1) The term "cheating" is erroneous and stupid, and no one should use it.
2) Why do people say "sleep with" to mean sex?
3) "I know it's wrong" No it isn't. It's normal.
4) Any ideas on how to stop? Sure-- talk to your husband and tell him what you're thinking and feeling.0 0 0 0Thanks for MHO
I recommend you read up on polyamory. It's called consensual Non-monogomy and my wife and I have been doing it for about 9 months. You set some boundaries and then you go have fun.
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0 12First of all you shouldn't feel wrong about it. It's natural to have desires. Start talking about these desires with your husband, you may be surprised to find out many guys are also into sharing.
0 0 0 0Role play
0 0 0 0So there is no problem with your marriage or sex life, but the thought of being with other men is a turn on for you? If there is no one specific and it's just a thought, then talk to him about it.
0 0 0 0Are these real guys or hypothetical guys? Because if they're real then part of the problem might be them. Is someone trying to seduce you into having adultery?
0 0 0 0Im gonna take a wild guess that you are one of those who "saved themselfs" for marriage
0 0 0 0You’d be wrong, I use to have lots of casual sex before I met him.
Ok, my bad then. Still a valid guess though. However, my tip would be to utilize these feelings to enhance your sexual relationship. Maybe roleplay as someone suggested, or try going to a sexclub on condititons that suite you both. A little experimenting could always be good
Would you be a swinger with him if he was okay with it?
0 0 0 0Hoes ain’t loyal
0 0 0 0Fight it. How would you feel if he cheated on you? That's how he would feel if he found out... My ex wife cheated on me. I found out it was devastating and ended our marriage. That's a definite possibility. Cheating is never worth it.
0 0 0 0Talk to him about it maybe he'll let you I did my wife
0 0 0 0Embrace them. Cheating sex is so exciting.
0 0 0 0Everyone experiences those temptations. Just ignore them.
0 0 0 0I wish I could tell you. I experience the same type of feelings. It's not that sex with my wife isn't great, I'm just wanting other women too.
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