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Sexual Health Hand on back of head during blowjob, thoughts?
Anonymous
My friends and I are split almost 50/50 on this. Half can’t stand when a guy puts his hand on your head during a blowjob and the others don’t mind. I’m in the don’t really mind camp. I look at it as they are really getting into it. As long as it is not aggressive pushing to the point of choking 🤮 What side do you fall on?
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18 50I think it is more of a domination thing more than anything else. With the hands on the head, I feel more confident and into it. Personally, I think it'll be fun to put hands on the head and go with the flow. I would be averse to pushing, even if the girl was hardcore because I would be worried of going too far. Deepthroating should be something she does herself and should not be forced in my opinion.
@charliehes Yes, it is too much when the pushing turns aggressive, but I don’t mind a hand on my head. Good for a number of reasons.
I guess some guys may push if they want it faster or deeper but you could always speak to them instead so yeah.
I love it
Glad to know
Most girls want you to relax and enjoy it in my experience - like make noise, move your hips, hands on head/hair are all encouraged. Better than a dude who just lies there silently and motionless?
i like doing this a lot, it makes me cum hard
You’re hot if that’s your photo.
You're super hot also but older than me. Yes it's me, but it won't let me message you.
yes but also holding her hair
i like doing that ;)
I actually like it when a girl clamps her thighs tight on my face when she's having an orgasm and grinds on my mouth/nose/cheeks
I do it sometimes. I like holding her head and slowly sliding it up and down my shaft :)
I am dom guy and think this is hot and dom way !!
If she constantly stares into my eyes it spices up
Staring is a must in my book. Guys find it seductive and hot when I do.
@prettypriya I am sure most guys love that but its my weakest point get a bj with deep staring ;) :P
I fatherhood her hair for her like in ponytail or bun
Holly fuck.. not fatherhood, RATHER HOLD*** 🤣🤣🤣🤣😋
Lol. You are going to father anything getting blowjobs 😂
😋🤣🤣🤣🤣 oops
With a safe word and safe tap out sex becomes a journey of unlimited pleasure. A hand on the head is obv better than not being into it.
As a guy who has never received, but who has seen them. It bothers me seeing guys do that, but any type of rough behavior really bothers me, truthfully.
I'd run my fingers through her hair. That's what I'd do the most if that happens.
I mean they women do the same to my head. So I figure it's just fair ya know
Honestly never really had the chance. Most of the girls I’ve been with never gave a BJ and my current girl doesn’t really either.
I feel sad for you. I’ve never heard a complaint.
Well thank you, but not a ton I can do about it really. Definitely not going to force anything. Though I do wish I had more experiences with some things.
You are a good person for not forcing it! Way to be a gentleman. I would blow you just for saying what you said. Where are more of this type of guy in the world?
Well that does sound nice and I like your spirit there! I’m sure they’re out there somewhere. High sex drive for many clouds judgement for too many. I have that drive, but would hate to make her feel pressured or upset by something we did. Just ruins everything for me anyway so what would be the point. Yeah I’d probably finish, but then not enjoy it anyway.
You are one in a million
Technically 1 in like 8 billion lol 😋 But thank you. I appreciate it! PM me if you feel like chatting ever. Always enjoy getting to know people.
This question is for girls
What is your preference?
Plus, does your mother know your asking questions like this?
@foghornleghorn99 lmao I pray that she doesn’t! My preference is go ahead. Somewhat hot in my opinion. Just not to the point I would choke or can’t breathe.
Isn't it hot?
It means he wants you to go deeper. Deepthroat it.. and go faster too. If you don't want to DT him because he's "too big" for you, make sure you tell him that, especially before hand, that way there's no awkwardness during sex
Sometimes I enjoy doing it, but I’m mindful of not pushing to hard in case she’s can’t take the whole cock in her mouth. What do you think?
I think you are the man for being respectful. ❤️
Thanks, I appreciate it! No one likes to be pressured to do things they don’t like, right? Do you like to deepthroat or can you?
Can’t well. But I think hand on head is hot. Pacing me. I like it. 👍
That’s hot, how about taking a big one in your pussy, are you able to?
Not at all. @secretsofkb likes bigger. I’m more of an average size girl.
@prettypriya oh yeah definitely. If it can't skewer me I don't want it
@SecretsofKB lol I love it, my kind of girl!
@SecretsofKB I remember as such. One front, one behind. Just not quite there yet.
@prettypriya yeah! I'm about that spit roast. With tge occasional rotation to keep it even
@SecretsofKB lol i do that too