Have you ever asked your partner for a threesome?

Have you ever asked your partner for a threesome (either MMF or FFM) or have you been every asked for it by your partner? How did your partner react to it or how was your hearing after hearing it from your partner? Many people have different opinions on threesomes. I have also seen people having difficult situations in a relationship gets better after having a threesome and also the opposite happens. What is your opinion on it?

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  • One of my earliest girlfriends, considered herself to be bisexual and we were totally rebellious enjoying MMFs, FFMs and more. We felt at that time that it enhanced our love for each other as we enjoyed to see the satisfaction in each others faces. She used to be super jealous everytime I initiated the FFM but eventually it turned into arousement and later a total satisfaction. By end of the night she expressed her love even more and our one-to-one intimacy grew so much more that it used to be passionate and intense.

    The downside of it all was just that... eventually we (or maybe I) felt that our passion and love for one and another was based on us being rebellious and adventurous somewhat frequently. It became like this pleasurable drug you had to have to fulfill a void and eventually threesomes or more became so vanilla that you seeked more action. We eventually took a break from it all and each other and never went back.

    Later in life with another ex, I brought up the idea of threesome since she conveyed to me that in a previous relationship, she was together with a woman for a year, and I felt our sexlife wasn't passionate enough. She agreed to the idea and we tried it three times and although once again I enjoyed seeing her being satisfied by someone else, I also realised I was more aroused and ejaculated more with the other girl. This led me to eventually break it off as I didn't want a relationship where I had to get off with someone else.

    With my wife, we both agreed early on whilst getting to know each other, that we wanted the exclusivity and didn't want a third person between our sheets. Being married for two years now, I know it was the right decision yet can't help once in a blue moon fantasies about past threesomes. Though as I take my wows very seriously and our passion and sex is awesome, I don't see any reason to wanting to bring onboard a third person. The past remains in the past ;)

  • I never asked, but I do bring up that I am open to a FFM if she were to be bisexual and wants to bring a girl in to the experience. But my golden rule is that everyone should be able to enjoy everyone. So if she isn't bisexual and wouldn't enjoy the girl I don't need a threesome. And I also don't want another guy to be part of it since I am not bi myself.

    So the offer would be on the table if she ever wanted to experience a girl, but I wouldn't be pressuring or asking for it myself since I find that entirely up to her to decide. I am satisfied with one partner and strive for the most intimate connection possible.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah my ex asked me to flash his friend which turned into a pretty much "sex triangle".

    We were at a club with his friend, who he invited but didn't ask me. Later my boyfriend started bragging about how nice my body is (which is not really true), but I appreciated it. Later we were just sitting and they started talking about how his friend is virgin and never seen any boobs in his life. Suddenly my boyfriend asked me please flash him my tits in my ears, I was like what no. He just said please like 100 times and said its just one time so I agreed on it. And soon he just grabbed them, looking at my boyfriend he looked pleased too. So I didn't really mind. After that day a week later the three of us agreed playing adult truth and dares, or spin the wheel, and some other games. Not direct sex but everything around it.

    I didn't really mind because I liked the attention, and my boyfriend didn't have a problem too. But we broke up, because I felt guilty.

    But I kinda miss it now, as my life is boring asf atm.

    • That was an interesting story. Sorry that you think your life is boring ☹️ hopefully that’ll change soon.

    • Ngl i like it more boring

    • Well then that is good too. Just curious what kinda things happened during truth or dare

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  • No. I hinted and he didn't bite. Threesomes are so much easier if you're single. Threesomes are also easier to find if you're the "third." If you're single, go on one of the many websites and find a couple. If you're a bit shy, find out where the swinger meetups are hosting an event in your area. It's usually just a restaurant.

    • Threesomes are easier if you’re a pretty female. Not so easy if you’re a middle aged man

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I was asked

    • How did your partner react?

    • @mandyfire98 I imagine your boobs being like the arc of the covenant or Pandora’s box.

  • No absolutely not... And never will either.

  • no, saske me if her cousin could jo us, FFM, and my mouth said yes before I even had a chance to think about it.
    It was a great summer, just about every weekend we would get together.

  • No. And I will not.

  • would never

  • Yes, we have an online profile.

  • Yes FFFM

    • @Sophia001 thats a foursome :O

    • @darkforcebooty with my roommates and a boyfriend of one of them

    • oh niice! mind answering some more questionsss? :)

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  • I was asked and we have did that

    • Share your experience

  • No. Stuff like that turns you into swingers.

  • I've joked about it with an undertone of seriousness

  • I do not need to ask her. When i want a threesome i just inform her and go about it.

  • We do it all the time

  • I been asked by my ex but that was just an early sign of our rl going to shit