Guys, would you have oral sex with a girl (give and receive) but say no to full on intercourse?

If so can I hear your reasons please because this happened to me a couple of weeks ago and I’m still trying to comprehend it.
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He’s above average tall and we were in the car to which he used the not enough room excuse but I’m not sure that’s the genuine reason.
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  • Yeah, I guess, depending on the situation. One reason to do so for me (and I'm not claiming it's a very rational one) is the fear of coming too quickly. Coming inside her kinda puts an awkward stop to the whole situation because you have to pull out and dispose of the condom instead of continuing the intercourse until SHE comes, so especially if I haven't cum in a while it sometimes feels more comfortable to use my hands/mouth instead. 🙈

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  • If you were in a car, that might be part of it. So might fear of pregnancy, or differing beliefs about different forms of sex. Or some combination of factors; few things in life are done for only one reason.

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  • I've done just oral, usually giving but never turned down more afterwards.

  • It makes no sense to me either, unless he was concerned about pregnancy. Or, he might have some sort of kink, and only want oral sex.

    • I get the pregnancy thing. I was just shocked because we have so much sexual tension & chemistry and never known a guy to have so much self control!

  • I love giving oral but truly a car is the worst place possible to have full on sex. I'd rather do it on the grass then in a car.

  • Short answer, yes.

  • I might be really sore by having too much sex the night before.

  • In a car... really? So, do you turn more than one trick per night?

  • Nope, very picky on who I go down on but less picky on who goes down on me

  • There would have to be a specific reason that I wouldn't want intercourse, at that time.

    • Reasons being?

    • I don't know, maybe my back and legs were sore from the hiking trip I just got back from?

  • I probably have intercourse with her after the oral sex but I let her decide if she wants to have intercourse.

  • Because you don’t risk pregnancy.

  • Yeah, but that's because I impose a waiting period for penetrative sex below the waist, but not on oral. I am okay with oral on the first meeting.

  • Nope.. it’s all open for me

  • probably not

  • Sure oral sex can be fun until more whenever.

  • In a car yeah, oral can be fun but intercourse it just uncomfortable

  • I would rather give oral than fuck and have the embarrassment of a limp dick

  • Nope

  • Yes why not.
    Oral sex feels much better

  • Yes sometimes

  • Some guys find it hard to get hard. Oral might be a safer way to please a girl

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