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Handjob feedback?

So, I gave my first hand job last night. Please, be nice to me because I was scared and I wasn’t expecting to do anything like that. It was in the backseat... and yes, yes he still had his underwear on because that would’ve made it a little less inappropriate, right?🤦‍♀️ he really was showing me how to do it because I was a beginner. He ended up finishing but it was within 10 minutes, maybe 15 minutes tops. I feel like I wasn’t the best at it because it took so long. Feedback?
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  • If you made him cum on your first try you did a fantastic job. If he was nervous it likely made him last longer than normal. Next time try doing it without the underwear so it's more intimate and you get better contact. Try holding the skin of the shaft against the base to enhance the feeling for him. If you want him to cum quicker try talking dirty to him, for example that you can't wait to see his dick erupt and how far he can squirt.

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  • Rhythm and speed are essentials. Now I can't tell you what every man likes, but I'd like it slow and soft at first and then sped up near the end.
    I'm guessing you didn't have any lube handy in the car, right? Might be worth carrying in your handbag. Lube make things feel a lot nicer and is more forgiving of rookie mistakes like grabbing too tight.

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  • Ask him

  • up down, simple

  • If you sit next to me and I cum while we talked about me getting a bj, then it was a success.

  • you did ok. No girl ever has made me finish from a handjob

    • Are you serious?

    • Yes 100% and i have had a lot of girls try. I also have never cum from a blowjob, though many have tried. It takes me a minimum of an hour for sex. But the blowjobs I still enjoy the feeling much more. Every hand job a female has tried fails and doesn't do much for me, i can masturbate fine by myself. So you getting him to climax is the sign of victory. For myself i think i feel less in general, I don't know if being circumsiezed has anything to do with it.

  • I mean he had underwear on and he still came. Consider that a win. It’s not a great handjob but it served its purpose.

  • Don't worry, about it! Yes, I would enjoy that, especially knowing it was your first time, and I would understand that you didn't really know exactly what to do. A girl I really like touching my penis? I would love it! Especially if she was interested to do it and there was a good chance she'll do it again! Did you enjoy getting to touch and play with a penis for the first time? Are you looking forward to doing it again?

  • who cares

    it was some guy you gave a handy to

    why should we care about it?

  • You did it, he finished. Job well done.

  • I always take longer by hand!
    good for you, you had a patient teacher!

    • So if he finished in 15 minutes tops you don’t think it was that bad?

    • I had no idea how to do it

    • No, I think it was that good! Good job!

  • How are we supposed to give you feedback when we weren't involved 😂, don't worry I'm sure you did okay, it's not like that Difficult, I'm sure he appreciated it.

  • Why you asking me lol

  • the few times i have managed to get a handjob from my girl it seems to take longer than when i do it my self, doesn't mean it wasn't good

  • Ohhh cum all over your hand

  • Long handjob better than short one u make him enjoy for 10 minutes. Be proud lol

  • I'm sure you did wonderfully.

  • don't worry about it, just practice

  • Because you are first timer.. that makes it so so long otherwise if it is in mood, it done in 5-7 minutes

    • So you think he’ll forgive me?

    • Don't overthink dear... Its just your start... Before doing next time... Take some lessons of how do the handjob in sexy way... Use different techniques.. arouse his mood.. take some lessons before doing it... Need help?

  • It could've been the circumstances (in a car, underwear still on etc). And every guys is different (like women) and likes different things, so feedback is good, but you always need it from the specific person you're giving it to.

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