Guys, would you appreciate a woman rejecting you because you can do better?

I’m 25, haven’t been on a date and a virgin. I made the decision at 18 to remain single and a virgin the rest of my life due to my body. I am halfway through a major weight loss journey. I look fine with clothes on, but it’s scary once they’re off. I have some loose skin on my stomach/arms, large saggy boobs, strawberry skin, stretch marks everywhere, etc.

I genuinely couldn’t imagine a guy being attracted to my body, let alone letting a guy see it. Plus, I’ll be 26 once I get the weight off and I’ll be out of my prime. I’m nervous about getting approached as I’m going out more and even if I find a guy attractive, I’ll reject him because he can do better. It’s a win win situation because I won’t embarrass myself showing my body and he’ll find someone else more attractive. I’m happy I have self awareness to save a guy from me and pick a better woman. Would you appreciate a woman rejecting you because you can do better physically and age wise? Thank you in advance. 😊
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  • I think once u have gone through this journey ur mindset might change. After the weight loss and possible skin surgery. Ur confidence should boost at least u will feel healthier and if men talk to u then cool be friendly and let them know ur not dating but appreciate the asking. If at some time ur thoughts change on the matter. all u can be is truthful and honest about the physical changes and there are still some decent people in the world who look for substance b4 anything else. Good luck on ur transformation.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I want kids …. So I guess not. But it is what it is. The heart knows what it wants.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, I would not.

    As a small girl my own mother was severely burned in a house fire. The area of her body between her waist and her shoulders was several scared and her nipples were burned away.

    Had my father ignored my mom (who never imagined she'd be married), I wouldn't be here.

  • By this type of body
    At first guys need to approach you for date rejecting come second first let see who gonna date body like you? at least I'm not.

    • I’m hoping to never be approached. Fingers crossed I never have to be put in that position, so we’ll see. 😊

    • Yes your hope will be fulfilled...✌️

    • Thank you! I appreciate your feedback. 😊

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Dont self sabotage yourself with dating. You're not even giving a guy the chance to appreciate you and you're keeping yourself from being truly happy.

  • Put yourself out there. Get some confidence some guys are attracted to the mind and are ok with the attached body. let a guy see you and appreciate you.

  • Yeah, I would appreciate it