Guys who are bigger then average, does deepthroating hurt you? And does it feel better to go fast or slow when deepthroating?

So, i'm able to deepthroat long penises, latest boyfriend has a BBC that's about 9 inches long and the thing is, i can deepthroat him but his "thickness" feels a little squished in and i can "feel" it bending when its in my throat. Does it hurt bigger guys when a girl deepthroats and it bends? And as a bonus do you prefer it when a girl goes fast and hard or slow?
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er, he's 8 inches not 9... i just feel like i should correct that
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  • I’m around 7.5 and when it hits the back of her throat it slightly bends the tip but hardly at all, I feel bad that if I was an inch bigger I’d poke through the back of her throat lol but no thats not painful or anything at all, teeth are the big killer when our dicks are in your mouths lol and especially when y'all go really fast, and bless your hearts y'all are really putting in a lot of effort during these times lol, but if your going really fast and then you pull it out or pull your head back fast, your teeth can graze and “catch” the head of the dick and omg that sucks lol, and its rare, but I've had a couple girls do the same thing where they do that and barely graze the tip when they do that and even though its just a slight graze, its really the speed that your pulling your head back and my mental thought of the horrific potential outcome but I worry about that way more than the little back of the throat topping out, its kinda like slightly ramming the inside of your palm, you feel it but it doesn’t hurt

    • Thanks for the insightful post! Honestly this makes sense, like i said before my boyfriend has a BBC, i can fit probably 90% of it but i have that top out too and i wanted to ask but wasn't sure how to explain it so thanks for answering. Also, like, i think i'm pretty good about not letting my teeth touch him there, but the thing is my jaw gets drained and sore as fuck and if he wants to go longer soooo keep that in mind that the more sore her jaw is the more likely her teeth are to bite, but i guess that's part of "big dick privilege" ha

    • @emo let him use your throat while laying down with your head agaisnt the bed

  • Fast and hard for me. Deepthroating is an awesome skill, but no need to exaggerate the sound effects (not saying you do!) but some girls do seem to have had sex ed from late 90's German porno's, where if you're not grunting, screaming, roaring like a gorgon or hugely exaggerating your moans and groans, then you're not doing it right! Put's us off our train of thought!
    I can squeeze my penis REALLY hard and it doesn't hurt at all, so in general - tighter the better due to more stimulation of the nerves on the head of the penis. Great skill to have in the bedroom! Kudos to you!!

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  • I've been asking myself the same question. Most guys told me that it doesn't hurt but actually feels good so I think you don't have to worry :)

    • You're absolutely right. Re the 'jaw ache' thing, an ex of mine (sadly!) who gave THE best head I've ever had said the secret was to save the DT for the climax, just to keep the head of the cock in the mouth (wet and warm!) use loads of spit and let her had (s) do the rest. Never having done it, I'm not one to tell you ladies how to do it, but I'm telling you, she could just about turn me inside out - and those were her words - and that way, she didn't get jawache/cramp, so it was't a 'chore' as such (she liked to give head anyway, but neither you girls nor us guys want it to be uncomfortable for you - mutually beneficial ;) )

  • I have being seeing a guy on and off now and his 9" and yes I deepthroat him

    • Can you get the whole thing in? I’ve only been with very few girls who can.

    • Yes I can

    • Nice that’s an amazing skilll

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  • Who are you, Linda Lovelace?

  • There is only 1 thing that hurts an that is when teeth touch it teeth are very sharp most of the time u have to kinda go slow because the back teeth will scrape it and if pushing hard and fast and she starts to choke the front teeth scrape

  • Well unfortunately I haven't gotten to try it yet, also I'm just average but if your worried about it hurting you could try it the way that bends it less, most peniss seem to curve upward so it would make sense to me that it would fit in your throat better if your positions so your looking at his balls, like 69. I don't know I have no idea how your doing it now and I've never tried it yet so I don't know, just seems to make sense to me.

  • I always tilt my head back to align my throat in a straight line so that guys with long c**ks can slide it deep down my throat without it bending

    • That is the best way to do it

  • I personally don't enjoy it. It does feel kind of rough.

  • Blowjob is fun. Though I don't have a huge one but in my opinion deepthroat doesn't hurt guys but I am concerned about girls do they get hurt.

    Tip is more important though. And the combination of slow and fast does the trick

  • So lately! I decided to take a photo om my (cloned willy) that i made for my wife way back. I blurred some details because i don't want people to see how exactly mine looks like (am a weirdo i know)

    My willy
    My willy

    So my lady can't handle deepthroating , she has very weak reflexes and she gives a good head any way. She never did hurt me, but there has been some uncomfortable situations when we started dating.

    • That down vote is so cute.

  • Don't like it. Don't want it

  • Not everyone guess deal and controls gag reflex.. well my wife fore sur can't

  • For women who like to deepthroat my little dick isn't for you

  • not really

  • Iron never hurts ;P

  • for me, deepthroating only works in a very particular angle or if i'm only semi hard. i mean i can't talk for all men but my dick gets really hard, so it can't be bent. it could snap.

    • Yea its way easier on me when a guy is semi hard, but then he gets hard once i'm actually in there. Is there a way to keep a man semi-hard? From what i can tell it kinda comes and goes.

    • it's a bit dificult. i think as long as you keep it bent, it won't get fully hard. but as soon as it gets the chance, it will harden up xD it's litterally like a balloon with a one way valve.

  • Slow and deliberate is the best.

    • I 2nd that.

  • Teeth hurt, as long as there is no teeth, go as deep as you want, but keep in mind most of the sensitivity is in the tip not the shaft.

  • If I had a dollar for every girl who says " I can deep throat 8 inches of thick cock", but can't, I'd be rich.

    • No girl can take 8 inches all the way down lol

    • @neilsmart There might be someone, somewhere... lol but I've never seen it or seen a video of it ! Not only that, but do you know how rare a true 8 inch cock is among men? Less than 1% of men in the WORLD have that, but it seems that every girl on here has a boyfriend who does ! LOL

      By the way, men in the United States rank 60th in the world, with an average size of 5.3 inches, according to https://www.worlddata.info/average-penissize.php

    • @neilsmart uggggh, if you completely get rid of your gag reflex you'd be surprised at how much you can stuff. The biggest problem is maintaining speed because its really tiring and your jaw gets sore like a mother fucker after like 5 minutes of it.

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  • I think you are doing a good service for him. Deep throat queen :)

  • Let's just get it out of the way first that I'm honestly not a big fan of blowjobs overall, and I don't think I've ever had a girl actually deepthroat me, but I can't imagine that it would hurt.

  • I'm 7.5" not huge but bigger than average. I love deep and slow.

    • Do they still choke?

    • @neilsmart most have a hard time.

  • I'm a white boy and I got 9 in I got something besides at 2 how do I do I know how to use that I know how to use my tongue and fingers according to everyone I've ever been with better than any woman or man in this world I know how to satisfy a lady better than anybody else accordingly I mean I guess I'm just some kind of God

    • Ascentis subject got brought up again Vinny ladies would like to practice on my nine inch dick you're more than welcome too.. As long as I get the honor and pleasure eating in that is fine you're pretty little tight pussy as well

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