Have you and a partner discussed what would happen if they ignore the safe word?

What would you do if they did not stop when you gave the safe word?
I honestly dont believe in the safe word shit. I’ve had some pretty traumatizing sexual stuff happen in my past, so if i say stop and you keep going, I’m just gonna hit ya ass over the head lmao. Like gtfo me. Its bout to be a hillbilly moment up in dis bit!! #FeelFreeToList
Have you and a partner discussed what would happen if they ignore the safe word?
Have you and a partner discussed what would happen if they ignore the safe word?
Have you and a partner discussed what would happen if they ignore the safe word?
Have you and a partner discussed what would happen if they ignore the safe word?
Updates:
+1 y
I say push their ass off, ladies and gentleman 🤷‍♀️
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+1 y
Okay so i fucked this question all kinds of up 🤣 Im not into bdsm/rough shit, So apparently “safe word” was not the right terminology. I’m basically just asking if you said STOP and your partner didn't, then what would you do? I only said “safe word” because people get confused by the “stop/dont stop/keep going” shit apparently. I don't know how but yea
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  • I feel like if I ever ignored a safe word, then that would be grounds for her to divorce me. I would have no excuses.

    • Right

  • I'm not into all that bdsm shit

    • Im not either

  • I never had a girl say stop to me but she has had can we change to a different position or go slower or faster.

    • But what if you told ger to stop and ahe didn't

    • Well I think I am strong enough to stop her but I don't usually don't stop a girl unless she is causing me pain or it's something I don't enjoy like anal.

  • I'm not into painful sex just into teasing an temptation of the sensual pleasures

    • Im not either

    • 😊👍

  • Well I do not believe in making a Women stop unless she is hurting me in some kind of a way that is the only way I will never stop her so what ever sex act she is doing I haven't had to make one step yet.
    God Bless

    • Ahh I see

    • In the e at u have answer is that a bad thing? Please. God Bless

  • While having sex I asked him to "do me dirty" it was on me all the consequences of my decision🙈🙈

    • It wasn't good 🤧🤧

    • Oooo im afraid to know what dirty was

    • It was rough, he fucked me so bad. I couldn't walk. If I touch anywhere near my pussy it burnt like crazy

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  • Never needed a safe word before, now I am going to have to fantasize about you, I mean that... lol

    • I dont do anything that requires a safe word

    • @dizzydesii a safe word is literally the equivalent of saying stop.

  • I would leave him

    • Good

  • A girl knows that I care about her so that doesn't happen.

    • But im saying what if you told her to stop and she didn't

    • Well I'm strong, I could just throw her off me.

  • Umm , I don't like to talk much about my Sex life , but my girl is pretty expressive in Bed. If she says Stop , I'd definitely stop because if I don't , I'm in great trouble ! Sleep on the couch , Do all the Chores , Buy her favourite stuff and most importantly , she'd beat me up. We haven't discussed it tbh , but there's this mutual understanding that if one of us isn't interested or wants the other one to stop , the other one will have to stop , no matter what.

  • Never had a safe word or needed one. If it was uncomfortable or hurt all she had to do was say stop

    • Update to your update. If she said stop the that is what I did. I wouldn't be the gentleman that I am if I did anything else. I cannot imagine anyone not stopping but I guess there are otherwise you wouldn't have asked the question. That is just plain disrespectful and ignorant. The woman that had this happen to her should grab the guys balls and squeeze really hard. When he says stop, keep squeezing and see how he likes it, then kick his ass to the curb. I'm a guy and I never advocate hurting the family jewels but in this case, the guy would deserve it.

    • Yea its happened to me from 2 exes and a room of classmates.

    • Hope you made them pay dearly

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  • If the person tells me to stop. Then I stop. No one should want a rape charge on there record. And me being black. They throw the book at me even if she said she consented.

    • Yea its messed up

    • Right?

    • Now what would you do if you told her to stop and she didn't

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  • No safety and no stopping when making passionate love.

    • Have you and a partner discussed what would happen if they ignore the safe word?

    • 😂🤣😹Hahahaha

  • I have never been in a physical relationship and even if I was I would never violate a safe word

  • What's the safe word?

  • Never used a safe word before to be honest

  • No never have not gotten in to sex that would need safe word

    • Same but even if not a safe word, if you told her to stop doing something and she kept doing it, what would you do

    • That would never happen sex never gets that crazy and she is usually asking me if she is hurting me with her weight even tho she 170

    • Well we’re meant to think anything over 120 is heavy

  • That is a total no-no. As I Dom I can assure you, never ignore the safe word.

    • I didn't exactly mean in terms of bdsm stuff lol

    • Ah, I suppose I have a one-track mind :-)

  • Ha, you assume I have sex

    • Have you and a partner discussed what would happen if they ignore the safe word?

    • But what would you do if you told them to stop and they didn't

    • I'd probably be tied up so I'm shit outta luck

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  • One of the reasons I'm not into being restrained, it did happen to me. Tied up and he kept was doing great, got a few clit orgasms but then he wouldn't stop, kept playing and rubbing and all that and it started to hurt and no matter what I did he just pushed my legs down and continued. He ignored all my pleas and begging to stop.

    It hurt so bad but he kept saying he was going to make me have the best one ever. I think he liked to hurt me.

    The end result was I did the same to him, giving him a hand job I got him off but wouldn't stop when he came (he was tied up) and he didn't like that very much. I used my nails on him and then left him tied up and said we are done. It was his place, not sure how he ever got untied but he did try to apologize and I blocked him.

    • Yea im not being tied up