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Ok, if you've got a guy friend and he thinks you're attractive (probably above a 6.5-7/10) in his mind, then he probably has thought about you sexually. You know, if you're dressed up hot, or posing with your friends, dressed in a bikini, have a sexy profile picture, eating seductively or even texting him, chances are he might be thinking about you as a sexual woman. He deems you worthy to sleep with him.
DIFFERENT TYPES OF ATTRACTION
TYPE 1 Some guys will view you as potential dating material. The fantasies about you would probably be romantic and giving you as much pleasure as possible. So an extension of real life in a way. Think, sexy lingerie, you seducing him kind of thing. He would be probably 80-90% open to you initiating in real life. But he probably values you as a friend as is nervous too.
TYPE 2 Some guys will view you as physically attractive/pretty and nice too, and he would bang (not necessarily wanna, but would). So he would imagine you being naughty (the cuter you are, the more so), seducing him, being wild. He would be 100% open to you initiating such activity in real life. Even this attraction, he would value you as a friend, and might be nervous to you.
TYPE 3 Some guys will view you as being sexually attractive in a purely physical sense. Again you have to be above a 7/10 in his book. He'd probably imagine you being very naughty and one night stands etc. There's no emotional connection. Wouldn't initiate and probably would understand if others found you hot.
TYPE 4 Some guys would view you as someone who is generally attractive (above a 7), but not someone they are into. They might occasionally think about you, but it's mainly platonic and you helping them get other women.
TYPE 5 Some guys will view you as not being that attractive (above a 7), but would bang. Probably imagine what it would be like or to try someone of your type (which isn't really theirs).
GUYS WILL FANTASIZE AND THEY'D BE 100% OPEN TO YOU WANTING TO FULFIL THEIR DREAMS
A guy will fantasize about all of the above. Types 1 to 3 all share some form of emotional conneciton with 1 being the most romantic (he fancies you as a potential life mate or certainly girlfriend), Type 2, being physical and emotionally (hesitates as you are a great friend), Type 3, mainly physical. Type 4 is more to explore what it would be like as you're someone different. Type 5, is you being his hot wingwoman.
Guys will often fap about their hot female friend after speaking to her. If she updates her profile picture and she looks hot, yep he'd probably get off to the thought of her in a pleasurable scenario. Often fantasies involved:
- Her giving him mind blowing head.
- Her having wild and naughty sex with him.
- Her seducing him with a female friend of hers.
- Her in a 3 some with him and another hot female friend of his.
- Her in a 3 some with him and a fantasy girlfriend.
- Her wanting him and having a wild night of sex then staying friends afterward.
- Giving her a facial
- Her trying to impress him more out of 2 girls giving him head.
The girls he really makes the effort to stay in touch with (initiates texts, responds quick, tries to make laugh or impress, wants to look cool) by text or in person, he has some form of attraction to. The higher she is above a 7/10 (both looks and personality), then the more he fantasizes about her and the more he would be willing to bang."
At the end of the day, he might be romantically interested, just be open to banging, but wouldn't actively pursue, or indeed wanna bang, but not wanna date, but most of the time, a guy's close friends (the one's he MAKES THE EFFORT to stay in touch with, he would 100% be open to banging.
He definitely fantasizes about it. He find her attractive, desirable, and he WOULD.
Would you oblige him? =)
Also, girls do fantasize about guy friends and also about threesomes involving them and a girl.
If she is eating a hot dog, he is going to think about her licking his hot dog that night. If she poses, he is thinking about her impressing him and seducing him. If she sits close, he imagines her as something more. If she dresses hot, he imagines undressing her and her wanting to bang him.
If he becomes friends with you in the sense of staying in touch, provided he thinks you're decent looking and a decent person, then he deems you desirable and WORTHY OF SLEEPING WITH HIM.
Girls...guys would 100 bang their (hot) female friends.
What Girls & Guys Said
0 2Fantasy and reality is not the same, it's quite useless to fantasize about girl that don't want you, also it's not big deal for an guy to fantasize, an guy can fantasize about many girls, even these that he is barely know, as long as they are sexy enough, but with an friend there might be more then just an looks.
Yes. Fantasizing about people you know (who you may not deem your friends even if they think they are) doesn't necessarily mean anything. Doesn't mean you like them or even find them attractive, in fact might just be you wonder what it's like. Fantasizing about female friends can be attraction on looks, but also personality. Whether this is romantic, sexual, both, emotional, varies. Most common when you're single, but can happen even otherwise. With people you deem your friends, you're normally into them in some way anyhow. Fantasizing about female friends is common - they're people you like as people, and if they're attractive (to you) then it's natural and probably happens a lot.
