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Guys, when you're having an orgasm, do you need continued physical stimulation for the orgasm to feel good?

Just curious, because my guy can have sex to the point he starts to come, but then withdraw, and just hover over me, and feel the pleasure of his orgasm, even though the physical stimulation has stopped. For me, if I'm orgasming, and you take the hand, or whatever away from my clit, it makes my orgasm boring, so I don't feel the pleasure. Are other guys like this?
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Just to clarify, some people are saying they still orgasm, but it's less pleasurable. In his case, despite losing the physical stimulation once he's over the brink, he still is satisfied and feels pleasure. It's not a "ruined" orgasm for him.
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  • curious-ish lol :3

    hmm, I asked all my guy-friends, boyfriend and little bro about this before but its different answers from all of them, so basically from what I gathered guys who jerk off just stop right when they orgasm, ejaculate and that's it, the pleasure goes away in seconds, the heat and buildup leading up to it is still there for a few minutes but the actual orgasm doesn't last more than a minute at most, for guys who've done it with a random girl for the first time have a much better experience and last a few minutes longer, but if its just random girls all the time the pleasure dwindles and the orgasms go back to normal, it only seems consistent with guys who do it with their much loved girlfriend(not just a toy girl) and last longest and enjoy it the most especially if they shoot it inside, and the pleasure according to them never fades, but I imagine it would if the couple don't do new things eventually, making love is a lot better than just sex for guys apparently lol, just like it is for girls :P

    lol interesting topic, goodluck QA TS :)

    • munches on cookies and and eats a mustard relish combo overloaded hotdog* imma keep an eye on this thread, interesting anti-barrier subject :) +5 stars :3

  • I think that this is pretty common with guys actually. All of the guys I have been with didn't want to be stimulated during their orgasms...apparently things get really sensitive and it can be uncomfortable for them. Usually they would either stop thrusting when they started to come, or just pull out at the right time and come without being touched. It seemed like they enjoyed it just fine though! I'm like you though...if they stopped or pulled away like that when I started to orgasm, it would pretty much ruin the whole experience and not feel very good!

Most Helpful Guys

  • A common occurrence for men immediately during and post - orgasm is to feel hyper - sensitive or almost "ticklish" down there. The easiest way to explain it to a woman is to say that for men, orgasm is more of an event, whereas orgasm for women is more of a process, if that makes any sense. For men, there's a buildup of heightened pleasure and a sense of "pressure" (don't know how else to describe it) - guys reach the same "cliff" at the edge of coming that women do, but after that I believe the experiences are quite different. For guys there's a great sensation of release of something pent - up, and this often needs no further stimulation after it starts.

    For me personally, I give one final hard thrust and then stay deep in, but stay still, while I come. I then become super sensitive, even to my girlfriend touching me, for a couple of minutes.

  • Before or after ejaculation? I know that if a girl keeps riding, sucking, or stroking me after I ejaculate my orgasm continues and gets worse? or more intense. My wife finished me off (HJ) and then kept going. I was having a body orgasm. I was shaking from head to toe and even ejaculated a second time (about one min of intense stroking). It was great and now a part of regular play!

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  • Yes, continued physical stimulation is best.

  • I'm not sure if that answers your question, but when I cum, I don't need it, but it feels better if I can keep going for a few more seconds.

  • Nah it feels better waiting for it to build up before releasing it for me. It feels WAY better than just rushing into orgasm. I like holding it in for a while before exploding.

  • Yes. Mainly because of the "ruined orgasm" effect. You get a guy to the point where he comes and completely stop all stimulation. So he just ejaculates without any "good feelings". It kind of sucks. My first girlfriend was scared of come so she would give a handjob or something and as soon as I reached climax- boom she took her hand off and moved away.

  • It feels good either way but if stimulation continues all the way to end of orgasm it makes my orgasm 10x better lol. Is it possible he is actually pulling out trying to prolong sex but he cums anyways? I used to do that a lot when learning to last longer and would accidentally come a lot lol.

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