Guys, will your insecurities stop you from being with your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’ve noticed that the boyfriend doesn’t ask me out to even to hang out anymore. He does want to see me for sex and that’s about it. He is an “insecure” guy and has a lot of issues and he’s shy too. Would that stop him from asking to hang out? Especially if recently I’ve been rejecting how sexual advances (because I’ve been feeling used for my pussy)? So would it stop him or is he just a user then?

[summiter]

I think you need to just talk with him and say that you would like to hang out and have fun and want something more then just sex. How often are you two having sex? Maybe he will get the message. If not maybe cut him off from sexc for a bit... he will have to get use to jerking off more often!!!

[Twalli]

If the only time he wants to see you is for sex that's concerning. My girlfriend and I can't really go out on dates anymore because of COVID-19, but she still comes over so we can hang out. We just can't go anywhere now. Obviously we have sex, but we'd prefer to actually go on dates because it's boring staying at home all the time.

[Red_Arrow]

Sounds like he is using you. If you really care about someone you are intimate with, you do not let insecurities stop you from showing you care and want to be with them.

[spartan55]

He ain't shy if he is demanding sex from you. Sounds like his umbrella excuse.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Yeah, it might hold a guy who's too insecure.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

Oh, shy guys, always being down for sex and nothing else... Shy, shy guys...

[Asker]

Huh?

[Asker]

I don’t get it

[I-have-a-biscuit]

Exactly

[I-have-a-biscuit]

You don't get what shy means

[Asker]

Explain it please

[I-have-a-biscuit]

How can a shy guy demand sex so nonchalantly? As opposed to someone using you for sex?

[Asker]

He still demands it despite being shy

[KennethNoisewater]

Why do you say he is insecure? Is it because he doesn't want to be with you all day? I'm not saying you are but if you were annoying as shit I know I would probably want to hit it and take off too. But real talk, if you were to rate your own body, 10 being the highest, what would you rate it and why?

[Asker]

I say that because he has admitted that. I am really one of the most independent people and I’m confident too, so maybe it’s that he is also intimidated and feels that he’s dating “out of his league”? Sometimes when we argue, he says “are you saying you’re too good for me?”. Comments like that make me think wtf. I’m a 10

[OddBeMe]

Maybe. Or he’s just wanting sex from you.

[Eduardobeaner]

Noo never i want to be with her every day and have sex 3 times a day

[Asker]

Are you an insecure person?

[Eduardobeaner]

Yes i am and kinda shy too but i changed a lot. I need to see her daily im kinda shy and insecure but very horny

[Asker]

That’s how my boyfriend is, but he doesn’t want to do anything else except sex

[Eduardobeaner]

That sucks i wouldn't use a girl that i had a relationship for just sex their also humans

[Eduardobeaner]

I am of the sign cancer i don't know how we are

[Asker]

I’ve dated a cancer man before and he was the worst lol no offence. Boyfriend is Aquarius!!

[Eduardobeaner]

Wow ok 😂😂😂😂 ho was he explain☺

[Eduardobeaner]

I won't get offended at all i have plenty of effects and i acknowledge them

[Eduardobeaner]

+defetcs☺

[Asker]

He was so emotional but not in a productive way. After I ended things, he made his sister send me messages threatening me etc, and in general he was not a decent person and kind of sorta pretentious and not genuine. Are you that way?

[Eduardobeaner]

I do feel kinda emotional but i have mastered it i haven't cried in years i hold back happy, angry and emotional feelings 97 percent of the time or more i would never threaten like he did.

[Eduardobeaner]

And im a decent person i dont do drugs ever no smoking not even cigarettes. I just drink 3 times a week a few beer s only. I dont curse, i don't steal etc but i dont know what is considered decent

[Asker]

Being emotional isn’t a bad thing for a man. Well my current boyfriend is emotional but I love it. His emotions make sense, but the previous guy acted feminine sometimes. Decent is when you have a good heart and your intentions are not evil and you do what you say and mean what you say.

[Eduardobeaner]

Oo and i had to look up pretentious and i totally understand what it means and i actually knew someone like that that was also cancer he's in a vegetable state right now thats why i say i knew. I have been working on this defect that cancers have for like 14 years now i work on many defects i know i have them so i fix them and accept i have them.

[Asker]

And my sister is a cancer too and she is the most sneaky person I’ve met, who has no spine. My other sister is a Gemini and we get along really well. Im a Leo by the way. It’s good that you’re trying to fix your “issues”. Self improvement is so important.

[Eduardobeaner]

The sister that is cancer sounds like a very bad girl. i used to be sneaky too i can still be but I've worked on that too and thank you you soo much about recognizing my improvements☺

[Eduardobeaner]

I read about your sign and you sound great i hate when someone puts sad songs or is criying i get out of there fast i feel like i will blow up fast i hate it with passion😅☺

[Eduardobeaner]

Oops i read about gemeni not leo😅 let me have a look

[Asker]

No problem. And you should persist in your improvement and you will see what good results they will bring!!

[Eduardobeaner]

Thanks and yes i see what you mean I've seen lots of good things come by. I reaf about your sign and sounds good i like it

[Asker]

Thank you so much!!

[Eduardobeaner]

aww your soo welcomed😍👍👍

[Asker]

💖💖

[Eduardobeaner]

My heart feels like this now😍😘😘 sadly sweet girls are my weakness

[Asker]

That’s nice 🤗

[Eduardobeaner]

Awww😍😍

[Asker]

☺️☺️

[Eduardobeaner]

How does your body look? im 5'10 i weight 175

[Anonymous]

Rejecting part sucks. If I were him, i would have also stopped because no self respecting guy want to beg for that with her own girlfriend/wife.

Yeah I know. The reality is quite the opposite. But I can't imagine how humiliating it must feel.