Have you ever been caught masturbating?

[Anonymous]

My brother caught me yesterday. I feel so ashamed.
What will I do?

[Anonymous]

My cousin caught me. My cousin was staying for a week and decided to join me in the pool. She was wearing a bikini and had started to fill out, she had grown a very large set of breasts disproportionate fof her short tiny body and I couldn't help but stare, she obviously noticed and kept jokingly telling me to stop creeping. Anyway I had a very visible erection and she pointed it out making fun, I left embarrassed and upset. Later that night in bed still aroused by what I saw of my cousin in the pool I started to jerk myself off while looking through my cousin's Facebook pics of course she had ones up of her in her bathing suit from a few months ago and I must of accidentally hit like on a few while jerking and she could probably could see me online so she burst into my room to catch me masturbating. She made fun and called me gross for jerking off to my cousin but then lifted up her top and encouraged me to keep going while calling me a perv becauseshe wanted to see me cum. It didn't take me long as those boobs were amazing and she is so sexy and she jiggled them about laughing all the while.

[Anonymous]

Act like nothing happened. Seriously. Not a big deal and everyone does it. You can even "clear the air" and make a joke about it when you see him. Depending how it happened, say something like "I'm sorry I left the door open, I didn't think anyone was around" or "next time you'll knock won't you lol". But nothing to be ashamed of. If you act normal like nothing happened around him, he will as well in no time. If he feels any awkwardness, it will disappear when he sees you aren't feeling that way (even if you're pretending lol). The awkwardness will go away.

[tiffany_g]

My brother use to catch me all the time. The first couple of times it bothered me, but eventually it became no big deal. After a certain point he'd burst into my room while I was in the middle of it, tell me supper's ready, and I'd just say "I'll be out after I finish up." Freaked him out the first time I didn't jump up and cover my vag, but eventually it became no different than him walking into the living room while I was watching TV. Eventually he'd just say "wash your hands" before closing the door and going to the dinner table.

[Junıorjo]

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[Gagname]

I don’t know, maybe it’s just me, but I think your brother catching you masturbating in your room is A LOT different than him “walking into the living room while [you were] watching TV.” Lol PS: you said your brother used to catch you all the time... didn’t you have a lock on your door?

[tiffany_g]

@Gagname I don't know... I've always had a high libido, even with the slowdown people tend to experience when they hit middle age most people would consider me insatiable and, at the age of 39, I've actually had 20 year olds who would get a stiffy just from seeing a bra strap peek out from under a shirt ask if I ever took a break from sex. My parents played dumb, but I'd say the first time my brother caught me for the fifth time in one day he came to accept that if I wasn't in my room masturbating I had just finished masturbating or I was no more than an hour away from going to my room. He probably (rightly) figured that if I wasn't home after school or on the weekend, barring band practice/competitions (and even at the competitions, as they were my opportunity to cast a wider net), I was with at least one guy. He probably would have been surprised, however, at the time to find out how often I was with a gal. So yeah, to my brother it was just as normal that I was taking care of business on the other side of the wall as it was to most kids when their younger siblings just sat down in front of the TV after school. None of the doors, other than the bathroom and exterior doors, had working latches. Getting trapped in my room for a full day mere months after one of my cousins died in a house fire caused my dad to consider fully functional doors fire hazards, so he rigged them all, his own included, so they would shut but you just had to poke it with your index finger to open it.

[Gagname]

Ok about the doors & locks... so sorry about your cousin. And 5 times caught in one day, huh? wow... sure sounds like you have a (super?) high libido. Who are these 20 year olds who asked you if you "ever took a break from sex?," and how do they know about your sex life? Also, I see in your profile that you "Just Broke Up," but what is your sex life usually like nowadays--do you need to have multiple partners to keep yourself satisfied?

[tiffany_g]

@Gagname It was such a concern that when I became aware of that condition where women are always aroused and have multiple involuntary orgasms I actually talked to my doctor about it. He was surprised by my high libido, he said even teenage boys aren't as preoccupied with sex as I am, but it wasn't a physiological or neurological disorder. These 20 year olds know about my sex life because they were participants in it. I've only dated 4 men over the age of 30 since I was 19, my one night stands have ranged from just turned legal that day young to "I hope this doesn't send him to the grave" old, but as far as long term I prefer guys in the 18 - 25 range. That's not to say I'll give a guy I'm dating the boot on his 26th birthday and I'm not dead set against dating guys my age or older if I find the right one, but the guys I seek out tend to be in their early 20s. They usually ask that question when I check to see if they're ready for round 4 that night. I need to update my profile because I "just broke up" nearly two years ago and I'm actually dating a guy now. He's 23. Between relationships I alternate between a harem and one night stands. The harem is a bunch of guy friends, but we're friends with benefits. They're great guys, I still talk to them and do non-sexual things with them even in a relationship, but they're not relationship material for me. I'm ready for them to leave after three consecutive days so permanently living together would be out of the question. In relationships one guy is nearly sufficient. Once I announce my relationship my harem knows that if they call me it's only going to be to chat or for bowling or mini-golf, because sex is off the table until I'm single again. The areas where he's not sufficient no man is, which is why I will not date anyone who won't let me have a girlfriend, or a woman who won't let me have a boyfriend. Conversely if my guy is bi or wants to explore he can have one boyfriend and my girlfriend can have one boyfriend.

