Guys, would you sleep around if you had the opportunity to have sex with all women or would you have sex only with women whom you love?

So would you whore around if you had the oppurtinity to have sex with the whole female population? I often hear that men are actually polygamous and are not promiscuos since they dont have the opportunity to do that. I dont know if it is true. This is actually scary to me since this may mean that they have no self-control and only stay monogamous because they have to. I personally feel bad if guys only stay monogamous because they dont have other options. It is like when someone dates you because this person has no other/ better options.
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I am sure that women sleep around for lust too. As i said i heard that men are actually polygamous and so if this is true, then men are supressing their true sexuality which can't be healthy and so men only stay mono. 'cause this is the only way to get sex. This is almost like a gay person who dates the opposite sex to get accepted/love. It is scary that i may supress a man's sexuality since i prefere to be monogamous and this is not love for me
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Girls also can vote and i also want to know if women want to be promiscus too if all (hot) guys would want them. Then can guys who said yes, answere if they would accept an easy partner like them? If not, then you prefere a female cuck with no self worth 'cause no sane women would be ok with a hypocrite manwhore.
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  • Not in the slightest. I'm still waiting for the woman I love and while I have a massive crush on a woman who will probably never love me back, I know I have plenty of options. I'm a musician, biker, avid muscle car enthusiast, Rancher, writer, entrepreneur, tattoo enthusiast, model and I work out quite a bit both because I enjoy staying in shape and having abs and because my woman will hopefully one day enjoy my physique and tattoos.

    I've attempted to do the casual thing in the past and I just couldn't do it, ended up backing out at the last second, it's just not me. I have crushes on pornstars I watch and always wonder what it'd be like but at the end of the day I just couldn't do a casual thing, I only want one and I'll end up falling for her. I mean, I sort of already have for someone.
    Plus I've noticed the guys who go whoring around are actually usually really fat and kinda gross and pathetic. Like, sorry, but they wear all these fancy clothes and learn one or two little tidbits of information to act smart and they lie through their teeth pretending to be someone they're not to get tons of women into bed with them. Then I presume these girls wake up next to some pudgy uninteresting loser with no skills and no real personality, realize what a mistake they made and end up with guys like me. The amount of skills I have are a direct result of being single for so long and having so much time to devote to me and developing me as a result and I've gone a lot farther in my life and can do more than any of these guys ever can. I sometimes feel sorry for them... then they speak and hear about how I'm still a virgin waiting for my girl. Then a woman sees me at a bar and fawns over me and then hears all about my life and the guy on the other side of the table just becomes an afterhthought which is kinda ironic 'cause I'm not even remotely interested in her. My mind always rests on the same woman.

    No. There are men out there that legitimately only want or need one woman. We just are extremely hard to get. Quality demands quality.

    • I just want to add that I'm the way I am as a man but if I were born a woman I'd probably totally be going around fucking everything I could getting as much dick as I could. But then, I probably wouldn't since it's just the male fantasy female version of me that I see in my head that would be going around hunting young virgin men and "deflowering" them, teasing them, sucking them and riding them. Hey, I am who I am, I have my fantasies.

  • Men are not naturally polygamous. That is a myth and an excuse. Men are only polygamous when they are selfish and lack morals.

    • Thanks for the MHO. And for the record, no; I would not.

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  • The question isn't quite as simple as that in practice. That would be like asking if men would hold out for filet mignon (or whatever his favorite premium meal was) and go hungry when that premium meal wasn't available. Most men would not choose to go hungry.

    Many men, such as myself, would prefer to be in a relationship - sex with a woman you have feelings for is usually better than sex with a stranger. But for most men, finding a relationship isn't easy, and many men go long periods of time without them. During those times when we are single, and haven't found a suitable relationship partner, casual sex is like fast food: it may not be premium cuisine, but it's tasty and it fills our stomach and takes away the hunger pains. We'd much rather eat fast food than starve until we can get that high-end meal again.

    Make no mistake: men have a natural instinct that compels us to sleep around and impregnate as many women as possible, and we have to suppress this natural urge when we are in a relationship - but if the relationship is good, then suppressing this urge is pretty easy for most of us to do. If the relationship is not healthy or fulfilling, then it's much harder to suppress those urges. The urges never go away completely - we have to manage them, but most of us do so successfully when we're in a relationship. That love we feel in a healthy relationship gives us amazing power to do so that we wouldn't otherwise have.

  • I mean I like to think I would choose someone and stick with them.

    But to be totally honest, I would probably get me a girlfriend who is bi and likes open relationships, and we would travel the world together making love to men and women of every culture. Most of the time together.

    Like, Oberyn Martell is pretty much my role model in that. But hey, he's invited, too.

  • Every hear the old saying... "if you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you have."

    If I could just jump from women to women to women with out failure then sure it be fun for a time. But in my life I have been with several sexy women, so its not always everything you would of hoped for. But with thrill of the case I think it would get boring.

  • I prefer to only have sex with women with whom I'm in a relationship.

