Guys, has sex been better in a relationship or casually?

A. Casually, because…
B. In a relationship, because…
C. Both, because…
Guys, has sex been better in a relationship or casually?
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  • Relationship sex is almost always better... BUT, casual sex CAN still be great. And even if it's not great, it can still be pretty good and something you need.

    It's like food: of course you'd like a really nice dinner prepared by a master chef if you can get it, but grilling steaks, potatoes, and corn-on-the-cob in your own backyard can be pretty good too. And if you haven't eaten in a few days, lowly McDonalds seems pretty good, even if it is trash in comparison to the master chef's food.

    Most men are going to prefer SOME sex - even if it's only mediocre - to going without sex entirely. We'd rather eat McDonalds than starve.


  • I like them both I love being in a relationship I love pleasing I love giving and I know how to make them feel something beautiful

    Casual sex can be hot with a stranger. Or with somebody you know but you don't know and you both allow that lust to just happen and to take it anywhere and everywhere explore and experience making a marathon not a Sprint it can become so very hot

    And it doesn't matter which one you're doing if you're not making it all about the girl then you're being selfish your last a couple minutes and it's a done and over with I don't like the couple minutes thing I like to Marathon thing

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  • Casual has always been good because there are no expectations. The occasional surprise can payoff big time!

  • In a relationship it means a lot more, more sensual, deeper more intense feelings and the pleasure comes from deeper inside from your soul. Although I did have some great sex before marriage, it's also intense seems like it comes more from a different place, more cerebral. Married sex does get routine, you gotta do things to keep it spicy and fresh.

  • Casual sex is better because girls are more responsive and there is more variety in what girls like. So, I might find a girl one weekend who loves it in the ass but after I've topped off that experience I'll want a girl who just wants to 69 or something. Sex in a relationship tends to get redundant.

  • I think it depends on the person because I had intense sex casually and within a relationship. I’m gonna be myself regardless but I understand in a casual situation I have to go a bit slow or gentle until I know what they’re able to handle or enjoy. In a relationship we kind of have an understanding and I’m just being a wild man the entire time

  • I never do casual.

  • The casual opened me up to the need for the relationship.
    18+ years later she is still the sexiest and hottest lover imaginable.
    Fun and dirty nasty raunchy just scratches the surface and she's been like that since the first time in the alley behind the club to now in our bed. No one has ever come close.

  • C. Depends on the person. Some are skilled, some are not. Though my partners that weren't that great make it up with quantity and other ways.

  • In a relationship, because you spend the time learning the nuances of each others’ pleasure and bodies. Really good sex takes time.

  • Both are pretty good. Casual is just for fun and there is no strings attached and usually the sex is wild. In a relationship there is the emotional factor like love and more sensual the sex is passionate.

  • Relationship, without a doubt.

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