Yes, but like I said most guy can fantasize about many girls, so there is not much special about that, it's almost like the fact that guys likes to look almost as any girl that have cleavage and big boobs, so unless something sexual happen between an guy and his female friend in real life, they are still only friends. Guy don't need to be attracted to an girl to want her as a friend, just as he don't need to be attracted to an guy to want him as a friend. To be friend with someone it's better to have something in common, but for relationship it's better to have more in common then with an friends, that is why some guys and girls are okey as friends but not good enough and/or suitable enough for being more then just an friends. Personally when I get to know new girl, I am not know for sure if she would be good only as friend or more then that, unless she is too unattractive for me, then I know that she would be good only as an friend. :)
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Right I mean you like them as a person and get on to be friends. But if they are attractive as well? Then you might think about them in that way too right? And they might not be single at the time, but later become so. As for fantasizing, it might be romantic or just sexual attraction to her or both. As for becoming more, you might want it if she did too, but would likely stay friends even if you broke up, given you were friends before in any case. Sometimes it's also would bang, not necessarily wanna. If she initiated, then yep up for it right?
Actually by being an friend of an girl, I am likely to find her negative characteristics as well, so I might want her less and not more after getting to know her more, as an friend I might not care about it too much, but as an girlfriend I might not want someone like her, for example if I would find out that she is too slutty, and I am looking for serious relationship and not for an one night stand. Yes I had some female friends that become single again in the time that I was knowing them, and of course that I was not trying to take them from their ex-boyfriend, but I am quite "jealous" person, in a sense that know that they was with other guy before me, it's an turn off for me, that why I am not really waiting for female friends to become single. I don't afraid to risk the friendship if I think that it's worth it, most of my friendships don't lost forever in any case. I had an female friends that was initiated and I was not wanting it, even though I fine with girls that make a move.
Yeah it's better if they make a move. I mean yeah you wouldn't do anything if they were taken, but single and they initiated perfect. But what if both single and you get nervous round her? I mean, don't really know about slutty ones. Tbh have a friend who is outgoing, but no slutty ones. There are girls I knew and who thought they were my friend and very slutty, but i didn't call them my friend. Would only wanna bang or would bang girls who are nice and also hot. As for friends, do you flirt by text or in person.. how to compliment their looks?
Like I said I am fine with girls that make a move, and I see it as an compliment most of the times, unless those girls are pressuring too much, but from my experience most girls that make an move on me are not the ones that I was wanting enough, mainly because of their personality, but there was times that it was because of their body as well. No, usually I am far less nervous around friends, and if we both single is not enough for me, as I am not so desperate for intimacy, enough compatibility and mutual interest those are the most important things for relationship as far as I'm concerned. It's hard to find an girl who is nice and also hot, most hot girls that I know are bitchy. To flirt by text is easier, and I prefer to compliment an girl on her looks only if she is really deserve it, and not just to flirt with her, I am quite honest guy, I would not say ti an girl that her boobs are sexy if I don't really think that they are sexy. :)
Yeah great points. How do you compliment your female friend in person? And how so by text? Tips for texting her to flirt and make her think about you in a sexual way?
@TheSpartan what do you think?
And what if you get nervous texting or around female friends. I mean how to look good or impress them so they see you in that light and well.. fantasize about you?
I do it in quite natural way and not in a fake way, like I said I give compliment only on things that I really like about her, if I don't like almost nothing about body and/or personality of an specific girl then I don't compliment her. I try to take into an consideration how conservative an girl is, if she is very conservative then I would try to use less rough words. If I have an conversations on sexual things with an female friend, there is more chance for sexual thoughts, obviously, and also an female friend would think sexually about me only if she likes my body and personality enough, I never had much of a chance with an girls that don't like beards for example.
Ok, can you give an example? So a girl who is conservative as you say - in person and also in text? How to compliment her looks/personality? If she texts you she's been dancing/partying/eating out/holidaying etc? What if she says she's at the beach or going to bed? And a girl who is partylike?
I see not point in going into details, if she having an nice boobs, you tell her that she have an nice boobs, if you feel that she is not too conservative, and/or feminist to hear that.
Yeah it sure about using the word boobs! What about smile? Just she looks pretty in general? I mean she does look like she has great legs? If she is on a step above on the escalator can you say she looks good on top? It looks old eating a banana? How to tell her she looks hot ins friendly way but makes her think about proving herself to you?
