen to a woman?

[Anonymous]

You're at a local public beach that isn't too crowded. A rather attractive older woman (30s or 40s) was there in a string bikini and decided to go in the water. A big wave comes and knocks her down, taking her bottoms with it. So she gets up, realizes she's bottomless, then covers herself (one hand on her crotch, the other on her rear) and starts to panic.

Me? Although I admit a part of me *would* be aroused at this, I'd very much assist her and hand her my towel to cover herself, if not give her back her bottoms if I found them.

This is not a fantasy. Just a good Samaritan thing.

Would you rather ignore her and film it, and keep the bottoms if you found 'em?

[Mansearching]

Try to help. Run give her a towel so she can wrap up. Escort her to her spot on beach, have my girlfriend get other towels hold them up so she can get other clothes on. We'd both escort her to her vehicle so she could leave.

[Asker]

If I can't find the bottoms, I'll let her keep my towel (I could air-dry for all I care) if I do find them, I'll let her change in the ladies room,

[Mansearching]

Of course we'd let her keep the towel. Until she was able to get some shorts on so she can be covered.

[Asker]

And I'd explain to her that I'm not a creeper or perv and I'm only there to help.

[Mansearching]

Most of the time, in that scenario, they would know the difference

[Asker]

you mean they'd understand?

[Mansearching]

The difference between helping and being a creep? Yes they would.

[Asker]

even if a part of me did feel somewhat aroused, i'd still do the former. I;d even try to look away from her um "below the waist" at times if i could.

[Mansearching]

Of course you should. As i and girlfriend would be holding the towels up, id turn my back to her.

[Asker]

I mean i;ve seen this several times with my own eyes, but the women were with friends, and in those situations, they giggled thought it was funny. This is a solo woman that's embarrassed and looks like she's getting an anxiety attack, and clearly needs assistance. One that arrived to the beach in just her swimsuit (no towel or shorts) and flipflops. I'd be there in just my tshirt and swim trunks. I couldn't give her my suit because then *I* would be nude lol All i could do was sacrifice my towel to protect this poor woman.

[Mansearching]

If the woman shows up without a pair of shorts for an accident like that, then she's stupid. Every female I know that wears a bikini to the beach wears those windshorts (that some people call them) to beach until they find a spot. Then they take them off. When its time to go, they put shorts on and walk to car.

[Mansearching]

That's 99% of women I know.

[Asker]

makes sense

[Asker]

so if she showed up in just a bikini, the accident would be self inflicted

[Mansearching]

Yes. Got to be prepared for anything. I always bring a change of clothes in case we go to get something to eat.

[runnerboy]

I'd hand her my towel and assist with helping her locate her swimsuit bottom. She would obviously be embarrassed and a bit scared.

[Asker]

Like I said, that's exactly what I would do.

[laraWM]

I'd try to help of course

[RobT312]

Yeah I’d help her and give her a hand. I’d give her my towel

[megabamse]

Well since I'm only in my shorts i can't take that off. So i would tell her to hug me from behind and we would walk towards somewhere she has her clothes or what ever we figure out.

[Asker]

I see...🤔

[tfan1]

Definitely give her my beach towel

[Sparkie460]

I would do what a real gentleman would do, wrap my towel around her and try to locate the bottoms

[Sparkie460]

It doesn't matter what she looks like or her age. I would help her

[Asker]

I know.

[kellytheman]

Nah I try to help her out anyway I could. I wouldn't want her to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. If I saw her bottoms for her a give them or give her my towel. I might even give her my shorts and wait in the water while she try to find her bottoms.

[Nominal]

Offer a towel.

[Anonymous]

Ignore her, if I try to help her she might accuse me of sexual assault, not worth the risk