Guys why are y'all embarrassed when a girl makes you Cum?

[Anonymous]

I jacked off my boyfriend and after he came he became embarrassed and left. Why is he embarrassed if we were pleasing each other?

[AlphaMale1]

I am constantly amazed with what some guys are embarrassed by. There are so many sex-hungry women posting here who do not understand why their guy is the way he is. I love women like this. We are all human with strong sexual drives. Some more than others.

All the woman I have stayed with longer than a month or so were very open about sex, enjoyed sucking my cock, loved the diverse attitude I have with them during sex and were a lot of fun to turn fucking each other into a fun game of pleasure.

For how open society is today it is difficult to understand why most everyone is not in a very satisfying and stimulating relationship. Today you really do not to watch porn to learn to be good at sex. Simply turn on the TV and watch some of the weekly shows and movies. Sex is woven through the plot of most all of them.

[America1st]

I have never heard of a man being embarrassed by cumming unless it was too fast. When it comes to HJ's or BJ's, I always say thanks.

[SarahsSummer]

That's not normal. Unless he was afraid it gets real small after he cums. ?

[madhatters4]

no clue honestly. i've never been embarrassed just for gettin off

[JuicyBrain]

I really have no idea. There is no reason to. Maybe you should ask him. He might have personal reasons.

[TheWiseOldMan2]

Because he's a weirdo

[ClassicRocker]

Maybe because of the mess lol? Other than that I don't know.

[KeiranByrne]

It's an emotion. A feeling. It's gut level and primal and not subject to rationalisation. He'll get used to it.

[ThunderButt83]

because guys are basically told and taught that guys are disgusting sexually, and girls are not. so, guys reactions are obvious.

[BertMacklinFBI]

your boyfriend is weird

[abundantlyrich]

You caught him in his most vulnerable moment.

[Jeeevan]

Having a orgasm isn't a vulnerable moment wtf. If anything, it's powerful.

[scooogy]

@abundantlyrich interesting, but what about you girls in such a situation?

[abundantlyrich]

@Jeeevan you are not guy. So your remark is invalid.

[abundantlyrich]

@Jeeevan *not that guy

[johnmsk]

why?
where did you do it? in public? or did he cum too soon?

[FýrdracaDócincel]

He was probably worried he came too fast.

[Kiran04]

It makes a mess. That's not exactly flattering.

[Xwtxx]

I am not embarrassed because it is a natural reaction. I am not a Vulcan.

[Dragan]

Orgasm is excellent. I will kiss her.

[SteamBuns]

lool

[NightOwl8801]

I don't get embarrassed if a woman makes me cum.

[venomhbk1313]

I would never be embarrassed since we are both pleasing each other it's an awesome feeling to have that done for both of us

[scooogy]

Maybe it made him appear weak to you?

[Table20]

i have no idea why he was embarrassed.. i wouldn't be.. id be happy if anything!

[sftrcnl]

cause he is disciple :D that's why its normall for him

[Anonymous]

He must be one of those rare good ones.

[NeutralMale]

How is that good?

[Opinion Owner]

He's self-conscious about an intimate act. Usually, people that are worried about how they are perceived by others tend to be more thoughtful people.

[NeutralMale]

We have no clue why he reacted like he did though so you can't really assume that.

[Opinion Owner]

That's true, but I'm going off of what she decided to tell let us know.

[NeutralMale]

I get that but there are so many reasons, there is a lot of pressure for guys to last long so that could have been a reason if he didn't last long whilst receiving a hand job, it could have been a penis size issue, it could have been insecurity etc,

[Opinion Owner]

Well, other people already mentioned those possibilities, so what good would it do to mention them again? Plus, I assume she would have mentioned how unusually quick he finished if that had been the case... but that is just an assumption. What do you mean by "a penis size issue"? If he had an issue with that wouldn't he not have shown her his penis to begin with? Unless you're referring to something I don't know about...

[NeutralMale]

After a guy ejaculates, his penis becomes flaccid, some guys are a grower which means when they are flaccid their penis is quite small. I'm like that and it is embarrassing.

[Opinion Owner]

Why would you be embarrassed? Girls know it's normal.

[NeutralMale]

Because the chance of them laughing or being put off, plus my first experience with a girl didn't help that at all, she made me really insecure.

[Opinion Owner]

That is one of the reasons people should know the type of person they're sleeping with. Unless she's simply a good deceiver... That girl made a fool of herself, not you.

[NeutralMale]

I know that but when it happens it just ruins your confidence completely