Hand hurts from rubbing my clit?

[Anonymous]

is it only me? I rub it fast and my hand starts hurting so sometimes I fail to orgasm just because I have to stop.. cuz my hand starts to hurt. I still get orgasm though sometimes it's kinda frustrating. should I use a vibrator or sth?

[SnapTsch]

kits normal to happen the only problem is that you are probably wrong with the technique, maybe work on the technique, maybe that will help you out and not strain your hand in the process

[Asker]

I tried other techniques but it works the best, if only my hand didn't hurt

[SnapTsch]

I'm saying combinations, and take down

[Jisoo_21]

I never reach reached my climax, cause my hand easily hurt. What to do? I can't pleasure myseld.

[SnapTsch]

@Jisoo_21 and the asker I don't really mind discussing it here, but I'm not sure if both or either of you would be comfortable having this discussion in public if you are fine , let me know , we can continue it here if you are not, then stop by and the discussion can be he'll elsewhere.

[Asker]

I don't mind continuing it here, others may want to know as well

[SnapTsch]

as you wish so if you are going to go for it then just take the extra effort if you can and/or are willing to setup the mood , things that make you relax and are soothing once thats done, let your imagination do a bit of work to create scenarios they excite you because men are visual creatures, but for women is is very specific about which bulbs needs to go off to be that excited clothing is your personal choice. some prefer to have then on some dont. do whatever works for you

[Asker]

That's nothing new to me to be honest. even when I do that I still need to rub it fast in order to reach climax, my hand still hurts and the orgasm I get is weak and fast.. the mood is really important I agree. but as for mixing techniques I can't really do much because I'm virgin and I don't wanna "pop the cherry" so I can only rely on stimulating my clit.. and it works best if it's rubbed like I mentioned if there are any other tips I would appreciate it

[SnapTsch]

I'm not done yet, its just that I have to drive to another place, so I posted whatever I had typed

[Asker]

oh ok haha..

[SnapTsch]

choose a spot that is comfortable since you might be in the same spot for anywhere from 10- 15 minutes and one thing that I forgot which is the most important thing ever make sure that you have the privacy where no one is going to walk in or avoid situations where you might get caught. make sure all windows, doors and possible webcams are off. continuing do something physically challenging, like a run, workout , dance , where your is about to be blissfully (Slightly) fatigued. take a warm bath, use your hands to wash yourself with long sensual strokes, paying extra attention to wherever it feels good, make sure that water or soap doesn't enter in either of the holes, it might cause irritation and drying of tissue inside which would be very awkward and hard to deal with. dry yourself off and enjoy the way the towel feels against yourself and again pay more attention to places where it feels good.

[Asker]

that would be helpful I guess. never done it before actually. except for being tired

[SnapTsch]

wait for it

[SnapTsch]

feel free to put on some porn or run your imagination wild with whatever turns you on, think about your crush doing things that you'd like him to do, but make sure that its JUST imagination, you don't need to act on it in real life. that being said, get raunchy and saucy with your thoughts were you start getting wet. ps- get at least/around half a cup of vegetable oil which I'd you can warm it up to a slightly warm temperature, test it by putting it on your wrist first to check the temperature.

[SnapTsch]

the next part gets pretty graphic and makes me uncomfortable to put out in public since some are bound to abuse the information and cause trouble to a lot of people

[Asker]

you can message me privately

[Arya_Christ]

during masturbation sometimes my hand also gets tired so I change the hand. why don't you want to pop the cherry?

[Asker]

my boyfriend and I are in an ldr and he said he wants to pop it.. I'm saving myself for him.. and yes I do switch hands too but sometimes I just prefer to do it with one hand

[Arya_Christ]

yeah switching hands sometimes takes the fun away but your cherry will recover itself so why bother?

[Asker]

the cherry doesn't recover itself tho, once popped it stays popped

[Arya_Christ]

but still you can't prove that cherry is not popped?

[Asker]

I mean he won't think I cheated or ath, but he wants to pop it by himself.

[Arya_Christ]

you are a very nice girlfriend in that case. hope there are more like you in this world.

[Asker]

haha I just don't wanna be selfish just to get more pleasure. I guess there r plenty like me in the world

[Bleh-___-]

Stop treating your clit like you're a DJ

[Texasmade1]

Yeah its normal. Constant rubbing or fingering will cause your hand to get tired.

[kinkycouple9289]

vibrator or wand

[TheFlak38]

Use something else next time.

[Asker]

vibrator?

[TheFlak38]

or anything else with a suitable shape.

[masterotaku]

ye olde hand cramps lol... happens to guys too. just whatcha gotta lol

[Asker]

lol xD how do you keep the same speed though? I always have to stop at some point

[CT_CD]

Leave your clitoris alone

[derp242]

carpal tunnel from flicking your bean eh ctfu

[Seppelson]

do it slower

[chuy10]

i all give you a hand

[coffeeblack]

omg I can rub it for you ; )

[Anonymous]

Let vibrator help you

[Anonymous]

Use my tongue instead