Have you ever been scared to share your sexual fantasy/kinks with your partner?

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Superb Opinion

  • no, that's the one person I'd expect not to judge me for those things tbh. But thats why you go with someone you know is open minded enough and also thats why you dont jump in bed with them too quickly as well. You need to get to know someone first... if you're smart.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Never do anything with anyone that you don't want the world to know. Was with a girl for 16 years. We both 100% trusted each other and confided in each other. We crossed off everything on both of our fantasy bucket lists together. Now years later when our relationship is a bit unstable, when she gets a mood swing she threatens to tell our secrets. Never in a million years would I have thought she would do something like that. Be careful...

Most Helpful Girls

  • It’s a scary thing to do open up to someone especially if they are maybe a little more reserved so ya don’t wanna scare them.

    Previous I haven’t told guys what I’ve been into but now I think I’m a lot more comfortable within myself at doing it

    Try having some really flirty txts that turn a little heated u might find it easier to do it over text rather in person.

  • I am pretty open, but also don’t want to scare the person away. Lol

    • Do you wait a while before revealing what you like?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes - I mean there is no right way to say "Hey I fantasize about sleeping with your sister specifically because she's your sister and looks just like you so let's do that" - I'd be dead by the time I say "spe"

  • Well she knew before we even had a date, so bit late to try and bury them lol.

  • Yes. Embarrassed about kinks. Caused me to cheat.
    so, never again, lesson learned. I share everything and is the best sex I have ever had

  • Yes, they're too many and kind of weird

    • Like what

    • @Texas_guy I like mainly three things. Burps (extremely long, loud, and deep; preferably spontaneous). The visual aspect (no touching or similar !) of ridiculously long bowel movements. And, unsurprisingly huge cocks.

  • Yes, and the more kinkier I get, the more I want to keep it hidden.

  • Not really. I’ve never felt insecure or embarrassed about them

  • im not scared but i dont want to share my kinks with anyone, i just want to keep it to myself.

    • Wouldn't you need a partner to explore those kinks?

    • no id just hope he would have the same kinks so i wouldn't have to tell him

  • I do not have compelling sexual fantasies but there are things I like done that I have revealed.

  • No, she was always quite willing to shove the lamp up my ass.

  • Never

  • No I haven’t

  • Yes, but when I finally told him he acted them out with me and ended up liking them too. He made me feel very accepted and good :)

  • Yes.

  • No. He already know mine and he likes them a lot

    • I wanna know too😁

  • Yes. She is very innocent and emotional. I fear it would do her more harm than anything

  • When I was younger, I was hesitant to share, but not so much anymore.

  • hell no, you got to talk about what you like

  • My ex was open to talk about anything my current partner hates sex

  • I really want to try pegging ultimate afraid if sharing that with her tbh