Tell her whatever you want, as long as you truly think so, I don't support lies, actually I was having one female friend, that I had told her that it's sexy and better when see eat full eating full banana, without cutting it to peaces, as she used to do before that, and yes she know the reason why eating banana might look sexual. You can't really tell sexual things without making your female friend suspect that maybe you are attracted to her, the only way to try to lower the "wanted level" is by telling it in humorous manner and/or talking about sexual things in not personal way.
Ok good point. I mean I saw her eat a full banana and she was at my knee level lol, so yeah I was pretty turned on but had no idea what to say? What would you suggest at the time or in future? I agree on the day what you feel thing. So how to appear desirable, someone she sees as someone to chase and want?
You might tell her that it's sexy to see her good looking girl having banana in her mouth, I don't have other ideas of what to say in this case, and I don't like to be cared away too much with this sort of talk anyway, I prefer to keep it simply, I am not the writer of fifty shades of grey, if you get what I mean. Girls are not the same, so you can never be desirable to everyone, and many things that make an guy desirable or not desirable are hard or even impossible to chance, like some things in the looks and personality. Most of the times girls that was wanting me, was wanting me almost from the very beginning, I believe that it's based mainly on if the girl likes the guy's looks, and to some degree on how the girl is getting along with the guy.
Yeah that is very true. I guess attraction is attraction. Just how to know that the girl is attracted by say text or in person so you know how to bring up these things. And is it better to do it when she's with another friend to play off one or use both to feel attraction to you? Is it better one on one? And say the banana thing, what could you say.. something like that looks really good or you two need a room? Any examples? How do you actually tell her she looks pretty so she feels flattered and excited (sees you sexually) when meeting up? Say after a while? But not too awkward so you can continue with the activity. And how to touch to build attraction? Solving the banana one would be great! Thoughts?
Not all the time no. I have a couple female friends that I am actually a little repulsed by sexually, but they are still good friends. Although fantasizing about female friends seems to be more common among men, especially single men.
Yeah why is that? If you're single and she is, can you flirt? I mean is there anything wrong with finding them attractive too? Do you reckon they think about their friends occasionally, even for a moment?
Nothing wrong at all, honestly most of my female friends I have been attracted to, but not all.
Cool, so if nervous when texting one? As for finding some attractive its normal to fantasize about them right? Should one tell them? Or a funny way in convo to tell them they're pretty when they ask you about how they look in a picture?
If you are really attracted to them as in possible girlfriend, yea let them know. Face to face is always best. Just be sure. The only way to get out of the friendzone is to tell the truth and give them an ultamatum. Either we go out or you can't see them as a friend anymore. They might still say no, but not being friends and moving on is better than the torture of the feiendzone.
Ok, that is a great point. But anyway to do it without losing her as a friend? How to flirt/be exciting in text? Or say in person when meeting a long distance friend who you think is pretty? What to do as in activity? How to compliment her in person? And how by texting?
That cam be difficult, especially via text. The best advice I can give is start out as a friend. Tease her, bust her balls so to speak, not too over the top though, treat her almost like your bratty little sister. Then just start flirting with her. Start with sexual innuendo, and then give her some compliments, but mix it in with the ball busting. As far as activities, make it personal to what she likes, something new and fun she hasn't teied before. If she is outdoorsy, find a new hiking trail she hasn't been on, and plan a hike. If you are friendzoned their is NO way out of it without giving her the ultamatum. She might say no and you might need to cut her out, but if you are really into her, beleive me it will save you pain in the long run. Constantly going out and watching her screw total assholes who dont love her, then comes crying to you when, shocker, they dump her ass, always saying stuff like "how are you still single" but never "wanting to jeapordize" our friendship.
You dont deserve that torture.
Great points. Ok, so say it's long distance, how to flirt by text? And when you meet in person how to flirt or what to arrange? Rock climbing might be extreme for a catch up lol plus it's more city stuff. And I like your idea, could you give examples of how to flirt with sexual innuendo's and teasing? Also how to compliment her looks or when she tells you by text or in person she's into, I dunno dancing, the gym or something, how to respond? Is it qualifying or something like that?
I see not point in going into details, if she having an nice boobs, you tell her that she have an nice boobs, if you feel that she is not too conservative, and/or feminist to hear that.
Well it's the wrong place, this response is meant to be, on my own main opinion.
Thoughts?
Its jard to explain. Try some innduendo.
Suggestions/example for innuendo? And how about holiday wishes?