Has your boyfriend/girlfriend parent and or parents ever hear you guys having sex?

I'm 22 and my boyfriend 21, I'm 100% sure his mom heard us the other night... I literally forgot she was home. She never said anything but I'm still kinda embarrassed to face her the next time I see her LOL. Anything similar ever happen to you guys?
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  • This sort of thing tends to happen a lot and, although embarrassing, life goes on without permanent scars or trauma. However, it does have the potential to change the relationship between you and his mom and keep you from relaxing enough to enjoy sex.

    If his mom is fond of you, I doubt that she will hold it against you. I am sure that she knows that as two adults, you and her son are at least somewhat sexually active. If his mom does not like you, this will fuel her negative outlook.

    Without knowing more, I cannot address the situation should the latter be the case. But if you do get along with his mom, consider talking about it with her. Apologise, and assure her that you will try to be more aware of your surroundings next time. She may appreciate that you owned up and that you respect her enough to be considerate of her feelings. It is important, though, that you find a balance.

    You should be respectful, yet feel enough freedom to enjoy yourself without worrying about who hears you. Look for interesting and pleasurable ways to reduce noise. Maybe you could bite on a pillow while you look at your partner teasingly, or you could put a sexual object, such as an adult toy, in your mouth. You could also bite or suck yourself or your partner. If the two of you enjoy heightened intimacy during sex, opt for positions where you can place your mouth close to his ear so you can softly vocalise your pleasure. This will keep others from hearing and will also give him motivation to continue pleasing you; men love positive feedback during sex. Placing pillows between the wall and headboard, or non-slip padding under the bed, couch and table legs all prevent furniture from moving and banging about.

    When it comes to bodily noises, yes it is a turn-on for couples to hear the music that their bodies make when colliding together, but in all honesty the loud noises are unnecessary. There are techniques that one can use to get maximum thrust without creating flesh-slamming sounds. I am sure that this is an embarrassing experience for you, but do not let it consume your thoughts.

    Dwelling on it will only cause awkwardness during your encounters with your man’s mom, as well as awkwardness in the bedroom. Chalk it up as one of those embarrassing moments that life throws us, and find a way to laugh about it. Laughter always makes things seem a little less traumatic and a bit more bearable.

    I hope I answered your question. Feel free to ask any questions or queries if you have.

Most Helpful Guy

  • My mom walked in on me having sex. My girlfriend and I were 26 and visiting. Mom was 46.

    I guess she got even because, when I was little between 2 and 4, I walked in on my parents doing it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • My girfriend's (at the time) father accidentally walked in on us having sex, if that counts?

  • When we were boyfriend/girlfriend we never had sex anywhere near our parents.

    • @allison368 haha how old r u really?

  • Yes, but like you they never said anything.

  • No because I never fucked anyone at my parents house.

  • My girlfriend is really loud. My parents just told me to have the tv on slightly loud or to play music to make it harder for her and my dad to hear us. Apparently they don't care if they know when we're having it, just if they can hear us.

  • No, I always made sure before having sex.

  • Not 100% confirmed, but I'm pretty sure my ex's mom heard us once

  • Fortunately I haven't.

  • Well it hasn't happened to me yet, I guess he had to hit on you first