Has anyone ever felt like this before? Girls and guys?

[Hawaiikai]

So I have a friends with benefits. I do want sex. But then I end up catching some sort of feelings. And then I go back to just wanting sex. And then I go back to feeling sad when I haven’t seen them for a while. And then I go back to just fantasizing about the last time we had sex And I start imagining all the dirty things we can do. Then it goes to mean getting emotional again?

Has anyone ever felt like this before or is it just me?

[Anonymous]

It’s not just you. It’s hard to separate sex from emotional attachment. You go back and forth from wanting to keep it casual to wishing the relationship was more. In a friends with benefits situation, it’s best to choose a guy who is an absolute jerk. That makes it easier to keep things straight in your head.

[Hawaiikai]

I’ve honestly was just thinking that! About the jerk part. Or someone that I am partially attracted to but not someone that I would fall head over heels for

[Hawaiikai]

Honestly the guy that I’m talking about I’m not fully attracted to him I don’t think he’s ugly or anything because everyone has their own opinions. I think I just got infatuated with the fact that he treated me so nice compared to other guys I’ve had a friends with benefits With in the past

[laurieluvsit]

You need to find someone who loves you for who you are and can satisfy you emotionally as well as sexually, not just one... problem solved

[MCheetah]

I don't engage in any Friends with Benefits situations, not that I could. What you're describing is just Hookup Culture, that thing other girls claim only guys engage in or want.

[Wise4myage]

I get the feeling friends with benefits isn't something you're cut out for.

[LazerBean]

No, because when I saw that everyone who had BFWs ended up like that I realized I didn't care to waste my time like that lmao

[ZSean]

That is basically the sterotype of hook up culture haha. Good luck hopefully you figure out where you want to go with the relationship in the end :)