Guys, why would you fuckzone a girl?

[Anonymous]

Assuming she is not slutty

[MrOracle]

Being "not slutty" is a good thing if you want to be in a relationship with a guy, but you also need to bring other things to the table in order for most men to want a relationship with you - and because of feminist upbringing (which has been the standard in western culture since before you were born), most women have been trained NOT to bring anything to the table, except for sex. This has resulted in men coming to understand that most women are not "relationship material", which prompts them to categorize most women as "only good for casual sex" - or to use your term, to fuckzone her.

What do men want in a woman in order to pick her for a serious relationship (and note, this is VERY different and a much higher set of standards than what it takes for him to want to just have casual sex with her)?

For most men, she needs to be:

• Fit (i. e., not fat)
• Fertile (i. e., younger, preferably in her late teens or 20s)
• Feminine (in looks, dress, and behavior)
• Friendly
• Cooperative
• Submissive
• Natural (no tattoos, non-ear piercings, extreme makeup, crazy hair colors or styles, etc.)
• Loyal to the "team"/relationship
• Chaste (low body count).

Certainly there are men who will excuse one or two items from this list, but this is what the majority of men want, and it's definitely what the strong, leader, masculine, confident men tend to want (i. e., the kind of men that most women want to be with).

Most "modern women" (i. e., those with a feminist mindset, even if they don't realize it's a feminist mindset) would not qualify for many if not most of those points, so even if she's not slutty, she usually fails in several other areas. Women who are more "traditional" tend to have little problem with this list, there just aren't very many such women around these days.

I should point out that most women never make any effort at all to learn what men want (men are told on a regular basis, from long before puberty, what women want and demand from them), and most "modern women" fail to meet many of these points BY HER OWN CHOICE - meaning at 13, she could have potentially met all of them, but by 16 or 18, she'd already crossed 3 or 4 items off the list, BY HER OWN CHOICE, and thus demoting herself to "fuckzone status" to most men forever.

Part of that is because most women equate men's sexual attraction with relationship attraction, and assume that she can get away with doing these things because plenty of men will still pursue her for sex - not understanding that, sure, they'll still bang you, but they'll never DATE you. For men, sex and relationships are completely different things that only happen to overlap a bit, and the standards for the former are much lower and simpler than for the latter.

[Asker]

Are you a Kevin Samuels fan? lol

[MrCommodore]

I don't fuckzone girls, they are either girlfriend/wife material or red flagged.

[summiter]

Cause the orgasms would be fantastic.

[Th3ft]

Because all he wants is to fuck… I wouldn’t fuck zone anyone though so…

[Keepitreal007]

I don’t even know what a fuckzone is. Can you explain?

[Asker]

Girls you would like to have sex with but you don't consider girl friend material are in the fuckzone.

[Keepitreal007]

Oh interesting. I guess the question is is the girl doing the same to the guy?

[Asker]

No, assuming the girl was always polite with him but never showed any signs of sexual or romantic interest.

[Keepitreal007]

So I could see this. I have people I would have sex with but not marry. But I wouldn’t do it on purpose and hurt her feelings it would be mutual just as sex buddies or something.

[Asker]

But the question is why would you not marry her? what is she missing?

[Keepitreal007]

There are some people that it’s all about physical attraction and not an internal connection.

[Guardian45]

Define "fuckzone"?

[Nahid1707]

What is your dating situation?

[Asker]

I've never been on a date

[Nahid1707]

Okay, you must be the fuck zone girl when you want to be the girl on the dates type

[Luckycharms12]

Not interested. Or don't have any interest in dating at that time

[Asker]

Why would you fuck a girl that you're not interested in? What sets girlfriend material apart from fuckzoned girls?

[Luckycharms12]

Why would you fuck a girl because you are horny. Maybe he wants to play the field. Girlfriend she has be sweet caring fun kind. Doesn't hurt if she has kinky side

[Asker]

I am fun and sweet :(. Yet men only hit on me and touch me me while being very cautious around women they really like.

[Luckycharms12]

Most guys don't want relationships. especially when they are younger they think they're going miss out on something really you don't

[QuietRunner]

possibly if the sex is good and she wears g-strings or thongs

[Asker]

I never had sex in my life nor have I worn g-strings or thongs yet every guy fuckzones me.

[Anonymous]

Isn't that type of "relationship" already called by a different term? As "friends with benefits"?

[Asker]

That is something different. A fuckzoned girl is only good enough for sex

[Opinion Owner]

And friends with benefits are what? Aren't it someone who knows you personally and calls mainly when they want sex but never get attached as a dating pair?

[Asker]

friends with benefits are people who are friends and have sex. fuckzoned girls are just seen as girls to park your penis in