Have you ever been GROPED in public, at a bar or nightclub, or on public transport?

Describe what happened and how you felt.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Many times.

    In public: I was like 16, walking home from my friend's house, and this older man comes and squeezes my butt and I slapped his arm. He just looks at me and laughs. I told him to never touch me again as I punched his arm away.
    Then I crossed the street. He just laughed.

    Bar: Yes because I work in bars and some customers get handsy. I've had to kick them out because I don't tolerate that. I don't care how slutty other bartenders are and let you grope them, you're not doing that to me.
    Also, just going out with friends. Walking by in the crowded bars or clubs, someone always grabs my butt. I once dropped a guys drink because I punched him. It was my reflex though. I didn't mean to do it that hard but I did and the glass broke. I told him to never touch me again.

    Public transportation: yup. When I don't have my car (hate that!) And I have to take bus or train, especially at evening/night because I work as a bartender, there's a lot of older men who think it's ok to grab young ladies.

    This happened also when I was preteen. I don't know why older men are so creepy. And they laugh when you tell them to stop. It's not funny invading someone's personal space, how would they feel if their 13, 14, 15, even 19yr old or whatever age daughter was minding her own business and some 30, 40, or even 60yr old man came and grabbed them. It's not funny.

    As for how I felt, always the same. I've had hot guys grab me, and ugly guys, and young and old. Didn't matter, I always felt angry and punched, slapped, or pushed them away from me. It's a violation of space and not cute.

  • In middle school I was groped quite a bit by boys. One boy who's locker was right next to mine did it all the time, I told him over and over to stop touching me. One day during class I left to go to my locker for something, he was there, only us in the hall and he touched me again. I grabbed the back of his head and hit his face against the locker. He ran off and never touched me again.

    I've had it happen quite a few times in like department stores, when I'm just walking on the street, etc. I'll make it known, politely that I don't want to be touched. A few times I've just left the area, other times I'll start to raise my voice so people around us know what's happening.

    When I was 15 I had teal hair and a side cut, I was at this fair kindof thing, a man in his early 40s who was about 6 inches taller than me and probably 50+lbs heavier than me was drunk and noticed my hair. He walked up to me and started touching my hair asking what color it was, and why I had part of it shaved. I kept backing up trying to get away but then I was backed up against on of the vendors trailer. The guy started touching my thigh and hip asking what color my hair "down there" was and how he'd like to see it. I was so scared I couldn't move, I froze. Thankfully the man working at the vendor saw us and yelled at the guy to back off.

  • Yes, 3 times.
    First time I was 16, I was walking in the street with friends (it was a busy street) and a car full of men with the windows open passed next to me, the car slowed down and one of the guys reached his hand out of the window and touched my butt, I cried a bit and was kind of chocked.
    2nd Time I was in a Hotel in a school trip to Paris and the hall was narrow and full of guys who were drinking, I had to pass in between to get to my room and one of the guys slapped my butt... I was confused af..
    3rd Time I was in High-school and a guy took his ruler and slapped my butt with it. I was mad of course..

Most Helpful Guys

  • Not groped but I've been kind of rape-kissed before in night clubs where a girl I wasn't attracted to grabbed my face and just kind of thrust it into her face.

    I kind of just bounced back from it in those cases and told the girls I was taken (whether or not I was taken at the time) and continued having fun.

    One time a guy did that to me and I had to push him off and that did kind of bother me a little more -- hopefully not homophobia but I don't find guys attractive in the slightest, even though girls I didn't find attractive who did that to me weren't so bad. This might be comparable to a 70-year old woman doing that to me.

    That time it kind of bothered me and I left the club and went to a bar and kind of started drinking heavily.

    • even though [/the] girls

  • My brother have. We were on a train on the way to his school
    when I noticed some old man behind him having unzipped my brothers pants
    and trying to reach down there.. needless to say, I stopped him.

    • gross

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  • Yes I have been at a night club, public transport & a church (lol). But each time barring one at the night club I had my then wife with me, guess it was more a ego thing of sorts with those girls :)

  • I was leaving a Weekend concert it was crowded and out of nowhere a short Hispanic chick squeezed my boobs then said shhh! and disappeared off into the crowd lol

    I was so shocked I didn't even have time to react... Getting grope by guys is kindvofca norm for me 😒

  • Lots of times and depending if it was somone i was with or wanted to get with or not would get a diffrent reaction from me.. i let them it was great if it was unwanted they would get called some bad namezand perhaps a slap. Lol

  • A couple of times in clubs. A few tactical moves and they either go away in shame or end up on the floor.

    • you go girl!

  • At the Go-GO club... I know a lot of girls;-P My buddy did it once when he was drunk, his a little envious/jealous of my size;-)

  • From behind by some woman when I was carrying drinks back to the table, I was drunk so I didn't give a fuck.

  • I was standing in a queue and a girl groped me from behind 😐

  • Yeah... crowded night clubs... I've had my crotch area grabbed... a lot -.- but I guess it comes with the craziness so yeah.

  • Multiple times I've had my butt/crotch/arms grabbed, groped, stroked and rubbed by random girls.

    I felt neutral, if a bit aroused, I don't get offended by a random girls touching or looking.

  • Guys trying to grab my breast or butt,
    it's pretty common in places where there is tons of peoples :x

  • Yep, by a friend actually, she just gave me that ;) look
    I brushed it off

  • yes I have not often but it does happen first tell me your story

  • No... where can i apply for that situation to occur

  • once or twice in bus. I don't go to clubs (yet :D )

  • haha... like you going around telling everybody that I'm a pussy and have a small dick? can you prove it? haha.. perhaps come and fight me and we'll see the pussy is..

  • Surprised that there are more guys answering than girls.

  • Yes, twice. Once by a girl about same age while waiting for the train, once by an old man while I was leaving the train.

    • What did they do to you? How did you react?

    • The standard ass grab. Girl, surprised. Told her to stop. Man, grossed me out and wanted to tell him off, but had to run cause I was already late. In hindsight, I should have just used my fist or handbag instead of words, then I could have shown my disapproval and not miss the station at the same time.

  • that's why i avoid female showers and locker rooms. the reverse rape gangbangs are strong there when i enter... .

  • yes in club and in transport with girl it was ok, nothing wrong I wouldn't do it again, but there was lack of space that's why