Have temptations to cheat on my husband?

I’m satisfied with the sex that we’re having but recently I’ve been having temptations to sleep with other guys. I know it’s wrong but it being wrong is a turn on for me. Any ideas on how to stop these temptations?
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 12
  • First of all you shouldn't feel wrong about it. It's natural to have desires. Start talking about these desires with your husband, you may be surprised to find out many guys are also into sharing.

  • Role play

  • So there is no problem with your marriage or sex life, but the thought of being with other men is a turn on for you? If there is no one specific and it's just a thought, then talk to him about it.

  • Are these real guys or hypothetical guys? Because if they're real then part of the problem might be them. Is someone trying to seduce you into having adultery?

  • Im gonna take a wild guess that you are one of those who "saved themselfs" for marriage

    • You’d be wrong, I use to have lots of casual sex before I met him.

    • Ok, my bad then. Still a valid guess though. However, my tip would be to utilize these feelings to enhance your sexual relationship. Maybe roleplay as someone suggested, or try going to a sexclub on condititons that suite you both. A little experimenting could always be good

  • Would you be a swinger with him if he was okay with it?

  • Hoes ain’t loyal

  • Fight it. How would you feel if he cheated on you? That's how he would feel if he found out... My ex wife cheated on me. I found out it was devastating and ended our marriage. That's a definite possibility. Cheating is never worth it.

  • Talk to him about it maybe he'll let you I did my wife

  • Embrace them. Cheating sex is so exciting.

  • Everyone experiences those temptations. Just ignore them.

  • I wish I could tell you. I experience the same type of feelings. It's not that sex with my wife isn't great, I'm just wanting other women too.