Girls, Have you ever been disappointed with the size of a guys penis?

[Tj87479]

I’m not asking if size matters or not. But have you ever been disappointed or unsatisfied with a mans penis?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Yes, I have been disappointed and unsatisfied by the size of a guy's penis quite a few times in my life. Penis size potentially determines the level of pleasure that a man provides during sex. Within my sexual experiences, sex feels much better when the penis is able to penetrate the vagina deeply and stimulate the vaginal walls through friction. Thus, longer and thicker penises are the best equipped for providing sexual pleasure. In my case, penises that feel the best for me often measure at 7 inches and longer in length, and girth wise, they are unable to fit inside a toilet paper roll when fully erect. Unfortunately, instances have existed in my life where I have dated men that quite literally received the short end of the stick. For example, during my second year in college, I worked as an order picker and shift supervisor for a temp agency. I was tasked with training a new guy that I found attractive.

After a while of talking and getting to know each other through his training, he finally asked me out and I accepted. Afterwards, we dated several times and eventually began having sexual discussions, talking about what we planned to do with each other when we get in bed together. After another date, we headed back to his apartment to do what needed to be done. After engaging in the foreplay and whatnot, when I went to undo his pants, he quickly stopped me. Confused, I asked him what the problem was. He informed me that his penis size is probably smaller than what I prefer. Honestly, him telling me this at this very moment sort of killed the mood, but nonetheless, I assured him that it should be fine. Much to my surprise, when I finally did strip his clothes off, I saw what appeared to be a 4-inch dick, and in my mind, I was regretting what I said. I had to touch it and stroke simply to verify if it was hard and it was.

I was extremely disappointed, but I didn't say anything because I really liked the guy. He put his condom on and as he penetrated me, I couldn't feel that much. Instead, I mostly felt his pelvis slamming against my body, but no dick. To add insult to injury, he came after about two or three minutes and was completely done. I rolled over, disappointed and pondering about what to do next. He then rolled over to me and asked how the sex was. Instead of catering to his feelings, I honestly told him that it wasn't good because I wasn't used to sex with penises that small. I remember him going silent for a few seconds and, mind you, because I was still facing away from him, I couldn't notice his facial expressions or anything. "Yeah, I figured that would be the case." He said. "I get told that a lot, but I thought that you would be the girl that would finally accept me."

I couldn't say anything in response to that. I just know that I felt really bad. I tried going to sleep, but couldn't. It's usually after great sex that helps me sleep, but that sex wasn't great. We just both lied in bed silently. After what seemed like an eternity, with my mind racing about the future of our relationship, I finally made up my mind. "Can you drop me back off at the school? I would probably sleep better there." "Sure," he said. We put on our clothes and the ride to the school was a silent one. When we finally did arrive at the school and when I got out the car, I told him, "One day, you will find someone that would be able to accept you. Just keep looking and you would find her." "Hopefully" was all he said after that. We both waved at each other and he drove off. After that, he never returned to his order picking job and I haven't heard from him ever since.

[Tj87479]

Wow that’s a pretty sad story. But at least you were honest with him.

[CrazyGirl2]

Yes 100% My first boyfriend and first voluntarily sexual experience was huge, like 10 inches, I’ve never had anything hurt so bad ever! (And I was raped many many times by my uncle when I was 13. Bear in mind that it 16 I was 5”1 maybe 105 pounds, but still some things are just too big for anyone but the outliers!

[Tj87479]

I’m sorry to hear that. That’s terrible. Do you have someone that your able talk to about that?

[CrazyGirl2]

Yes, I’m blessed to have a family who loves me and can afford the best therapy. I’ve been in therapy twice w week for years!

[CrazyGirl2]

@tj87479 Thank you got your concern, and for asking about it.

[Tj87479]

Omg. Of course. I really feel bad but I’m glad you have such a great family and your able to speak with a therapist. You seem like a good person, so I hope your getting the help you need.

