Guys: When you have sex with your girl, and she mentions to you that she wants you to cum (nearing the end).. is that a turn off or a turn on?

You’re doing whatever your doing to her and she knows you’re about to cum, and she says “Cum for me baby” does that turn you on or is that just a big no no?

Is saying something like that too much pressure on you?

I’m honestly curious as hell. I can see it “throw off your game” or “distract you” hence why i’m asking
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  • I'm actually very surprised you didn't know about this mooky 😆
    Here's my take, no doubt it's a turn on but there are two views in such a scenario:
    1. During inter course, i don't think a girl would want her guy to cum until she has received decent amount of pleasure or has already cummed and frankly speaking guys don't last that long wherein a girl is asking him to cum.😂

    2. Or the girl herself is giving exclusive foreplay to the guy and wants to observe the semen oozing out alongside the body spasms and expressions on the guy's face.

    Personal experience is, provided fore play to my girl for almost 45 minutes, she cummed and wanted me to soon thereafter but ended up fascinated by her expressions and concentrated on giving her bodywarmth. And didn't cum myself too 😅

    P. s :if you want to give him quick service in a short span, ask him to cum. He will be down even out even before you manage a few blinks lol

    If it's after you have already cummed and want him to , then it's a pressure cooker situation.

    • haha pressure cooker situation! That’s an interesting way of putting it

    • Hey thanks yo.. Glad you found it helpful.

    • No.. thank you for the awesome comment

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  • Finally a decent question. You probably won't like this answer, but sometimes it's a turn on, sometimes it's a total boner killer.
    This is all about learning your lovers cues, what they like, etc.
    If you're going at it, and there is some dirty talk going back and forth and you want to throw in a "you wanna cum for me?" That's cool! Like any sex move, don't use it every time!
    Now, if she comes off as impatient, (like finish already! You've been banging me for two hours) that's when it starts to feel like a deadline, obligation.. something not good with sex.
    Oh
    I had a girlfriend in my 20's who would basically issue me the command to get off when she bad enough! 🖕 She didn't last very long. Hope this helps.

    • Oh yes that helps. It does make sense when it’s put this way. I think it just matters on how it is said and when to say it too

    • Exactly. Just focus on NOT framing it like a lawyers appointment lol, you'll be fine.

    • haha yeah true that

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  • I would say that as well when I know he might be cumming soon. It's really not to stop the sex but to allow him to have a harder explosion :D

    • tell me you want me to unload my cum sacks all over you demand i empty every last drop of it on the place you have chosen. NOW i want you to cum and squirt over and over me. NoW get your sluty little mouth round every were you covered in your cum and get it cleaned up or you'll be punished!!

  • I love to bring my man over the edge over and over again till he explodes ALL over me

  • At least with my current guy, seems to really get him going.

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    Ohhh mook mooks new year resolution to be a naughtier girl in the sheets huh 😏... I can dig it and so will most mates.

    Dirty talk is all the rage. Usually while mid thrust you’re not thinking with the upper head savvy, so it doesn’t throw you off.

    Makes you Feel like she desires you and your body fluid 👍!!!

    • Who said i haven’t been naughty? Perhaps i need to be more like an angel? hhaha jokes aside... was really curious.. sounds like a 50/50 thing by the sounds of it.. should’ve added a poll 😓😓

    • Ooooo nightmare dress like a daydream kinda gal huh... badass mooky revelead 🤟🏽
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      Yeah. I saw lol. Sex acts always split down the middle on votes 😡. Polls reveal all tho 🤣.

    • lol never KP neverrr!! 😂 Yeah i’m so bummed out.. oh wells next time lol

  • I would imagine it being hot but I haven't had the experience.

  • I'd say it's a turn on but don't call it out too soon.

  • Thats a turn on but its way beyter for me if she doesn't let me thst easily. Being kept close to orgasm as long as she likes greatly increases the pleasure.

  • Her begging me "CUM inside ME" always ends successfully and sets up for the next round

  • It's hot. Maybe not for all guys I'm not sure, but to me it's hot.

  • As long as I know she's not saying it like: "Please hurry and get this over with!" then I like hearing the girl say that.

  • I love it when she says it

  • i never asked such a thing

  • Yup. Doesn't always work but it's arousing

  • That's sexy! Simply saying that will put me over the edge 👍🏾

  • Not really a turn off but it's nearer to be a turn off than a turn on.

  • I don't like it. It says to me, "I'm happy for the sex to end now" and "I need to be validated by your cumming". And it's also her 'grabbing the steering wheel' which is a turn off for me because it flips the dom/sub dynamic on its head.

    • Are you mostly dominant in bed?

    • Yes.

    • Oh makes sense

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  • Definitely a turn on

  • That wouldn't throw me off my game at all! I'd use that as a chance to say some kinky ish like "I'll make you drink my cum like the dirty little slut I made you."

  • it is a turn on but really i want her to cum first XD what's the point in making me cum all over her if it leaves her unfinished?

  • Turn on. Especially if she adds "in me" at the end.

  • Nothing makes me nut harder then when she tell me to cum by her father's name.

  • It's good fun. She's hopefully been fulfilled and wants me to go. Even sexy if she says " Cum on my..." or if you're that way inclined " in me". ♡

  • Def a turn in and makes me cum faster but only if the girl is into it! If she ever looks annoyed when she says it that dude has a problem haha

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