Guys, will your insecurities stop you from being with your girlfriend?

I’ve noticed that the boyfriend doesn’t ask me out to even to hang out anymore. He does want to see me for sex and that’s about it. He is an “insecure” guy and has a lot of issues and he’s shy too. Would that stop him from asking to hang out? Especially if recently I’ve been rejecting how sexual advances (because I’ve been feeling used for my pussy)? So would it stop him or is he just a user then?
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  • I think you need to just talk with him and say that you would like to hang out and have fun and want something more then just sex. How often are you two having sex? Maybe he will get the message. If not maybe cut him off from sexc for a bit... he will have to get use to jerking off more often!!!

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  • If the only time he wants to see you is for sex that's concerning. My girlfriend and I can't really go out on dates anymore because of COVID-19, but she still comes over so we can hang out. We just can't go anywhere now. Obviously we have sex, but we'd prefer to actually go on dates because it's boring staying at home all the time.

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  • Sounds like he is using you. If you really care about someone you are intimate with, you do not let insecurities stop you from showing you care and want to be with them.

  • He ain't shy if he is demanding sex from you. Sounds like his umbrella excuse.

  • Yeah, it might hold a guy who's too insecure.

  • Oh, shy guys, always being down for sex and nothing else... Shy, shy guys...

    • Huh?

    • I don’t get it

    • Exactly

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  • Why do you say he is insecure? Is it because he doesn't want to be with you all day? I'm not saying you are but if you were annoying as shit I know I would probably want to hit it and take off too. But real talk, if you were to rate your own body, 10 being the highest, what would you rate it and why?

    • I say that because he has admitted that. I am really one of the most independent people and I’m confident too, so maybe it’s that he is also intimidated and feels that he’s dating “out of his league”? Sometimes when we argue, he says “are you saying you’re too good for me?”. Comments like that make me think wtf. I’m a 10

  • Maybe. Or he’s just wanting sex from you.

  • Noo never i want to be with her every day and have sex 3 times a day

    • Are you an insecure person?

    • Yes i am and kinda shy too but i changed a lot. I need to see her daily im kinda shy and insecure but very horny

    • That’s how my boyfriend is, but he doesn’t want to do anything else except sex

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  • Rejecting part sucks. If I were him, i would have also stopped because no self respecting guy want to beg for that with her own girlfriend/wife.

    Yeah I know. The reality is quite the opposite. But I can't imagine how humiliating it must feel.