    Even if I had the opportunity to sleep with any woman, whenever I wanted, I would not take it. I would rather spend the rest of my life having sex with one woman, whom I love.

  • I wouldn't want to sleep around with all women but getting a few women and adding some new younger ones every several years. If some of the girls were willing to be bi and do girl on girl, it would be even better. But I would prefer to have an emotional connection and not just one time sex. Long-term poly relationship where the girls also do stuff with the other girls is what I would really like.

  • I’m fine staying monogamous.
    we have had a threesome, we mutually agreed to it, otherwise we are monogamous

  • Only friends, and only if we are kinda close. There's about 7 women who qualify for this. One of them I'm in love with... So...

    • I'd prefer only the one I love... But if that's not an option then its if my female friends want to. And I'm not about to bring that up first. I misunderstood the question. I prefer monogamous relationships.

  • I have and that opportunity all my life when you're younger and you get together with somebody and you realize after you've had sex with her. That you basically with only thinking about yourself and the pain are the hurt that girl felt it's real and once you feel that a couple times you stop doing that either that or you just become honest he said look I'm not ready for a relationship you're absolutely beautiful I would love to make love with you I would love to be your friend and you go from that from that point of view that way both people know what's going on and so it's not going to get hurt it's just much better deal that way and then after that happens if you times you want something deeper so you just going to tell yourself while I'm not going to go there until I can find that one and you explore you experience I think that's just part of life growing up I think I was lucky because I can feel people I can feel their energy I can look into their eyes and understand what they're feeling at that moment and I hate feeling pain come from anybody right before covid-19 I broke up with my girlfriend and I've been single ever since and I really would like to go back to those days just because I has a hundred times more compassion than I had when I was younger and I want to feel that again I want to explore and experience and give that to somebody else let them enjoy it that's what it's all about I just don't want to use anybody to do that to fill that so I'm stuck with masturbation for now and every once in awhile if I get lucky I will have a good chat with a friend and get 2 role play or have phone sex which is very very intense I just need to find a friend to do that with

  • I would love to be polygamous and explore with other women. However due to some reason, I won't be able to accept my partners being poly.

    Hypocrisy isn't it?

    • Yes it is hypocritical and does not make sense since you increase women's bodycount and if many men increase women bodycount you would not find any non promiscuos woman

    • Yeah... The reason i think I would be against a girl being promiscuous would be: "if there is no exclusivity, what is love then?" Logically speaking, it doesn't matter. Like you have many friends and don't get jealous when your friends get new friends. You do pleasurable activities together and bond (non sexual) Similarly, being polygamous would mean just adding an element of sex between the relationships I have with women. Naturally they can have their own relationships involving sex The other way of thinking makes me question what love is... Is it merely attraction?

  • Oh I'd fuck around all over. Not having sex with more women already is and will be one of my biggest regrets, not being attractive to the other sex and therfore missing out on lots of experiences because of it is a shitty feeling.

    • Read your update, I am loyal and monogamous, if a girl hit on me now I would cheat on my girlfriend, but on the other hand let's put it like this, I've been dating over a year now and I've never had to reject a girl with the " I have a girlfriend" line. So you're half right, I don't sleep around cause can't, I do feel suppressed, settling is a reality for me and other men BUT I do believe in monogamy.

  • Been there, done that.

    You think you are cool for a while, then it begins to suck when you start hurting people.

  • Having to deal with one woman is more than enough for me. I don't need the hassle and stress of trying to deal with multiple women. Though it's very tempting, I'll stick with one woman at a time, and right now, that's my SO... we've been together for 6 years and counting.

  • I haven't had sex but I know from my past relationship that I enjoy pleasing my girl more than pleasing myself, and an emotional connection just enhances that. I'd rather please the girl I love than sleep around with a bunch of girls I dont know or care about tbh.

  • Mostly B. There may be an occasion when I get close to someone who pulls at me. With no effort, one of my SO's best friends is doing that. She's lonely in a bad relationship. I'd just like to hold her for a while.

  • If I was a guy and I was hot enough I’d probably go through a hoe phase then settle down with one woman I loved

  • I MIGHT sleep around for a little while but would much rather be with someone I love.

  • I mean I can have sex outside of love, but can still be pretty choosy about I have it with.

  • I can't speak for every guy but I assume I'm not alone when I say I only want the woman I love.
    But you have to understand this is a road that is not often open to the modern guy. Most women simply don't want one guy anymore. At least not the same guy. It's one thing I've just had to learn to accept. That love is messy, conditional, and doesn't last. One of the main reasons I stay single.
    I mean if I wanted something that is fake, and shallow I could just go to a strip club.

  • When an alpha dude has options, he's gonna take it, especially if he can find hotter than what he currently has.

    Lucky for you, there aren't many alphas like me around, most dudes are betas, simps and white knight manginas these days and worship even average or below average women. But for me, I'm always on the prowl for fresh meat, especially if the b-tch I'm with is average in looks.

  • If one is taking care of their loved one, trying to sleep with any others shouldn't even enter into one's mind.

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