Guys, which feels better for you? Which would you rather have?

As a woman, I am curious about this since I obviously have no idea what sex, both regular and oral, feels like to men. Pretend you could only have either blow jobs or penetrative sex (inserting your penis into a woman's vagina) for the rest of your life, which would you pick? Which one do you enjoy more and why?
Penetrative sex
Vote A
Blow jobs/oral sex
Vote B
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If guys enjoy penetrative sex so much, why do some of them push girls for bjs so much, even when they know they will be having sex with her and they can see that a girl is not enjoying it (though I know some girls do). Before my husband I was with several guys who pressured me and insisted I give them bjs even though I was gagging and uncomfortable and we were going to have sex anyway.
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  • There's just no comparison. Look, short answer, I KNOW I can fuck you til your pussy aches and deep down, some part of you? Possibly wants me to stop. But you won't stop me. You'll keep soaking my dick, scratching my back, and moaning your approval, as you desperately pump your hips, taking every inch deep.

    If your jaw gets sore from sucking my dick deep and long? I know you'd genuinely want to stop, and unless I feel like punishing and dominating, I'll be inclined to allow it, and give cuddles and reassurance.

    A lot of my pleasure comes from knowing what's happening for the girl, knowing what I can do to you and how you'll respond. But if I step outside of that, purely sensation. . . . well look feeling soft, sucking lips sliding smooth and deep, it's a special feeling, being worshipped and loved upon in that way. Pulling the hair and guiding the head, there are things about it that are raw and powerful too. But let's be fair. You suck my dick so it's nice and slick and sheen for the main show. I'm going deep inside of you. In your body. Shaking and pounding and driving into you. It's always going to feel better. The little gasp as your pussy lips first spread. The arch of the back, meeting, taking it, eager for more. Feeling you clutch and hold. Pussy clamping, clutching gently too. Then when the rhythm builds, and we're moving smoothly, feeling the small, soft body beneath me moving under my weight, breasts jiggling gently, legs spread to take as much as possible, eyes fluttering, mouth open, making the cutest, most passionate noises possible, little gasps, sensual moans, and finally, 5th gear, hammering home with force, driving towards the tight, wet, thrusting conclusion. Feeling my cum explode deep inside your warm, clutching pussy, pumping copious amounts of hot cum deep into your eager, welcoming hole. Honestly that's the best experience I've ever felt in my life.

    There's just no comparison.

    • Hm. As to the update. . . . I mean were they forcing your head down? Or just asking with a lot of determination? The reason, though I can only guess at until you answer me, but they might just have liked the look of your lips wrapped tight around hard cock. Or maybe they wanted to ruin a sweet little princess. It's not always black and white as to why, but again unless we know if they were physically forceful or just persuasive, there's just no way to answer that properly.

    • Only one of them tried to force my head down, and I kicked him out immediately. The others were just very pushy verbally, I would do it for a while, gag and say I wanted to stop but they were like "no, keep going." Why couldn't they just finish inside me?

    • Could it have to do with age? This all happened between when I was 18 and 22, so these guys were all between 18 and 28, though no guy over about 27 ever pushed me for a bj.

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  • Never mind the physical pleasure of the act, there are several deeper (heh) reasons why I would pick penetration.

    Firstly, there is a much deeper emotional connection with penetrative sex. Yes, oral has connections too — like the trust of putting your meat (heh) in where she chews her meat (heh) — but penetration is on a whole other level.

    Kids. Best of luck conceiving a child with your dick in her mouth.

    Finally, there's the knowledge that she is experiencing pleasure as well. It isn't just about me: one of the greatest parts of sex is giving your partner pleasure. Harder (heh) to do through a blowjob...

    • Lmao you writing and essay hommie? I really need help my mine!

    • @zayndan I have an essay to write, yeah — I'm avoiding it

Most Helpful Girl

  • You are 29 and have no clue? Oh boy, I feel a fake pink account wanting some replies to get off to.

    • Nope, I can assure you I have a vadge.

    • No one calls it that except a guy plus your name is Adam? Who are you trying to kid?

    • A is my first initial, and the rest is my last name. 😒 But whatever, I don't have to prove it to you.

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  • Penetration feels about a billion times better.

    It's not even a comparison.

  • It feels better than bjs

  • If the second choice was oral sex and it included both giving and receiving it then I might be swayed towards that one slightly. If it’s just receiving oral only then I’ll go with the penetration sex.

    • It would be just receiving.

    • It wouldn’t be any fun if I couldn’t give it back to her too.

    • I just saw your update. I would never force or pressure a woman into doing something that she didn’t want to do. Oral sex is normally used as a warm up during foreplay. If a woman doesn’t like “sucking” it, she can lick it and use her hand instead and probably get similar or better feelings on it then struggling when doing it the other way.

  • Submission, I know several guys who expect head but won't return favor

  • Nothing beats the real thing

    • I'd rather have penetration and if girl don't like it why force or even ask

  • Vagina hands down.
    Men push for oral sex because some women don't like doing it, so it isn't common for us to get one.

  • I love both and I'm all for receiving oral and more than willing performing oral on my female but don't we actually have sex to penetrate so yeah definitely I'm choosing penetration sex

  • i would rather love to lick and eat, and also get sucked.
    that way i do not have to worry about getting every girl that i am with pregnant...

  • It feels so much better also you can watch her if your women does it her best it feels so much better I have passed out when I cum from oralv

  • I dunno if I could pick. Both feel so good. But with a blow job there is usually more teasing involved which I really enjoy. That's a very tough question to answer

    • So, it sounds like you prefer bjs by a slight margin?

    • Maybe

  • I would rather fuck a woman in the pussy than get a stupid blowjob. It's like asking if you would rather masturbate or to fuck someone!