Have you and a friend ever masturbated together, if so was it with someone of the same sex or opposite? How did it happen?

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  • I have slept in the same room/tent with male friends on many, many occasions. I am certain some of us have been masturbating at the same time. We didn’t want to know about it. We were each in a private place in the dark; near each other.

    I have masturbated with two female friends who did not, subsequently become sexual partners. The first was a hook-up (believe it or not, an air hostess who came to my hotel room after we met on a flight) initiated it and showed me how we could sit on opposite ends of a couch, cover ourselves with blankets, and each masturbate while making eye contact with the other. She and I did this many times; sometimes holding hands, sometimes with her feet in my lap—but never with any sexual contact between us. It was extremely personal and very pleasurable. We had a classic Friends with Benefits relationship. We met up occasionally, did fun stuff together, and shared masturbation. It was a nice relationship which, somehow, never got weird.

    During the years that this friends with benefits relationship was active, I had a close friend who went through a divorce and some hard emotional times where she was without a romantic relationship. I had been friends with her for a long time, and I felt a burden to support her. We spent a lot of time together. I did work around her house and yard, we hung out, we went on “dates” more often as friends.

    She was feeling desperate for intimacy. This resulted in her kissing me, quite passionately, one night. The next day, she was regretful, she vowed that we couldn’t cross that line again. …and a few hours later was in lap kissing me. It was a tough situation. Long story short, I introduced her to mutual masturbation the way I practiced it with the stewardess.

    For a few months, we would hang out as friends, she would —occasionally, but not always— kiss me, we would make out, and we would masturbate together. Then, she would usually cry and snuggle up with me on the couch with my arm around her for a while. It WAS weird, but it worked for us. After a while, she started undressing in front of me, and I would caress her breasts with one hand while we masturbated. Then, she started calling me on the phone sometimes for shared masturbation. We never talked to each other during masturbation -whether in person or on the phone- we just made the natural noises and/or looked at each other.

    It never went any further. She is now married with a family, and she lives far enough away that we don’t connect often. We are, however, still friends. After our intimacy began, we were never as close as friends again. We do not ever discuss that phase of our relationship. It’s just a thing that she needed and I enjoyed. (I knew that I could have had sex with her at any time back then. She is gorgeous, and I wanted to do it. I knew she would regret it, though.)

    Long story. Sorry. Masturbating together can be extremely intimate.

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  • You COULD say that. He WAS a friend until it happened. He was my next door neighbor and I borrowed an album from him and, when I gave it back, he told me he had something for me and I had to go up into his room on the 2nd floor to get so, I went up with him and he showed me this plastic triangular cup that a baseball catcher wears to keep from getting hit in the nuts with a baseball. I'm hardly interested in baseball and I certainly wiouldn't be a catcher!! He wanted me to pull down my pants and try it on, then he made me lay in his bed next to him with HIS pants down and had me play with his dick while he played with mine! I was only about 14 at the time! He was at least in his late 20's/early 30's.

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  • I have a few times, but rarely just one friend. When I was 14 I hung out with guys older than me, 16 or 18, etc... I did not like guys my age that well. I had another friend who was 15 and she hung out with us too.

    We were watching porn where people were doing the jerk circles or whatever it is called and someone said that would never happen. We all knew and admitted that we did it in private ourselves.

    Then one of the guys said it does happen he has been part of it before and said he would start it, he whipped it out and started and then another guy and then my female friend and then I joined in.

    We were close friends who had history of stuff that we will all take to our graves.

    That time it was the other girl, me and four guys.

    The next time it was 3 of the guys and me.

    I have never done it with just girls.

  • Cousin. Female. Didn't see each other's private. Didn't do it all the way. She was teaching me 🙈

    • Niice!

    • @disha10 hey honey 💛

    • Wish I was that cousin telling you how to spread your pussy

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  • Have you and a friend ever masturbated together, if so was it with someone of the same sex or opposite? Since Hubby is my best friend, then yes.

    How did it happen? He asked me to masturbate for him after a little while he joined in. Now we do that a few times a month

  • Why would I want to do that when I could just have sex?

  • Same sex in a sauna. We were very horny for each other , got hard, and decided to masturbate

  • Several times.

    Once with another guy in high school. We were just hanging out and somehow it got around to that.

    The other time was with three friends. Two were girls and the other was a guy. We were in a sailboat. One of the girls dared me. I said only if she'd clean it up. She didn't think I'd do it. I did and she had to clean my cum off the boat.

  • It was the opposite sex and I overhead her watching porn on her phone around 2 AM. She was an older friend of my daughters from college and she was staying overnight. She was in the bedroom next door.

    I couldn't resist not listening to her among other things. I kind of get the feeling she wanted me to hear her.

  • no but i had a friend that kept persisting that it happen. i had to kick his ass for being weird

  • She said she only masturbated AFTER we hung up from talking on the phone. I never believed her, since I jacked-off while we talked.

  • Maybe not "friends" but several of the women I've dated (including my current SO) and I mutually masturbated. Sometimes, we'd lie next to each other and do ourselves, and sometimes we'd reach across and do each other. It was a lot of fun, especially when we talked dirty to each other.

  • In my teen years, that's how sexuality began, with mutual masturbation.

  • Yes a few different times with a couple guys and a few girls.

  • Yea many times n with both boys n girls

    • hot :)

    • @TCredo yup 😋

  • I have never had much use for masturbation, as I have been rarely single in my life.

  • Never did this.

  • It was with my fourth relationship. We both had our pants and undies off. I was completely naked on her toilet using some lotion as lubrication. She was fingering herself and we were going at it for 20 minutes. I was really wanting to cum so she took her shirt off and unsnapped her bra and exposed her boobs to me. I had a huge explosion and I let it all go down her shower drain. Of course, every time after I ejaculate, I have to pee. We both took a piss before I wiped her vagina and kissed her buttocks. We got dressed and waited until we got horny again.

  • Not my friend. My girlfriend who became my beautiful wife 👍🙂 We masturbated together but preferred 69. Until she said she couldn’t feel my tongue giving her pleasure on her clitoris or not as powerful as it used to be. That’s when I got her a bullet sized vibrator 👍🙂

  • Nope

  • ehen I was in college me and my best friend masturbated together in her dom

    • Lucky

  • Hi when i was 12 a friend and I did that to a mag we found in his uncles shed, it was crazy and we were kids..

  • Same sex

    • @jennz6 i bet thats hot to watch

  • A girl I knew and I did in High School.. we smoked marijuana and did it. It led to other things though

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