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Guys, would you be mad if a girl did this while hooking up?

i (f19) hooked up with a guy (m21) for the second time and here's what happened:
we were making out, took our clothes off and he was sucking my tits and then went down on me twice and was fingering me. i didn't give him a bj, but i did give a hj and then he wanted to fuck me. he doesn't know but i'm a virgin so i didn't want him to actually fuck me so he was just humping me while his dick was inside the lips of my vagina. he kept saying he wanted to go inside me but i wouldn't let him, but he still came by the end. would you guys be mad? i feel like i was a bit of a dead fish and kinda let him down.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It sounds like he still enjoyed it regardless lol. You should tell him your a virgin and that was why you didn't want him to do that. If you explain that your a virgin and you still like sex but want a different place he may be understanding.

    I doubt he's mad though. He may have thought it was weird but I doubt he is mad about it.

  • Your going to have to be direct with him. Yeah that's a big let down.. If he doesn't understand then fuck him (not literally lol) . Or you can get married then fuck lol

Most Helpful Girl

  • I agree with what Anon said. Unless you communicate about these things it may just seem like bad sex to him, which might result in him not returning for more. Either way, the risk of him not wanting more is high.

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  • When I was 21 I would have been upset especially NOT knowing you were a virgin. Knowing you were a virgin I would have accepted that you were maybe not ready yet and accepted doing oral on you or getting a hand job or just continue fooling around.

  • I wouldn't be mad but I probably wouldn't return for me. If a girl told me that she was a virgin then I'd understand then I probably would come back for more as long as there's a chance for actual sex somewhere down the line.

  • You're not a virgin. Lol

  • If you dry humped, you can't really say you hooked up

    I also think the hookup culture is VERY stupid, and I think you're making a BIG mistake

  • No I wouldn't be mad because I'm a virgin too. If I wasn't a virgin I may be a little but I'd understand why you didn't let him in. I think a lot of guys that are just hooking up would be mad

  • Its okay. You dont have to have sex unless you really want it. you'll get used to it in time. You'll be better

  • What's there to be mad about you went as far as you wanted to go. He should be happy with whatever happened and look forward to more later on.

  • Seems like bad sex if he didn’t know why you did that or because no condom available, if you said you were a virgin he would of understood

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