[Gagname]

Can we continue in pm? can you follow me?

[bananathunder]

lol sounds like my house growing up

[terez_18]

Don´t worry, it also happened a few times with my brother when he forgets to knock :D Just tell him to go away, it´s not a big deal, he masturbates too.

[steveranger]

Why don’t you join him

[terez_18]

@steveranger you´re sick

[GiventoFly01]

I was caught on 2 separate occasions when I was a teenager. Once by my mom and another time by my sister. So you aren't alone in this

[Asker]

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[GiventoFly01]

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[Asker]

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[Asker]

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[GiventoFly01]

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[Asker]

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[GiventoFly01]

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[centerline]

iIve never...
but just act like its a natural thing to do... because it IS... and he does it too.
im sure he was just as embarrassed as you so just act like nothing happened... or, keeping in mind that it is a normal thing to do, you can talk about it with him and see what his take is... you both might learn something, and im sure once the dialog gets rolling, you will find it to be an interesting topic of conversation that can take other avenues on the same subject...

[ushagomez]

Why ashamed. It is something perfectly natural and normal that everyone does especially if they don’t have a regular partner. You don’t need to do anything at all.

[ohshee]

Well i guess what ever you want or what ever you do , yes my step mom cought me twice so i know the feeling your going through and it sucks

[Alyssa11]

It's fine, he probably masturbates himself too.

[MarkyMark77]

@alyssa11 he does trust me haha. ever been caught urself or caught someone?

[Alyssa11]

@MarkyMark77 Yes I've been caught a few times by my cousin lool it was so awkward!!

[MarkyMark77]

@alyssa11 lol guy or girl cousin? what did he or she do?

[Alyssa11]

@MarkyMark77 Girl cousin and she was in her 20s and I was like 12. She stood there just shocked by the sight lmao

[MarkyMark77]

@alyssa11 haha nice! what kinda porn were u watching?

[Mikelaughs]

There is no reason to feel that way!
Hmu if you want to talk about it

[pierre7i]

When I was 19 my 18-year old cousin came into my bedroom without knocking while I was masturbating and she just stood there in what she said later was a mix of shocked surprise & fascination, her eyes wide, focused intently on my sexual hardness

I stopped masturbating and in embarassed tried to cover my nakedness but she then say in the end of my bed and told me not to be shy and said she wanted to watch me finish as she'd never before seen an ejaculation for real

[Porter21]

Nothing
I am sure he masturbates also!
If I was him I would join you and we could masturbate together! I had two brothers growing up. We would masturbate together sometimes we would watch each other cum.
Don’t be ashamed again he masturbated to you just didn’t catch him!

[slatyb]

This is as normal as peeing. Say nothing. Close the door next time. If he entered without knocking he should have said "sorry" and closed the door. That's all.

[cjgsu]

No. That would be so embarrassing 😂

[Stephrose88]

It's perfectly natural and normal. Don't feel ashamed. Tell him he's lucky you haven't caught him yet lmao

[MarkyMark77]

@stephrose88 good advice! have u ever been caught?

[Stephrose88]

Nope never lol

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

I would love to get caught by a female... lol. I'd also love if I had a girlfriend... Or if I could have had one for the last 30 years... So um it's no big deal unless you make it one.

[Jessjochen]

yes a couple of times. Just own it. Most do it.

[gandolph3]

great attitude

[minuteman12]

Do you use fingers or toys? @jessjochen

[Dave31989]

but that doesn't mean you should "intentionally" or even "on accident", get caught.. you have a problem

[Jessjochen]

@minuteman12 both

[gandolph3]

go girl

[Gagname]

@jessjochen who has caught you?

[Jessjochen]

@Gagname my mum and a friend at uni.

[Gagname]

Ok. Was the friend a female, and how did they react? And was it awkward with them after that?

[Jessjochen]

@Gagname no it was a male friend. It was a bit awkward but we got over it.

[Gagname]

Ok, that’s good

[Agape93]

Lock your door

[Dargil]

When I was in grade 10, my grade 8 sister saw the whole show around a door jam from removing my skivvies to the string of pearls up my chest.

[scuff1986]

just try not to bring it up if you see him, and if he brings it just admit it and move on with your life

[JosyJosy]

Nope

[elizamichale1]

Yup many times
hey why are you ashamed huhh it is something so natural that every one does and i can bet you anything your brother also does the same
so dont do anything and just be normal infront of him

[Ranasal_Gansen]

Yeah by my teacher when I was 13 scarred for life

[Browneye57]

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.