Have you always know you were the sexual orientation you are now?

For me, I'm straight but before my sexuality was mainly wavering in between asexual and heterosexual with faint sprinkles of queerness. Though I ain't into girls but I didn't mind staring and picking out the facial features that made me admire them but nah, not into girls. It was then at around 17-18, I just realized that I'm fully heterosexual.
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  • Nope and i don't even get how that would happen tbh. I've always been into women and always will be. And i am guessing if was gay i would of known i always into guys and always would of been. It's not a thing i ever questioned i just knew i was attracted to women.
    Tbh i think a lot of people just seem to question themselves (sorta wishing there something else or just confusing themselves) when really they should just feel it and know. I can spot an attractive guy without confusing myself that i am gay and i can easy live without having sex without confusing myself as asexual.
    Because i know and feel, i am 100% into girls and do want sex.

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  • It seems very surreal to me by now, but no I have not! I have been heterosexual all my life except a short time period from April until probably August 2012 in which I was bisexual. Back then I had a couple of let’s call it „gay moments“ with my then best friend and also one gay moment with another friend. Sexual thoughts with any other men at that time would have disgusted me extremely. I am still in contact with both of them. One of them is an absolute womanizer/chad today, the other one has a girlfriend. I am neither a chad nor do I have a girlfriend but I am also 100% pure heterosexual and any sexual thought with any man (also with these friends) would disgusts me extremely.

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  • I thought I was a lesbian at first because I didn't really like boys while growing up. Only when I was almost 14 that I started feeling attracted to guys. Now I know that I'm bisexual, with a preference for guys.

  • I thought I was asexual for months after I lost my virginity. Sex just didn’t live up to what I was expecting. But it turns out that I was just having shitty sex with a shitty guy.

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  • Yes always, and I don't think that heterosexual and asexual are mutually exclusive.

  • I considered that I might be asexual because I never felt compelled to approach women in real life. I did it a few times but only because I wanted to try. But I think it's just that my rational side is pushing my emotions and sexuality to the back. I feel like there's still a part of me missing inside when it comes to sexuality like a missing puzzle piece something that hasn't clicked yet.

    I don't think I'm asexual atm but I'm not "normal" either.

    • you , me and the asker all three of us are almost similar.

    • @SHREYASH007 @lynx122 May I ask you weather you masturbate? And if so, what do you fantasize about while you do it? If the question is too private for you, you can also write me a dm. If you don't want to do that either then never mind the question..

    • @Tonytoutouni123 I always used to masturbate watching porn and only the girl, i used to ignore the male. now , i don't masturbate.

  • Yeah. Straight since always.

  • I’ve always liked girls, no doubts.

  • Of course

    • Thinking the girls face is pretty does not make you Bicurious

  • Yes always new i was straight

  • young teenagers. you know what you are at birth. young teenagers just like to create drama, because they're bored

  • Yes, OF COURSE. From my earliest memories I've known that my sex/gender was male.
    How could anyone NOT know such an obvious thing?

  • I've always known i was straight. Even as a child I always found girls to be pretty and attractive

  • With guys it’s different. The only thing I’m interested in is Females.

  • Yes. Penis says I'm a guy. I like girls. Its simple science.

  • I'm fully homosexual

  • I know because my feelings tell me If u admire only girls or both or only guys

  • Yes, sraight

  • I always preferred girls but I realised at 15 I was bisexual