Has your sexual past ever come up and bite you in the ass?

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lovenonstop · Accepted Answer

Kinda. I had a really good guy friend and one night we were drinking and ALMOST had sex but it didn’t happen. I started dating a guy and he had asked if anything happened between me and him. I was shamed of it, I don’t like my guy friend like that at all and I’ve made it crystal clear to him.. it was just one drunk night, we were both feeling lonely and we were both single. So I lied at first about it. Especially since NOTHING actually happened and wouldn’t happen again. The guy I was dating had nothing to worry about especially since that guy friend annoyed me a lot just in general so I kept our hang outs to a minimal.

Guy I was in a relationship with tricked me into confessing. Said he asked my guy friend and he told him everything and that I just need to come clean.. he wouldn’t be mad and just wants to hear the truth from me.

So my dumb ass confesses and it blew up in my face. Me and the guy are still in a relationship but he holds it over my head that I lied and if I was honest he wouldn’t have cared (which I’m not proud of, but he should have respected that I wanted to keep that dark shameful secret.. a secret)

I was always use to guys judging girls with who and how many people they were sexually active with and how they controlled who I was friends with (which meant I wasn’t allowed to have guy friends.. because they all want to get in your pants) but our friendship wasn’t like that and he couldn’t see it because I had lied.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Never, my sexual past was connected to a man I loved deeply and who loved me deeply.

I am never ashamed of that. There was nothing to be ashamed, everything I did and everything he did, we did in the name of love. I am lucky he was my first man and I hope he feels lucky I was his first as well.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

I have, and have to take the blame for making stupid decisions with women I worked with. Leave it to say, having sex with people who are in the same company is a very stupid and sometime dangerous thing to do.

My experience has shown me that women can be very vindictive, and at times they do not use any judgment about HOW and WHEN or WHERE they might chose to exact judgment against a man for some real of imagined slight.

When I did not behave they way a girl wanted or expected in bed with her, she deliberately 'smeared' me in the department where we both worked, and spread a 'lie" that I had told her about the bosses secretary. Could have gotten me fired but it turned out to be a 'he said, she said" with only an angry woman making the accusation.

When I moved to California, I made a vow to never get involved sexually with anyone I worked with, and never did after that. One of the men I worked with at Ford Aerospace, who was the 'fair haired boy of the finance dept."go fired on the spot over a similar thing but the girl claimed to be a victim of 'sexual harassment" and he lost his job.

We all know of similar things.

ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

To be fair, the gal after her would have probably tried to jerk me around even if nothing happened with the gal before her. She just used knowledge of it as an excuse to gain further leverage.

I get tired after a while of immature women who think they can jerk me around, silence me on matters of importance, or threaten me, just because my responsibilities interfere with their childish delusions, then act like I'm "violating" some "boundary" when I expose a lie, because it was a lie they liked.

A woman knowing a man's sexual past just gives immature women one more way to try to blackmail the man, should their house of cards be threatened.

MrCommodore · Answer

Not really thankfully

Littlejugs99 · Answer

When I was first dating my man for some reason I lied and told him I loved anal. I had never done anal and I dont. So my sexual past has litteraly bit me in the ass.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Lmao a bunch of times. Everything from the girls, friends coming up after me and using my girlfriend's ex to attack me (the ex was totally in the wrong)

Brothers and father's have tried to come to my job just to fuck with me over misunderstandings.

I'm very kinky which has definitely caused some problems where if the girl couldn't keep up I lost interest or the girl would try to use it to play mind games with me and think I wouldn't notice.

Luckily it hasn't gone any further than that kind of stuff though. No kids yet

juliammm · Answer

nobody bites me!

Gent207-2 · Answer

Only when the sex in the present becomes boring... then I go to moments in my past.  It's bittersweet that one's first time led to many amazing moments and yet was with a 3x cheater.

4ngelic · Answer

not really

Msputiton · Answer

Naw. I barely got one.

Laura131 · Answer

Nooe, what is done is done

Dargil · Answer

Yes. Too little experience.

AviatorTom · Answer

No it hasn't. I guess. like most people, there are a few skeletons in my closet, but so far the door to the closet has remained shut.

oldguystillhasit · Answer

No it hasn't. I never expected a new woman I have met to be inexperienced, and I never expect a new woman would to think I am inexperienced either.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Yes, happily ;)

Juicy74 · Answer

It was turn on

exitseven · Answer

I like the way you worded this question. I can almost picture my past literally biting me in the ass. Truthfully, I have a very boring past. I had a body count of 3 before I got married and one of those was a one time thing. They were all pretty normal.

elizamichale1 · Answer

No not really

GreenEyes_2020 · Answer

Yes unfortunately. Because I made horrible choices in the past.

Nikki1989 · Answer

My past is my business and nobody else's. Even my husband doesn't know everything about my past, and he never asks about it either. That is the way it should be.