Had A Threesome: Should I Keep Having Sex With Her?

I'm a gym rat, and I love to be fit and try new workouts. About 7 months ago, I met this really cute girl in my Zumba class. We hit it off and we started dating 5 months ago. Our dating life is pretty good. We go to the gym a lot, we share recipes and cook healthy food together, we travel around a lot and we just try to live a very healthy lifestyle. Our sex life is also pretty good. We have sex twice a day. Once in the morning before work... and once at night before bed. She lives in a different area than I do, so we have to travel sometimes back and forth between our apartments. She's a very open gal, and she asked her friend from our fitness class if she wanted to join us for a threesome, and she agreed. As such, I had my first threesome experience last Friday. During the past few days, since my girlfriend works a lot, I have been inviting her friend over for sex when I get off from work. I do not like my girlfriend's friend in that way, I do this as more of a workout. The sex I have with my girlfriend's friend isn't as good. and we don't kiss at all or do anything intimate like that. We just spend 30 minutes having sex and then she leaves. Again, I love and appreciate my girlfriend, and I only see having sex with her friend as a Mon-Fri after work exercise routine and nothing more. Should I tell my girlfriend about this? Should I stop having sex with my girlfriend's friend? Should I keep doing it?
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  • Sounds like you need some soul searching to find out what you really want. Cause it sounds like you do like something about this girl or you don't like them at all really and see them as a convenience. Like your present supposed to be girlfriend is your friends with benefits and the second is just a bed buddy. Get it together and tell your girlfriend the truth and leave them both alone.

  • Don't try to excuse your shady behavior by calling it a workout. That's cowardly. The only reason you had sex with your girlfriend's friend in the first place is because your girlfriend suggested the threesome. Either ask your girlfriend if she's ok with having an open relationship, or fess up and tell her you've been cheating on her. Cheating is not ok!

  • Why are you cheating on your gf? Are you seriously asking us if you should stop cheating on your gf? Wonder if this other girl gets pregnant? What will you do then? Stop being a douche. You are the stereotypical meathead jock

  • Fuck, fuck, fuck I don't know man... You might be really screwed... I'm not even trying to make you feel bad, but seriously.

    • But, like I said. When I have sex with my girlfriend, it's because I have feelings for her. When I have sex with her friend, it's just for exercise.

    • Okay, tell her that and be sure to post the results in the update, I hope all goes well :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Come on man... for exercise? lol... Maybe your exercising your penis in her vagina. Your in a freaky situation so stay freaky. I guarantee your not the only dick your girl is riding. I bet she has some guy she also just screws for "exercise". Your talking about feelings for your girlfriend and your fucking her friend every day. Wow...

  • She definitely should know about it! I can't believe that she didn't know about it already. I would also stop until you see what she says. Just because she was okay with a one time thing, doesn't mean she's okay with it as a permanent arrangement.

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  • Should you tell your girlfriend that you are cheating on her with her friend?

    Yeah, I'd say that's something she needs to know about.

  • Your gf definition of a *open girl * is not enough to cover this.
    Obviously you don't like her. And the other girl neither. Tell this to your current gf and leave them both.

  • LOL... for exercise. Gold. "No honey, I'm not cheating on you at all. I'm just getting my daily cardio in." Whatever you need to tell yourself.

  • This is hilarious.. sure man, tell her is just excercise haha

  • This sounds nonlegit, or your girl is
    Also fuking around...

  • And this is why no matter how bad I want to have a 3 some, I refuse. You can't trust that your man and that girl will continue behind your back. Tell her or leave her , its not fair to her

    • Threesomes are alright. Lol... I feel like I might just have shattered your boyfriends dreams of ever having one.

    • No I gave him the opportunity to have one when we first started dating but he didn't want to… I found it weird.. If anything its my dreams of having one.. But man can't be trusted so if I want to fuck around with a girl I'll just go out for a girls night with one of. My friends and "acidently" get too drunk and mess around.. .

    • Lol... and guys can't be trusted :p

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  • Stop it and tell her, and hope that she understands. This is so offensive.

  • I think you should stop, find some exercise to fill that 30minute gap that is maybe less of a kick to your relationships and possibly your own nuts. when a woman invites you into something like that there is a lot of trust being handed to you. Don't hurt someone who doesn't deserve over something that obviously means nothing to you.