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We wanted to spice things up
So we went on a dating app and searched for someone to have a 3some with
We already done it with a girl
Just for one night and its done
So looking for a guy next
We came across this HOT guy
Started chatting to him
My boyfriend is not gay but he approves since he wants to make me happy/satisfied
We met up with the guy
And he looks better in person
He was down for a 3some
So came back to our place
And we did it
This happened few weeks ago
And now this guy been texting me everyday
Sometimes calling me out of the blue
And I feel like he's now obsessed with me
Should I tell my boyfriend?
What should I do?
What Girls & Guys Said
13 34You should also block that guy, but if you did it in your residence he may try to "visit" in person.
Do both. Your boyfriend sounds pretty cool. I wouldn’t want to have a 3 way with another guy. Did the guys do anything with each other?
If the guy is after you, and your not interested tell him 'No'. If necessary, block him. If necessary, call the police.
Both options.
Had with this my exes. For years. Every. Single. Time. Welcome to my world :)
Now you know why having threesomes are immoral
When a couple mutually agrees to engage in a threesome it's not immoral. Immoral would be if one of them were cheating. Don't be such a drama queen
Don't tell your boyfriend - that will just make it worse.
Do all three
Don't hide it... It could ruin your relationship
Tell your boyfriend, but he will not be interested to know 😏
Be honest with the one you love and tell him what you want from this. Like you want to do it again or want the dude to bugger off. Communication is Best
It's his right to know!
Tell your boyfriend.
Just block him
Really Strange...
Of course tell your boyfriend or you might lose it all. Since honesty is the foundation of any relationship especially romantic one
First tell the guy you're not interested and he needs to stop contacting you. Then block/delete.
I had a similar thing but I ended up with the other guy
Why if I may ask you why you chose the second guy against your husband or boyfriend
@Aakash_Hangargi it was a sexual awakening for me. I didn't know sex could be that good.
But I feel for the guy who gave so much freedom but what to do it what it is can't judge anyways it's maybe for better all the best to you for future
It is what it is*
@Aakash_Hangargi well the new guy didn't like sharing
Is he is your current guy right and your happy? That's all matters and did the previous guy suggested threesome or it was your idea?
I honestly find it really strange that a guy/boyfriend would agree to a threesome with another male just to "please" you, so for you to put him in that situation seems kinda selfish
But though I can"t comprehend why, because it'd seriously repulse me to be in a sexual situation with any male, maybe he has some inner bi-sexual cravings, or is at least bi
I suggest you tell your boyfriend, because if somehow he connects with that guy he could find out he's obsessed with you and then might lose all trust in you
Also, why not block the other guy !!!
> at least bi-curious
How is it selfish? Did u not read my post properly? We doing this for each other We had a 3some with another woman To please my boyfriend
Now it was my turn So we picked a guy this time And had 3some Thats not selfish at all
My boyfriend is not gay. He didn't do anything with the other guy. Im bisexual I like women too.. just for fun But like men more
What's really important is putting a stop to that shit ASAP.
If it was just a one time thing then just put a stop to it. Regardless of whether you tell the boyfriend, just cut that other guy out.
If it was mean to be more than one time, then you should still probably cut him out and find someone who can keep an appropriate distance.
The fact that you felt the need to point out his hotness is a bad sign. Block that dude.