Has an ex or a platonic friend ever hit you up for sex?

Could be anything from sexting to messing around to actual sex

How did you react?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes. It was a platonic friend. We had sexual dry humping with our clothes off twice. She was a best friend. She was this super christian chic and she orgasm'd twice. we didn't have sex because she wanted to be a virgin. she had never orgasm'd with a guy before. Then she felt guilty or weird and cut things off. now we are just friends.

    I had a friend from high school. We hadn't spoken in 10 years. we randomly talked about sex. I didn't have a car at the time. She picked me up and we smoked weed and had sex. She was addicted to coke and I cut things off.

    I hope and pray every single day that I can have sex with my exes again. at least just a few times. I haven't been that lucky.

    • Dryhumping is fun 😊 The coke addicted one is not good

    • Yeah that wasn't good. I didn't know until the second time we hung out and we went to a party where she was sniffing coke and basically stranded me in the hood. As for the dry humping. It was a slow buildup of pleasure and it was intense. Just my boxer briefs rubbing against her panties. By the end both bottom were soaked with pure slow thrusted pleasure.

    • I bet! 😍😍😍

  • Once an ex tried to hit me up but it was just her way of trying to get me back. Not the right way to get back with someone as it would just be based on sex if you did. So no, I didn't go for it.

    Years ago a lady at work who I was friends with was going through divorce, and she was hitting me up. No way did I go for that! That would not have been good for the working relationship and I really wasn't attracted to her anyway.

    • Good

Most Helpful Girls

  • A lot of my exes call me up for sex when they get dumped.

    When i was single, I often was stupid and hooked up with them thinking we were getting back together. I was wrong 100% of the time!

    new girl comes along and I'm in dumpsville again!

    • 😢😢😢

  • Just online friends always want to sext and I get offended because it's the only thing they talk about.

    • Gross

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  • Sure, sometimes you just gotta bang.

    • Banging is important 😊

    • Yeah… but sometimes you look back and ask yourself “what the fuck was I thinking?”

    • True that... Post-orgasmic hindsight

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  • LOL well you already know the story

    • I do 😡😡😡

  • My Ex showed up after 2 years apart while I was in an relationship. Told her to go but she teased me for at least a straight hour in public and started to undress her so that I needed to go at home with her before she stand naked in public and at my home she pulled her Hand in my panties and said ''I knew you would be hard already'' then we fucked and I lost her as well as my relationship.

    • That sucks. Was it worth the orgasm?

    • Totally. Already horny just by thinking about that day :D Why did you asked that question if I may know?

    • Happened to me before. Did you cum inside her?

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  • Yea if you break up with them and know it wasn't meant to be continue on your journey and don't look back. It's fine if they do and you want it to, but don't get back with them at the expense of finding someone better you deserve.

    • Agreed

  • I have never gone back to an ex, nor would I have them back... even for sex!

    • Probably a good idea

  • I've been offered invitations... I respectfully decline...

    • Cool 😊. Me too, for the most part (well, always now).

  • Yes. I made out with him.

    • Not my finest hour lol

    • 😍😍😍 Your panties must’ve been soaked

    • They were! He was a really good kisser!!

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  • Asked for a blow job since his new woman couldnt do it as well.. didn't respond blocked him

    • Good

    • Not going to be disrespected like that.. every ex has tried to come back unless they moved out west I have seizures due to trauma.. so when I had one they would split and when things looked good again theyd come back... except the guy I have now had one awhile ago and he stayed with me.. he said he knows it just temporary and no one has treated him as good as me.. im his dream girl he knows I can't control it and he actually enjoys taking care of me.. I tell every guy upfront I have them they have all said they would be there... he's the only one that has ever proved his words to be true its hard to believe and I knew I just needed one... I couldnt be happier.. you have to go through a lot of assholes before you get a good one and I have never been attracted to the asshole type these are all good guys gone bad, wolves in sheeps clothing, or weak minded good guys so speaking before they honestly thought about it... I like a man who stands by his word

  • One friend offered to give me a BJ in the bathroom at a mall. For me at first, that just feels too weird for someone to submit like that. But also I was in my mind to wait for the right girl too. To add to this, this was a school trip so if the teachers found me in the bathroom with her... That would not have gone over well

    • I’m glad you did what you felt comfortable with

    • Thank you! I appreciate that!

  • Yes. It was delicious each time.

  • My ex hit me up as a relationship of mine was crumbling. I didn't accept because I wanted to save the relationship. But we broke up two weeks later and my ex moved to new Mexico

  • Yeah. Planned on it with the friend but plans fell through 🤷‍♀️

    • That really sucks 😢😢😢. Did you masturbate instead or just do something nonsexual?

    • He never came over lol so I just went about my day

    • I woulda done the same thing

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  • Nope, never happened

  • More times then I can. Count.

    How did I react? Let just say my response was in braille.

    • So you did it?

    • I absolutely fuck them. I am a sex addict and they know it It happens a lot. My door is always open and everyone knows that. I wake up to women in my bed. The funny thing is, evén the ex's that do not like me at all will come over just for sex. The realty is they love my cock, not me. And I don't have a problem with that.

    • Okay

  • Yes my ex-wife after a 5 year disappearece. Out of the blue she shows up at my door step.

    I fucked her and then kicked her out.

    Not my problem she had no place to go

    • That’s really harsh

    • If you only knew what she done to me

  • Yup a few times and 2 times i did it lol

  • Yes, it really depends on the friend lol

  • Not exactly into sex. But i remember there was a girl, We used to meet, Talk, Share things... But never got into an official relationship, nor she made any confessions. But even now when we meet we hold eye contact for a while don't know for what. And she suddenly acts like she doesn't know me
    I find it neither sad nor happy, just a moment tht comes and goes.

    • I understand

  • ... I think you need to review the meaning of the word "platonic," no offense.

    • I meant someone I see as just a friend who hits me up for sex.

  • I had a few exs come back for one last bang.

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