Girls, have you ever been denied having sex before?

You were ready to go with a guy and may have even initiated a bit, but he pulls away and says he just isn't in the mood or too tired or whatever it is.

Ever been denied sex? How do you usually feel about it after?

Girls, have you ever been denied having sex before?
Yes i have been denied and it makes me feel bad
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Yes i get denied and its not a big deal. just try another time
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No i have not been denied sex actually
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I've never had sex or attempted to initiate it ever
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  • Yeah I’ve been denied sex. My partner just hasn’t been in the mood after a long, sore day at work. And I completely understand it. Usually when denied, I ask if I can do anything sexual with him excluding sex, so like oral or groping, and if he says no then I’ll just satisfy myself in a different room. I’ve got toys, no need to have a tantrum if he says no to sex. I say no to sex often so it’s only fair.

  • Oh yeah, who hasn't? Probably more than I care to recall-
    It kind of sucks, especially if you're in the mood and he's not. Usually because he's "not in the mood," tired, or distracted by something.
    But I get the same way when I'm in relationship as well, so it's not a big deal. I'd be more concerned if a guy consistently turned me down.

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  • Yeah, I’m still in the “NO” club, but I absolutely understand that guys aren’t machines. (I mean, If they were, you could set the timer to last longer than 2mins the first time that day!) But if a guy has a headache… ah who am I kidding? If a guy had a iron spike stuck through his skull, he’d still wanna fuck!

  • Yeah, it has happened before, if he has a headache or would rather watch porn.

  • I can't say I have since I've never had sex and I also wouldn't initiate it.

  • Nope. But if you have, maybe your partner is tired. There are a lot of reasons, so don't take it personally or make you feel bad about yourself

  • All the time

  • He's been too tired / not feeling well. When you're in a long relationship is bound to happen, and over the course of being with someone for years its probably going to happen a lot of times. It's not a big deal, I understand how it feels to be too tired / not feeling well, too.

  • Yeah a few times when he's been to tired

  • Yes he says he's tired or stressed but I know it's just b/c he can't get it up b/c he's had too much to drink!

  • Yeah of course and it's nothing bad, sometimes you can be too stressed or something else is up and that's totally fine, we can cuddle and make a nice cozy night

  • yes, usually it was because he was just exhausted or not feeling well.


    Yes, I was a little disappointed but obviously I can understand that.

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