[CrazyGirl2]

Oh yes, like I said I’ve been going to therapy twice a week since I turned his ass in! I did stop for a while a few months back, but I soon realized that I wasn’t ready! But the best part is his estate is paying for my therapy… So I might as well go forever!

[Tj87479]

Good. You should definitely go regardless if it’s paid for or not but I’m glad it is paid for. Does that horrible experience still affect you or is your therapy helping you cope? You seem like a very happy person, I hope that’s true.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well BOTH are true… it still affects me, and therapy helps me cope. I actually went to hypnosis and was able to remember him sexually abusing me back when I was 5 or 6. He’d knock me out w/ Benadryl and do god knows what but I eventually began spitting the Benadryl out. And discovered that he would rub his penis on my vulva, as well as my face, lips, and even put it in my mouth! But I’m not going to let that sick child molesting fuck take another day of happiness from me!

[Tj87479]

I’m so sorry that happened but I’m glad your getting the help and support you need. You seem really great and I hope your able to enjoy your life regardless of what a sick person did to you.

[CrazyGirl2]

Look the BEST part of this for me is that when he realized that he was being charged separately for each and every thing he did to me, (thanks to me keeping a diary) he was facing something like 89 counts of rape of a minor under 15 years of age, and 88 counts of sodomy of a minor under 15 years of age. 48 counts of kidnapping, and on and on and on! And he eventually killed himself right after my deposition and I’m guessing his lawyer who told him he’ll destroy a 13y/o on the stand, but discovered that he couldn’t shake me!! Suing his estate was rough for me and my father (it was his twin brother). My aunt was completely supportive until I sued his estate, she took it as me suing her, but I was just suing his trust fund which is the same trust my father gets, and the same trust I’ll receive when I turn 25. But even at 13 I knew that what he was doing to me was wrong, regardless of what he was trying to tell me! But these days, I lead a happy well adjusted life. Each day can be a struggle, but happiness and joy win out in the end. Because I moved for college, I lost my long term counselor, but I believe I have found someone who Is fantastic. And being a peer counselor for other young rape survivors REALLY helps me, AND them! Anyway I’ve taken enough of your time, thank you for taking the time to read this, take care!

[Tj87479]

Omfg. Sodomy to!!! What a piece of shit. I hate that he did that to you. I’m so sorry. But it seems like your turning something so disgusting and horrible into something positive with your peer counseling. That’s amazing that after all that your stable able to get help for yourself but also take on the responsibility of helping others. You are truly an amazing person and you are destined for greatness.

[CrazyGirl2]

You know that sodomy includes anything that is not vaginal sex right? So when he made me blow him, that’s sodomy, and when he went down on me, that’s sodomy too under the eyes of the law. More than just sodomy charges, he would have received a charge of sexual battery (on a minor under 15j

[Tj87479]

Oh. I thought sodomy was in the butt. Either way it’s still fucked up. Pisses me off that people do that.

[CrazyGirl2]

Thank you, it is nice to know that this offends and annoys other people, especially men. You would be amazed how many men have no issues with 40 something year old men licking 6, 7, and 8 year old girls because it “feels good” what they don’t realize is the destruction it causes our lives, our inability to have lasting meaningful relationships when we get older, not to mention the effects it has in us in our teen years! Thank you for being so understanding,

[Tj87479]

Oh your welcome but you don’t need to thank me. That’s what pisses me off. The idea that he is attracted to children is sick but fact that he actually did things is infuriating. The selfishness that he did all that for personal pleasure and didn’t care how it would affect you. Omg it’s so disturbing. How does someone hurt someone else like that.

[CrazyGirl2]

The why will never be known, he’s dead! But on the up-side, the good news is he dead!

[Tj87479]

Lol.

[FictionalCharacter]

Not disappointed, more like surprised. Since it was a pig in a blanket.

[Tj87479]

Lmfao. No it wasn’t. 😳

[FictionalCharacter]

😅😅😅

[Tj87479]

Omg your silly. Lol

[Tania16]

Never had sex

[Jessie9321]

@tania16 what would you do if a girl wanted to have sex with you?

[Tania16]

@Jessie9321 lesbian , nono