Guys, why do you check out women while you’re in a relationship?

I can’t grasp it and one of the reasons I’m staying single. I know I’m not the most attractive woman, if anything I’m at the bottom. If I caught my man looking at other women, I’d be tempted to tell him that I’m clearly holding him back from the potential he wants, especially since I don’t compete with most women. It’s embarrassing to know you’re not good enough. If you feel the need to check out pretty women, just dump me and pursue what you want.

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  • I don't know if it is not understanding how men think or human nature in general.
    I have one of these.

    Guys, why do you check out women while you’re in a relationship?

    But if I run across one of these in the Walmart parking lot, I will take a side trip to get a better look. It's 20 years newer and has benefitted from years of technological development.

    Guys, why do you check out women while you’re in a relationship?

    They are both beautiful Corvettes and I like mine just fine. That side trip or checking another girl out is nothing more than art appreciation. I am not lusting over the newer one, just enjoying the view. And you know, my C4 Corvette is not the slightest bit insecure that it does not measure up that C7.. I selected it and not the C7. That is the way you should look in the mirror. There will always be a C-7 walking around at the beach. But he chose you. If you carry this insecurity around with you, you will never have a successful relationship. Get over it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's no different than watching a supercar or a hotrod or low-rider drive by. They are fun to look at. But just because they are interesting to see doesn't mean you want to park one of them in your own driveway.

    You can't tell me that you wouldn't look at a hot guy on the beach or in the gym or whatever - but so what? As long as you aren't approaching them or communicating with them in any way, it's harmless.

    If they're exchanging contact information, or if he's outright hitting on them, that's a completely different thing, but ALL men will LOOK, and if you have a problem with that, that's your OWN insecurity, and not something that the guy needs to change or "fix."

Most Helpful Girl

  • Hot people don't suddenly become ugly when you're taken but there's a point at which it becomes disrespectful to your partner.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I know your type well, insecure, probably small tits, no ass, average face, glasses? smoker, single mom?

    I will admit it's fun to degrade and punish your type, and they do make better BDSM subs and BDSM Slaves, but for a real relationship it's tough for you to compete with what I'm capable of snagging

    • Oh no, I can top that. I’m obese right now.

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  • Just because I find my wife attractive doesn't mean all of a sudden no one else can be attractive.

  • We don't become blind just because we are in a relationship.

  • Instinct, habit, primal brain.

  • I can be perfectly happy with the painting in my living room and still appreciate the beauty of a Monet.

  • Yep.
    It's the way we're wired.

  • We aren't blind. If we're with you, we chose you for a reason and it's probably not because you're the only attractive person we've ever seen. If you want a guy that won't look at other attractive women, find a blind guy.

  • It's a natural instinct.. he is with you for a reason. I doubt you have anything to worry about.

  • It doesn't matter if he looks at another girl, there's always someone more attractive than you, he'll be pulled to her even if you (the girlfriend) is a model, temptation is normal, but not falling to the temptation and not approaching the other girl is what keeps the relationship going.

  • Yes of course we do

  • You need to work on your insecurities.

  • I think it's natural instinct. When a guy is single he's constantly looking at all these different women. If the relationship is new this instinct doesn't naturally go out the window. But if you're in a committed relationship well over a year and this is still continuing and it bothers you, you need to tell him.