Guys why do you like the lights on during sex?

So I had sex with my guy friend & before we got started I went to go turn out the light but he responded with 'leave the lights on, I want to be able to see you.' Now I'm not the skinniest of people & really dislike my body at the moment but I left them on & when we started all that worry disappeared anyways. But why do guys prefer to have the lights on,
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If I'm going to have sex with a bigger sized girl then I already know it that she isn't slim from the time of pursuing her. Therefore her flabs and fats isn't a problem and at times I want to be with a girl who isn't skinny.

    Why lights on? I want her to see my bigger sized penis and 6 pack. During foreplay I will be playing a lot with her boobs and I like to see them.

    Just before entering her I will place my penis against her pubes and then dangle it above her so she sees it again fully erect. Not possible if the lights are off..

    When entering I love seeing my penis stretch her vagina and disappear into her and also enjoy seeing her facial expression of her feeling her vagina being penetrated by a big penis.

    When thrusting I like seeing how her boobs bounce and wobble about so lights off is a no.

  • The answer is so obvious, that it...couldn't be more obvious. In fact, if it were more obvious that calling it the "elephant in the room" would be an insult to how obvious it really is. It's like...you asked the question, answered it yourself, but this realization slipped by you completely.

    Anyway, we want the lights on so that we can...see you lol. I won't even say "dur" here because...well yeah. Your insecurities are YOURS, not ours. We still want to see naked body. The inability to see that from another perspective might indicate the inability to place yourself in perspectives outside your own, or the difficulty in opening your mind enough to remove your own biases and self-perspective in order to mentally simulate a situation from another person's standpoint.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Its not just guys, I want them on as well. I want to see everything that we are doing to each other

  • Lights on is so much better. Men are very visual too, they get turned on by what they see.

  • Because he wants to be able to see you. He even told you that. That's all there is to it.

  • 'I want to be able to see you.'

    You answered your own question :P

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  • I always wondered how the hell people have sex with the lights off. I mean, you can feel your way around and get the job done, but it just seems like a procedure that's best with a little light. I could probably count on my hands the number of times I've had sex in the dark. I'm just a freak I suppose :-P

  • The hottest, esp. to men, sensations (aside from the friction that makes us come) is visual. Watching a woman's face as she comes is the most arousing visual I can imagine. 2nd is watching her hips start to gyrate as she starts to come. I want to look in your eys when you come

  • Exactly what he said we like the visual aspect of it just as much as the physical.

  • yeah but its normal for him to prefer lights on...in this way he will be able to admire your body

  • Because we are visually stimulated and like to look at the goodies.

  • I like the lights on or off as long as I am getting sex. Haha. We are visual creatures. We love to look at the naked female body. Thus all the porn.

  • I love the lights on when I make love to my wife this way I can see her sexiness and the look on her face when she is cumming but the best time for making long to me is during the day you have natural light then

  • to know what's happening

  • It's because men tend to get turned on visually more than women. Many men, including myself much prefer women to have some shape and curves and I'm sure he thinks you look great naked otherwise he wouldn't have wanted to see you naked.

  • to see whats going on. like you girls tell your gfs everything that happened on last night we take every detail from the 'right now'

  • So that I can see her beauty at every inch and look at her expression during. ..
    Totally dark feels like where am I going?
    Is that the place to enter hahah

  • Just like your guy friend said, we want to see you. That's a big part of the sexual experience for us.

    Lots of girls seem to take offense to the idea that guys are more visually aroused than girls, which has always baffled me because it's so incredibly obvious that we are.