Guys, why/when would you stop using condoms?

I've been in a casual relationship with a guy for a year and a half, he ALWAYS wears a condom, without fail. Religiously. Except today he didn't. In the heat of the moment i didn't question it. But im curious - why/when would a guy stop wearing a condom?
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  • Your in casual relationship with a guy for over a year and sex is always with a condom. What kind of relationship is so casual that one or both of you may be having sex with someone else? And in the heat of the moment you never questioned bareback but you do now? Face it, you are just friends with benefits, nothing more Do not read anything into a one time event that you had full control over.

  • I presume you're on birth control? He just finally had to find out how you feel a la natural. If you haven't both had STD screens recently, I'd get one and insist that he get one. Then bareback city here we cum, so to speak!

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  • Before i found out i had pcos at about 20 yo , i isually wait a couple months with a guy before going bareback and he would have to pull out. After i found out and had clear diagnosis I've only had sex less than a half dozen times while using a condom and I've never used one with my husband

    • I've always made it my choice to go bareback or not , and if im wanting them to cum inside me or not

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  • with me it's a trust issue.. when I trust she is loyal, etc than I don't believe I need them. could take years to get that trust.

  • If you convinced him you were on the pill and didn't have STD's. Or he got a vasectomy...

    • Lol. We haven't discussed any of that - however, i dont have any stds, and he hasn't had a vasectomy. He said he dreamt i had his child... so...

  • If she was on the pill and we were in a Solid/committed relationship.

  • I would if I were confident that we were in a monogamous relationship and we were using another method of contraception. If you mean by "casual" that you are both having sex with other people too, then he should use a condom every time.

  • He forgot?

  • He started trusting you.
    I normaly start using condom when i dont know the girl that well.
    When i trust her and see that she does not have any kind of sexual disease, i prefer not using condom because it is 200% better and fells like u really are inside her.
    I dont have any sexual disease (i check everytime i have sex with someone unprotected) and can pull it off before cum.
    If sometime i fail i would ask her to take the pill. And even buy it for her.

  • A guy should stop buying condoms when I don't get my period anymore, so in a about 35 years.

  • Why should we stop to using condoms?

  • when I know that we are both clean and I trust her enough with bc

  • Because his clock started ticking and he wants to raise a family now

  • Never used one.

  • There is no "no condoms" point at all if you are asking this. I prefer to do with condom as well. But if there is no condom why would i stop? .)

  • Because I've been with the same woman for years and I know her well enough that nothing is going to happen that we won't regret. And the feeling is so much better. :-)

  • When I think I can get away with it.

  • When the woman goes on the pill and I know as a 100% fact she is on it. Worked. Never got a woman pregnant until I got married and wanted kids.

  • https://youtu.be/HC4Og450qcQ


    If a girl looked like this definitely bareback

  • Never started even

  • He might have been out of them and so turned on that he decided to just go at it and forget about the condom.

    • Yes - perhaps