Handjob by a woman vs masturbation?

What is the difference? I mean the real difference. Why do men like handjobs? Is it enough sexually?
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  • I think it more depends person to person. I've hardly used hands for masturbation. I always liked rubbing over bed or against wall, so I liked my body to be touching as a whole to something than just doing a hand job myself. So, I am personally not that fond of a hand job.. I mean it's hard for me to cum easily through this at times. But yes, I love it when she plays with it and/ or gives a blow job.

    Why guys love it more than masturbation? The reason is simple. It feels sexual freedom when you're freely masturbating in front of someone or when someone is doing it to you. Moreover, you're free to just enjoy than doing the 'work' yourself. You love the touch of another person making you feel the intimacy and sexual shamelessness that you share with each other. It's ecstasy.

    Just imagine how girls feel when they're touched all over their naked body.. when someone plays with their boobs.. when someone fingers their pussy. Even girls can do this on their own.. why does it feel better with someone else? The reason is - Intimacy, sexual shamelessness/ openness and ecstasy.. and the luxury of just enjoying than working for the enjoyment.

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  • I mean, the difference is that it is another person doing it to you.
    Physically, it obviously doesn't feel any better (frankly, much of the time it feels worse because they yank it too much) but psychologically it's different from masturbation.
    There is still a person who is (presumably) sexually attracted to you giving you sexual satisfaction and making you finish.

    Also, purely subjectively, I also like being in a woman's hand, it's sexy.
    Like, I know they will feel it with their hand when I tense up, so I will do it on purpose and make my arousal a tactile experience for them.

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  • I think anything sexual that someone else does is better than when you have to do it to yourself. It's not just about a hand on the dick and cumming I'd think. Now I wouldn't quickly give a steady sex partner a handjob since we would both think: why not just have sex or a give a bj? But the handjobs I gave were normally to give some quick pleasure or relief at a party or for a birthday or for a bet or something like that to a guy who I don't really feel like having actual sex with. None of them complained about them being able to do it themselves.

    They only thing that was a big deal to some guys was that they didn't like to cum nowhere but necessarily wanted to cum somewhere on me. Boys will be boys I guess...

    • thanks!

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  • The LARGEST difference between 'solo' sex and companioned manual sex is the element of unpredictability.

    There exists a 'fantasy' naughty element that runs counter to the prevailing cultural hypocritical paradigm.
    Think back to your childhood merciless 'tickle fights'... the element of surprise.
    Have you noticed YOU may be super ticklish but... CANNOT 'TICKLE' YOURSELF!

  • Not hairy palms.
    soft gently soft fingers.
    you can feel the touch is not yours
    you can look in to her eyes and see the longing and lust
    those soft lips start to look even more inviting.

  • Masturbation. Women can't please us like we can ourselves. Also, I don't want a handjob from a woman.

  • A handjob does not compare with intercourse. But being able to caress the woman's body and admire it (hopefully she is exposing at least part of it) add so much which masturbation could not give.

  • The moment I got my dick sucked I decided that the best way for a woman to give a handjob is with her mouth.

  • It is a way of having intimacy with your partner. Of course we can do it ourselves but it is more of a connection with another person to get a hand job. Just like if we stimulated a girlfriend with our fingers and made her orgasm.

  • I love handjobs (almost as much as sex) I am married but still jerk off at times (my wife does not care and has joined me for mutual masturbation at times) A handjob with some lube always feels better then going solo. I think it is because I can just lie there and enjoy the feeling while doing no work

  • Well I'll relate it to my nipples for you.

    I can rub my own nips and it does absolutely nothing for me but if someone else touches them they are very sensitive and sends shivers through my body.

    Same deal we me vs someone else touching my balls.

    So yes it can be way better when someone else dose it.

  • Good: a woman's hand means a woman is besides you and you can also kiss or have some sexy stares in the meanwhile.
    Bad: I doubt she will ever know my body as well as I do. Nobody gives handjobs better than yourself.

  • There's an amazing difference: firstly, being with a lovely girl in a sexual scenario like that is a so much more exciting turn-on than masturbating solo

    And secondly, the touch of her hands/fingers feels a zillion times more sensual & pleasurable than my own

    My favourite is when she massages my frenulum of my hard pen*s with her 2 thumbs, her forefingers looped around the other side of my 'mushroom' head, that gives me the most electrifyingly pleasurable sexual sensations imaginable and the resultant orgasms are body-tremblingly intense, truly beautiful in fact

  • A hand job is much better than masturbation, as it's more sexually exciting to have her play with my cock and to be close to me physically and emotionally.

  • A slow and sensual handjob is underappreciated in my opinion. It makes a huge difference having a female partner stimulate your penis versus doing it yourself. A girl's hand is just different for one thing.

  • It's nowhere near as good as vaginal sex, but better than masturbating

  • Having a woman's hand on my penis is altogether different than my own. The feel of her hand, the softness of it, the newness of it. The whole idea of a woman gripping my penis and jacking me up and down.(with lubrication) is very close to fucking. (my opinion only)

  • Better, because she is showing you intimacy.

  • A handjob can be almost as good as sex, especially if you are really horny.

  • i don't like handjobs. masturbation feels way better than a girl giving a handjob xD i mean not to shit on girls... i just had years and years to perfect that according to my individual preference. they can't be better than me. i prefer pussy.

  • Soft, well-kempt, gentle hands vs my rough, leather-like, gnarled hands from a lifetime of manual labour. No contest.

  • There’s a big time difference she’s right there touching you and you can see her reaction trying to pleasure you

  • Being touched, i. e. being under someone's control is heaven

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