Hard to hold back or not?

[helpmegetinthere]

Is it easy or hard to hold back from orgasm if you want it to last longer? Sometimes I can't get at the right exact second to take my hand away.

[PrettyPriya]

By “take my hand away”, I assume you mean from masturbating. Being that it is something that I don’t do, I cannot say how difficult it is to stop yourself, considering I have stopped myself completely from doing it.

When I am intimate with my SO, I do not hold back. I really can’t considering one person does not have complete control during intimacy.

Might I ask if this is some sort of game you are playing? I always figured guys that spent time masturbating did it to achieve and end result, not the opposite. Learn something new every day.

Perhaps the blue accounts on the site will opine and give some better information than I can. My best advice is not to do it and find something more time worthy, like a hobby or something constructive.

If you are going to self pleasure, seems like you are going about it all wrong since there is only one goal. Best use that time other ways.

[helpmegetinthere]

Yes hand off penis masturbation yes. I do it so I can enjoy the buildup more before I orgasm.

[PrettyPriya]

As I mentioned, learn something new everyday. First I have heard of this. Thank you for the feedback.

[helpmegetinthere]

Women are lucky. Multiple orgasms but not guys.

[PrettyPriya]

That is a good point, I suppose.

[helpmegetinthere]

It's why I try to keep the buildup happening for awhile before I'm finished.

[PrettyPriya]

Doesn’t add up in my head why someone does this, but as they say….”you do you”.

[helpmegetinthere]

Pleasure is why. That tingle lasting as long as I can.

[helpmegetinthere]

Oh and it makes orgasm more intense too.

[helpmegetinthere]

During sex I don't try to hold back unless she is getting off yet.

[PrettyPriya]

Yep, don’t want to hold back and prolong anything too much. You know the old saying. Too much of a good thing….

[helpmegetinthere]

Exactly. Plus she doesn't want to be there all day.

[PrettyPriya]

Good point. Too much and I get sore. There is what is an acceptable amount of intimacy and then overdoing it.

[helpmegetinthere]

Exactly. Bluntly during sex, it's not all about my ejaculation, it's more about her and how she feels and likes.

[helpmegetinthere]

Hope that made sense.

[summiter]

The closer one gets to an orgasm the more difficult it is to hold back. For round 2 or 3 it is a bit easier

[Avicenna]

It's kind of hard. Don't bother though- just nut and go for the next round when you can

[helpmegetinthere]

It is. If I feel the tingle at the base of the penis, I know to remove my hand. The tingle is the semen. Its hard to remove at the right time.

[Guy13]

I can self-edge.

[helpmegetinthere]

It's the timing. If I feel the base of the penis tingle, I'm aware it's the semen. At that point, I try to back off. It's hard to do it right.

[Guy13]

Especially if she’s one of those who gets satisfaction feeling, knowing, and having all of you…. just for fun and to torture the hell out of her🙃…. Yes you can have it…. no you can’t. The girl generally thinks she knows “when”…at least the few that I’ve known in that way think they can tell 😎

[helpmegetinthere]

Exactly and it's hard to do on your own. What's the point you know to take your hand away?

[Guy13]

Are you talking about beating off…taking hand away? I haven’t jacked off in years 🤷🏻‍♂️

[helpmegetinthere]

Yes.

[Bethany22]

It's easy to hold back

[Iron_Man]

Why is it necessary