No, however I could kind of understand why a guy might do that. If he thinks you are holding out for the right one and he is looking for sex earlier in the relationship, then it is just a waste of time
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sawnoMaster
+1 y
No not at all, i would mostly be the same towards her with the addition of respecting her choices to take things slow and being more gentle the first time if we where to ever have sex.
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WalterRadioGuru
+1 y
No, I would help her solve her problem.
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Bonnie12I27I12Xper 6
+1 y
I was about 16/17 when I met a guy I really liked. we were dating and he said it scared him and he didn't want to take it. I asked if he meant I should sleep with someone else then come back to him and he said no he just wanted me to "get rid of it" to this day I still have no idea what that means
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WalterBlack
+1 y
Many people define virginity by the presence of an intact hymen. (This is misleading because the hymen can be dislodged by things other than vaginal intercourse, such as inserting a tampon). I think that the guy might have been paranoid about the sex being painful for you and messy. A (small?) number of women choose to get rid of the hymen before having sex by penetrating themselves with fingers or sex toys. Maybe that is what he was hoping for.
Anon-ymous1
+1 y
@WalterBlack Good answer.
abundantlyrich
+1 y
The truth is a tight hole will bruise his penis easily and is bloody painful and he probably can't deal with blood spilling onto his peepee too.
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abundantlyrich
+1 y
He prefers a stretched pussy tunnel because it will fit his peen in like a glove without pain
Anon-ymous1
+1 y
@abundantlyrich LOL wtf?
abundantlyrich
+1 y
@Anon-ymous1 penis massacre caused by virgins
CatskillsXper 5
+1 y
If I was single,, no I would never ghost you,, actually you being a virgin would be appealing,, so don't give it away to just any guy,, make sure he has his priorities straight and he is into you as you are into him. (Love)
Also there are some things you can do that will make the intimacy more fulfilling for you. I can explain if you'd like.
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SuitcaseXper 4
+1 y
We all have to start somewhere. I would love to go out with one as my past gf's had aleady been done by someone else.
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notallthere98Xper 6
+1 y
I couldn't care less if someone is or isn't a virgin
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Robsinsf53Yoda
+1 y
No, I wouldn't ghost any person for anything.
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JawajoeyXper 5
+1 y
Nope.
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TripleAceMaster
+1 y
😂😂😂 Virgins haha lol they always seem to have issues hahah Its like trouble follows a virgin lol
I dunno. Some guys do hahah
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NineBreakerYoda
+1 y
No. 1. I think that ghosting to be unethical, unless there is an extenuating circumstance. 2. If the question is: Would you break up with her? The answer is also, no. If she's a good, decent person then that's the most important thing. You can gain experience in the sack, but you can't grow a coincidence if you've never had one.
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DargilMaster
+1 y
Geez. In my community, "ghosting" is killing. I wouldn't do that or head for the exit either.
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Apope16Editor
+1 y
ABSOLUTELY NOT. ITD BE A TURN ON. No stds are a good thing.
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darklandrunner
+1 y
What if she was. born with herpes?
brianjosephXper 5
+1 y
No wtf. If any guy does he clearly isn't the right guy
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Mexicoman101Guru
+1 y
Nope. That would be fuckin' awesome to hear, actually. Unless she's religious.
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Loon309Xper 5
+1 y
No. Is that supposed to matter?
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CorrectingMyLife85Xper 4
+1 y
Would you ghost a 32 year old virgin?
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PassionUnknown
+1 y
Yea but what if she was gorgeous
CorrectingMyLife85
+1 y
I... was talking about me...
CorrectingMyLife85
+1 y
Should have been more specific. I would not care regardless... But for me, I feel like no one will ever want me now
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PassionUnknown
+1 y
Oh. I wouldn't by the way. Lol sry I'm sure u find love 💘
CorrectingMyLife85
+1 y
I should have been even more specific... I am a guy... I want to know if she would ghost a 32 year old virgin guy? Or is my life hopeless? I have been going through an extremely difficult time regardless this; which I don't want to share my life story anymore atm
PassionUnknown
+1 y
Doesn't matter. Same thing, I'm sure you be fine dude
CorrectingMyLife85
+1 y
Hard to see it right now... But I hope so.
jaden5116Xper 3
+1 y
No... why would you
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Bandit74Master
+1 y
Depends on her age and personality. In most cases I would probably assume she was lying and that she has really been around the block a few times.
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23 193No, however I could kind of understand why a guy might do that. If he thinks you are holding out for the right one and he is looking for sex earlier in the relationship, then it is just a waste of time
No not at all, i would mostly be the same towards her with the addition of respecting her choices to take things slow and being more gentle the first time if we where to ever have sex.
No, I would help her solve her problem.
I was about 16/17 when I met a guy I really liked. we were dating and he said it scared him and he didn't want to take it. I asked if he meant I should sleep with someone else then come back to him and he said no he just wanted me to "get rid of it" to this day I still have no idea what that means
Many people define virginity by the presence of an intact hymen. (This is misleading because the hymen can be dislodged by things other than vaginal intercourse, such as inserting a tampon). I think that the guy might have been paranoid about the sex being painful for you and messy. A (small?) number of women choose to get rid of the hymen before having sex by penetrating themselves with fingers or sex toys. Maybe that is what he was hoping for.
@WalterBlack Good answer.
The truth is a tight hole will bruise his penis easily and is bloody painful and he probably can't deal with blood spilling onto his peepee too.
He prefers a stretched pussy tunnel because it will fit his peen in like a glove without pain
@abundantlyrich LOL wtf?
@Anon-ymous1 penis massacre caused by virgins
If I was single,, no I would never ghost you,, actually you being a virgin would be appealing,, so don't give it away to just any guy,, make sure he has his priorities straight and he is into you as you are into him. (Love)
Also there are some things you can do that will make the intimacy more fulfilling for you. I can explain if you'd like.
We all have to start somewhere. I would love to go out with one as my past gf's had aleady been done by someone else.
I couldn't care less if someone is or isn't a virgin
No, I wouldn't ghost any person for anything.
Nope.
😂😂😂
Virgins haha lol they always seem to have issues hahah
Its like trouble follows a virgin lol
I dunno. Some guys do hahah
No.
1. I think that ghosting to be unethical, unless there is an extenuating circumstance.
2. If the question is: Would you break up with her? The answer is also, no. If she's a good, decent person then that's the most important thing. You can gain experience in the sack, but you can't grow a coincidence if you've never had one.
Geez. In my community, "ghosting" is killing. I wouldn't do that or head for the exit either.
ABSOLUTELY NOT. ITD BE A TURN ON. No stds are a good thing.
What if she was. born with herpes?
No wtf. If any guy does he clearly isn't the right guy
Nope. That would be fuckin' awesome to hear, actually. Unless she's religious.
No. Is that supposed to matter?
Would you ghost a 32 year old virgin?
Yea but what if she was gorgeous
I... was talking about me...
Should have been more specific. I would not care regardless... But for me, I feel like no one will ever want me now
Oh. I wouldn't by the way. Lol sry I'm sure u find love 💘
I should have been even more specific... I am a guy... I want to know if she would ghost a 32 year old virgin guy? Or is my life hopeless? I have been going through an extremely difficult time regardless this; which I don't want to share my life story anymore atm
Doesn't matter. Same thing, I'm sure you be fine dude
Hard to see it right now... But I hope so.
No... why would you
Depends on her age and personality. In most cases I would probably assume she was lying and that she has really been around the block a few times.
No, why would I?
because she is inexperienced in bed
I mean I'm not experienced either