Guys, Have you ever been into forced sex?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever been into any sort of sexual activity with a person that was forced on to you?
What sort of activity and which gender?

[Anonymous]

Voted "Yes, with the same gender." However, it was not really forced. It was more like persuaded.

My girlfriend finds watching two guys having sex to be a turn-on. I count myself straight, but I kind of played along and we would watch some gay porn or something.

Then at - it is almost stereotype - a Christmas party, a gay co-worker of her's happened to mention that he thought I was kind of cute. Girlfriend got an idea and asked if co-worker and I would have sex so she could watch. He loved the idea, but only if sometimes he could just have sex with me without girlfriend watching.

They thought it was a brilliant idea and came to me. I was not exactly enthralled at first, but after several weeks, and I mean weeks, of back and forth and nagging and pleading and girlfriend offering me all sorts of sex, I agreed, and for the next seven months - !!! - I was in a gay relationship (at the same time still having sex with my girlfriend.)

To my surprise, it took getting used to but I actually started to enjoy it. I was both top and bottom - and even liked being the bottom. We actually got sort of intimate, especially one week when my girlfriend went out of town on business and her co-worker stayed with me. It wasn't like we had sex every day or anything - we both had to work, we had other things going on - but we did spend time together. We got along great and the sex was actually pretty good - both when we had it in front of my girlfriend (which actually really turned me on) and when it was just the two of us. (Although I will be honest and say that my preference is still much with the ladies.)

It actually ended on a somewhat sour note. It became fairly obvious that the guy was getting pretty involved with me and we decided to end it. He took it pretty hard and it got a bit uncomfortable. My girlfriend felt especially bad and tried to set him up with another guy, but nothing really worked. Eventually he got another job and we lost touch.

Bottom line, though, it was not exactly forced, and while I enjoyed it in some sense, I would not repeat it. There were things about it that were good. Sexually, a guy has a good sense of what makes a guy feel good in a way that girls might not always know. We found we could talk about things - sports, sex, etc. - and I actually remember laying in bed with him one afternoon, we were both naked, and just cuddling and having a great conversation.

[Anonymous]

The ex-wife was one that never took no for an answer. If she wanted it then she wanted it and if you said no to her there would be hell.

[Asker]

Elaborate a bit please?

[Asker]

What sort of hell?

[Opinion Owner]

Let's see her usual tactics:- Delaying her because sleepy or tired = she will show her displeasure by turning on the lights and watching the tv or she would start slamming doors. Delaying her because want to do something else = She will take out her anger on the kids and then ask the kids to call me to tell them how mommy is punishing them. Doing it in a way she did not like = She will ask for it again. She didn't care if one is late for work or had an appointment, her needs = always first priority.

[Asker]

And she wanted lot of sex quite frequently?

[Opinion Owner]

Once per day bare minimum.

[AustinMan]

Are we talking real life or role play here?

[Asker]

Reality

[Brady]

C- no, I haven't

[oldoldold]

So the person was forced on yo.. or the sexual activity?

[Asker]

What?

[oldoldold]

I don't get your question...

[Zippi]

My older sister forced me to have sex with her

[Anonymous]

Yes. I was drunk and she pegged me.