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Guys, would you care if your girl can only ever get off with a vibrator?

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  • Well I would make sure this isn't because she desensitized from using a vibrator a lot by her not using it for a few weeks. She maybe only can orgasm through clitorial stimulation but you don't need a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris. If she isn't desensitized then I will accept the situation and we'll have to come up with how we can make me more part of her pleasure and it still being fun for us both.

  • it’s not ideal... but if we had tried everything and that’s just the only way she could get off. Then It is what it is. It’s nobody’s fault or anything, You just move forward together.

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  • I don't believe that! Maybe the guys you have been with haven't taken enough time, to get to know you, and love you, and make you feel loved!

  • I'd work to beat the machine

  • I would not. I had a partner who mostly did not climax from PiV. Best sex ever.

  • I would want to deliver an orgasm for her. If I could do so using her vibrator, I could work with that.

  • That would probably be disappointing. I imagine it would be a lot more satisfying to be with a girl who genuinely gets off to me and we only use vibrator as an added benefit rather than the vibrator being the primary/only way she gets off.

  • No thats totally fine, i often buy sextoys for my girlfriends. Every girlfriend i had got a high quality magic wand (not the cheap ones, but the one with power!). I love making woman cum with vibrators. But i also like to watch :) the female orgasm is sooo magical!

  • yea that sucks lol

  • No, I’d just buy a vibrator so I could get her off! Easy question.

  • If she thinks that's the only way then fair enough but I'd like to still try and help her, even if at the end of the day I'm the one holding the vibrator to help her get her off

  • Yes i would care. That means i won't ever be able to get her off by myself.

    Im sure if she stopped stimulating it so much it would recover and become sensitive again.

    • Gosh, if only it were that easy lol. If you are controlling the vibe that doesn't count as you getting her off?

    • No, it still isn't the same if im controlling the vibe.

  • well yeah, i mean, what would be the point in having sex then

    • Lawl, well if you can't offer any more value during sex with a vibrator than a vibrator can solo then that's on you.

    • But that's the point. I'm saying, why are you not able to get off from him You're likely with the wrong guy

    • Why would anyone have sex if they can just get themselves off... that is essentially what you are saying. And believe me I have tried without for years. It isn't 'technique' or 'skill' as much as that hurts a guys ego. It is the intensity of the stimulation that a guy just can't possibly match.

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  • Nope fine by me, I love to operate a vibrator on a girl, preferably a magic wand 😈

  • Nope id be cool with that

  • I would hook a small vibrator to me put it in ahe got a real vibrator

  • You need to get screaming orgasm from hard fuck, that's what you need...

  • no, i would help her

  • Well how about fingers? Or tongue?

  • On one hand, I would be insulted, I want to be the one who gave her that orgasm. On the other, it opens up a whole new fun sexual world for our relationship. So you tell me, how do you feal about tease and denial?

  • I've never met a woman who couldn't get off from having her pussy licked.

  • Only and every time? Yes and no. On one hand, whatever gets her there or helps yay! I have no problem with it. But on the flip side, all the time? I can't get her there ever? That would bother me a bit. Like it would you right if it was reversed? You'd want to be the reason he orgasms right? So do we. You know? It's only human nature and very hard no to take it a bit personally, even if it's not at all and even if we know it. Those feelings that you can't control. You're going to have them whether you want to or not lol.

    • I'd want her feedback, if there was anything I could do to help (that I'm not)? I have no problem taking direction lol. But I know some guys aren't like that.

    • I can't really think what would be the equivalent to a vibrator for a man in this case. But if say a guy needed a vibrating butt plug or something to get off, I don't think I would take that as some personal failing on my part. If that is what works for them, that is what works. I can still enjoy sex with them even with an extra tool involved.

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